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hey i hate the mintiness burn of toothpaste and i heard baking soda works, but how do i use it as a toothpaste?? thanks for anyone who helps!

there are different flavors of toothpastes but the baking soda is probably the arm&hammer toothpaste. i think it has baking soda in it somehow so look for it.

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hey everyone i am a 13 year old female and i want to have a boy/girl mix party again this year but i dont know what to do for a party this year last year i took some of my friends to caniobe lake park does any one have any ideas on what i could do this year??

you could have some kind of house party or you could go bowling or to a movie. if its warm enough have a pool party. if you go to the park, go on a hike, play games or just go out and talk. have a good time!

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ok well i got fish along time ago..and everytime my mom cleans out the aquarium one of the fish die! idk if their used to the new water or not but my baby shark that ive had for like a year now just died :( how can i stop this from happening?

--ill rate high if u give good answers --

x0ox

it might be that the water's temperature is different or they need a different kind of water. try going to the pet shop you got them at or just any random pet shop and they can help with the specific kind of fish you have. good luck!

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f/14
I asked a question before but i wanted to put a little more detail-same subject
The guy that i like, we hang out after school so its not just a school relationship and i have his sn so we are already friends (good friends) too bad i hate his other friends. you can read the other one to get the situation

you dont have to hang out with his friends. you can double date with another couple (when your goin out) that are your friends or just your friends. you could try to survive his friends every once in a while. you could try hangin be yourselves if your allowed. this is kinda confusing so lemme know if u need it clarified.

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I just became a moderator and I am having trouble finding out how I can become a level 2 moderator. Thanks in advance!

im not really sure how this question came throught but ill answer it anyway. go to "help & FAQs" and it will tell you everything you need to know about bein a mod and how to get there. feel free to ask anything else!

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I have to ask this question, out of pure and utter curiousity. Is Targets running somewhat of a scam? The Ipod Minis are on sale, well, they give you a $15 gift card with the purchase of the mini thats 4G, but every store is "SOLD OUT", and I find this HARDDDD to believe, due to the fact the sale just started, and every store is like "WE got a HUUUGE shipment yesterday, but they sold out".

WOW. i didnt know about that but i can see how they would try to do that. its seems like they want you to buy the ipod...but since they dont have it, theyre not making any money and theyre making ppl like you and i angry. hmm ill check the stores in my area ... ask me and ill let you know.

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I'm going on a school trip Wed-Fri. and I've got my period the heaviest it's ever been. It's like I have to change my pad every hour. I've never gotten cramps and now I have them really bad. During the trip we are going to make a couple rest stops off the bus. I can't put a pad in my pocket because it will be obvious..This is going to ruin my whole trip! I won't feel well and all my friends are going to have fun. I can't bring medicine either...it isn't allowed. I might have to wear a couple pads at once and like two pairs of underwear until I can quitely try to change it. Please help me get through this because I don't know what to do! I will remember this trip forever too. =/

about the medicine, i usually sneak motrin personally. if one of your friends moms is chaperoning, you could have them hide supplies to avoid it accidently opening, revealing it all to the class. usually moms carry a big bag and wouldnt mind helping out since they have been there, done that. good luck and try to have fun!

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does anyone know where i can go and somewhere link the music i want so it can be able to play on xanga or something? like it's from a CD and i got it into my computer but i want to be able to link it that everyone can hear it. hope you can help. thanks!

some users actually have pages with just codes for xanga pages. check blogrings and youll find some to add to your page.

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16/f--I don't have BAD acne, but I have little red bumps on my face (I wash my face twice a day, but I just somehow still get little pimples). As I said, its not that bad and its nothing makeup can't fix. I've been using two different kinds of face makeup (liquid stuff and powder stuff), but I just ran out. I don't want to use the same stuff, but I'm not sure what to use. I'm not that experienced with types of makeup and what they do. Whats the difference between concealer, foundation, compact, and any other face makeup, and what exactly do they do?

Thank you.

well i know this is a lil late but i think your problem is either a- your not putting on moisterizer b4 the makeup or b-the makeup could be irritating your skin causing you to break out. try not wearing makeup or if thats impossible wear a moisterizer.

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I just got a boyfriend 2 days ago, but i havent had a b.f. in a while and i dont noe how to like act like his girlfriend and not just his friend. I only see him a few times a day, cus were not in many classes together, but i dont noe whut to do! Id appreciate anything! =] .. i rate high!

plan to do things outside of school like hang out or go to movies and stuff. you could hold his hand if hes comfortable with it. at school you cant really do much but be there to share a smile or give him a hug.

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i know this question was already asked but i need more opinions... ok im in 8th grade and ive been going out with this guy for a long time we useally go to the movies talk on the phone and just hang out in school..the other day i asked him to come overmy house and as soon as i left went to my best friend and was like guess where im going on friday ..rachels house and she like she didn't tell me that and he goes i know she just asked me and like the whole week he sounded really excited that he was comeing to my house he would be like im dying to see your house and i can't wait till friday.. the night before he came over he called me and was looking my house up on map quest lol and then he was like we have to do alot of stuff over the summer because ill miss you too much and i thought that was soo cute the next day in the hall i asked him what time he was gonna come over and he said after lacrosse practice he had to take a shower and then his parents were going to his grandpas birthday party and they whould drop him off on the way there and i was like u can't miss your grandpas party for me and hes like yeah i can its the same thing every year soo i was like okk then he sat next to my best friend and goes im goign to rachels tonight but im scared i haveing been to a girls house in forever...later that night he called me and said that his grandpa was going to flip if he didn't go to his party and hes like this sucks i really wanted to hang out with you and was like i promise well do it this week which we have off..i even drove by his house and there was no lights on and nobody was home ....today someone told me that they saw him at a lacrose game that night..im soo shocked i can't believe he would tell me that he hd to go to his grandpas party and then go to a game with his friends ive allways thought he really liked me like with the stuff he does and says but i dont why he did this like i cant believe it please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

well posative he lied? i really think you should confront/talk to him about this so you can find out what really happened. it seems like he really likes you and was looking forward to spending time with you so dont take it personally. i hope everything works out 4 you 2.

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I've realized how alot of girls are asking how to loose weight and such. Everyone wants a flat, toned tummy, and it really bothers me because we think we have to be like all of these models and stars so guys will like us. Guys, honestly, do you want a stick for a girlfriend or a little cusion for the pushin? I mean back in the 70s and 80s people werent so judgmental and didn't look at someone and say, "your fat". I mean can i get an AMEN! Im sick of people saying they are fat, and saying they need to loose weight when they dont. Think about it! Leave comments and explain why you want to be a stick.

AmEn! =)

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okay this guy im going out with is so shy! i can never get him to talk... lol.. any ideas!!??

what is it with guys being shy?! thats the one thing that i love the most and hate the most about my bf. i love the mystery but i hate not knowing. try talking to him alone if it makes him more comfortable and hang out with a group so it wont be akward. hint: guys LOVE talking about themselves...especially when the girl is dying over theyre every word lol.

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im 15 and i still have an A cup... all my friends have like huge boobs and i have no idea how to make mine any bigger!! how can i?!

it depends on the rest of your body. seriously, dont worry about it! im an A and its ok cuz you dont have to worry about shirts being too short (my friend has that problem) or being called names for being stacked. you still have time and waiting for them will be like watching the grass grow so try different bras and things.

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Hey. I'm 13 years old and in 8th grade at the moment. Right now I'm registering for high school classes for next year. I'm definitely taking Latin 1. Since there aren't very many honors classes for freshmans, I think I want to take Spanish 1 also (it's not a honors class. I want to take it because I think I can use it a lot in the real world or w/e). My question is, do you think I should take 2 languages?

Thanks.

well i speak spanish and the 2 are VERY similar. i say go for it bc u will learn a lot form both that you can use in the real world (word bases or origins from latin and spanish in the workforce.)

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i goto school looking great..no makeup off or anything, and by the end of the day i look like crap and all the other girls dont..is it my makeup? why is this happening? i use clinque foundation..but i doubt that has anything to do with it..thanks! xoxo

you can try touching up during the day or something. it might be that you sweat or have oily skin.

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okay ... you see lately my mom has been getting me all these babysitting jobs that i really dont want. i've asked her to stop and she has, but one mother wants my to babysit on a regular basis! she has three kids(2, 4 and 6) and i really cannot handle them. the middle child is pretty good, but the 2 year old cries a lot and the 6 year old is always being mean to the middle one and i cant take it! can someone please help me find a way to tell the mother i cant babysit for her regularly. thanks so much!

you should recommend someone you know to alernate with since this is obviously and awful position to be in. lemme know you need actual things to say

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My boyfriend's parents just don't like me and I can't figure out why! I don't smoke, drink, or do anything like that. I'm in college with a 4.0 GPA for Journalism and Communications and I do lots of volunteer work. What's not to like?!? All my ex-boyfriend's mom's have loved me to death: I even still hang out with one of them! I also do so many things for my boyfriend, such as when he has a big test to study for, I'll organize his desk, do his laundry, or bring him dinner. I leave him sweet notes in the morning! We've been going out for 2 years, and he absolutely loves me, yet his parents have a different opinion. They tell him that he needs to date other people and that they don't think I'm right for him. This is just so strange to me! What's going on?

you seem like a great person! some people judge on religion, past relationships, appearence (trashy, ect.) or even credit scores. theyre not very smart people if they judge that way bc its the inside and what your bf loves you for that really counts.

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All my friends have had a boyfriend before except me. I really want one, but there is no one that seems right for me. A few guys have asked me out, but i have refused. I am more obsessed with school than guys, but sometimes i wonder if i should spend more time trying to get a boyfriend. I also find that most boys i was attracted to had been my friends. I am not sure why that is. Maybe because i knew them so well?
~Wondering

its ok! my best friend who i look up to had a few bfs b4 me bc she went out with just anyone. i waited for the mr right (not mr right now) and its great. dont get a bf just bc your friends have one...only go out with someone if you really like them. as for your friends, they probably like you bc they see that you have a great personality.

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Okay, about a year ago I realized i had like pink/red lines on my inner thighs. i didnt think anything of it but now there are A LOT!! and there dark red and if u look at them at an angle it looks like ridges!! Please tell me what this is!!
*thanks* I'll rate!

stretch marks! i have them too and they suck. you cant really do anything about them unless you fill out.

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