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I've realized how alot of girls are asking how to loose weight and such. Everyone wants a flat, toned tummy, and it really bothers me because we think we have to be like all of these models and stars so guys will like us. Guys, honestly, do you want a stick for a girlfriend or a little cusion for the pushin? I mean back in the 70s and 80s people werent so judgmental and didn't look at someone and say, "your fat". I mean can i get an AMEN! Im sick of people saying they are fat, and saying they need to loose weight when they dont. Think about it! Leave comments and explain why you want to be a stick.
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Right on, sistah. I'm a bigger one myself, but I've learnt to love it and everything. I walk down the street with confidence, and I still get guys looking at me. A lot of guys do care about the size that you are, but if you think about it, why would you want to be with someone like that anyways? There's plenty of guys who don't even notice a girls weight when they meet them. I think it's all in the face and personality.
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AmEn! =)
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I agree with you. I am not saying I want to become a stick or anything, I am not girlie at all really, it's not like I wear skirts everyday to school like some do, since I haven't in the last 3 years. Yet I still want a some what flat stomach in the summer when it comes beach times thats all. But I do agree with you and when I see some who is skinny like crazy (my sister for example) and they say they are fat, I say "yeah your fat in the head" because they are so skinny compared to half the world. But I agree with you!!
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Well I completely agree with what you have to say. I'm thin and there are girls that are the same size as me saying they wish they had my body. It's odd. Anyway, but you have to see it from their point of view, I mean, I could see where they're coming from wanting to be a twig. Everywhere you look, you see a skinny chick and in society today, in order to be pretty THAT'S what you need to look like. I have friends who are a bit on the heavy side and let me tell you, they are BEAUTIFUL, beautiful girls. But because of what everyone is saying that with a 22 inch waist you're beautiful, they want that. Back in the day if you were voluptuous you were gorgeous and if you were that thin, you were considered to be unhealthy and ugly. A few years back I wanted to be a model. I was in 6th grade. I was 5'2" and I weighed 90 pounds. I had a 21 inch waist maybe a little bigger but my manager told me I needed to lose weight because I was too fat. I was a 00. How in the HELL is that fat? And then of course with this stupid Paris Hilton who if she was any skinnier she'd be a skeleton with skin on top, they think she's beautiful. I look at her and I'm disgusted. How can someone be that thin? How could someone do that to themself? That is the most disgusting thing I have EVER seen! But men think it's beautiful and that's how they want their women. That's my opinion anyway.
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amen!
people think being skinny makes them a beautiful person,which builds confidence,me myself,im skinny,but i eat...a LOT. Sometimes people are just skinny because there body. My friend thinks shes that fattest person ever,and shes a 0 in jeans!!! How could you get skinnyer?
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AMEN!!
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I agree.
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i dont really have that problem because im happy with myself the way i am, but what iv heard from alot of friends is they just seem to be happier when they're thin because not only do they get more attention, but they have more self confidence and for anyone, being healthy just feels nice! i think what alot of people dont realize is there is a difference between healthy and thin/skinny. xxo!
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it makes me feel more comfertable about myself when i`m skinny. not just because i think guys like it. it is more comfertable. weeeeeeeeeee. -sarah, larel, ali
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People who want a toned stomach and whatnot aren't necessarily "sticks" that is stereotyping right there. Would you want to see a 300 pound woman in a bikini? I don't think so! It sounds like you are just jealous. Being skinny came make a person feel better about themselves and therefore, they think they will look better. People are trying hard to be skinny because hello, half of the US is overweight. When the government steps in and says it's not right that soo many people are fat, then that's what people should want to be skinny.
-Brianna
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i like both. i prefer a bit of cushion, a size 8-10 or so, but some girls can pull of being even bigger. then again stick girls are cute as well, but i really dont like being able to see a girls ribs when shes just standing up straight. if shes bending backwards and some ribs show, then thats ok i guess but even that isnt all that attactive.
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