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me and my boyfriend were together for about 6 months i went away and we both cheated he tryd to have sex with his x and it really hurt me so bad hes a compulsive liar to the point were he was goin to go to counceling now nothing is the same between us i love him so much i think im depressed when im not with him i sit at home waitin for him to call but he drinks to much im scared hel do it again. we fight about 3 times a day what am i sposed to do ! HELP (link)
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You won't like my answer but here goes.
You need to pick yourself up, go out with some friends and move on. The relationship you had with your ex was no good then and nothing has changed now.
You say you BOTH cheated. You do not cheat on someone you care about. It was over when you went away. What he tried to do with his ex is his business. You were no longer in the picture for him.
He cheats, he lies, he makes life for you miserable, move on. He isn't going to get help for his lying. You need to stop talking to him and stop seeing him, it is just keeping hope alive for you so stop torturing yourself. It will be tough for you to do, but you have to.
Good luck.
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I was just wondering how long after someone fingers you, if your a virgin, would u bleed. It happened last night and I started bleeding today. We never had sex but is this possible or could it be something like an early period? Thanx (link)
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If you were going to bleed from being fingered it would happen right then. You are probably just having an early period. :)
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well this is really complicated...
my gf and i broke up because my parents dont want me going out yet.now, we would have been going out for 5 months if we hadnt broke up with at the time that we did. her parents told her that the only way to get over me is to not have anything to do with me.so i had done the same thing, ttaken all he stuff that reminded me of her, and either putting it in the very back of my closet, or throwing it out(cds, letters, cards, gifts, pictures,etc)so i didnt have to bare it, because everytime i see her or am reminded of her now, i get depressed. and she goes to my church(which is today) and i dont know what to do because im afraid to see her because i KNOW that i wont be able to talk to her. and shes all i think about so it makes it harder. i dont know what to do. i feel discouraged because of this. i feel useless. and i feel like i might as well let everything go.
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Honestly I think you are both taking this to far. Just because your parents don't want you to be exclusive at the moment doesn't mean you can't still hang out with her in a group of friends type setting
does it?
So you knock off the smooching and stuff until your parents allow you to date. Unless she wants to go out with someone else I don't think it hurts a relationship to become even better friends before dating someone exclusively.
Hopefully, not seeing you at all was just a suggestion her mom made and not something she is demanding of her. Talk to her and see if she would agree. :)
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last night i was at a party that my girlfriend dropped me off at because she trusts me, but i got really drunk and cheated on her, now she doesnt know anyone that was at that party, and if i dont tell her, shell never know, but i feel guilty because she does trust me, but the whole reason i dont wanna tell her, not so im not the bad guy or not so she dont leave me, but because it will hurt her, and i really do love her so thats the last thing i want to do. overall im not a cheater, i was really drunk and would never have done it sober. should i tell her?? (link)
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NO. You feel guilty and thats a good thing. :)
Telling her might ease your guilt but that only helps you. She will be hurt, and if you do not intend it to happen again, she is hurt for no reason.
People make mistakes. Young people make a lot, thats part of learning. I hope your guilty feelings are punishment enough. If you didn't feel guilty, I'd guess you didn't care about your girlfriend and the answer would be different.
So in the future don't get drunk enough you don't know what your doing. And keep the secret. :)
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Ok a famous guy said that the secret to his perfect white clean baby skin is:
"My secret is that i don't use soap or cleansing cream to wash my face."
"When i was young, i got skin trouble aftering using soap. So afterwards i only use water to wash my face. So if you wash your face only with water, you can get a white, clean & baby skin like me."
Does that mean that he didn't use any acne medicatin and just washed his face with water?
So does that mean I can stop using acne medication from the doctor and just wash my face with water? (link)
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I don't know that I have baby like skin but I don't now nor have I ever used soap on my face. I just never did. I do use the hottest water I can stand, which is very hot. I have never had an acne problem
myself. Every now and then I will get a small blemish, but nothing major. :)
EDIT.....
I never used any acne medication. You might try not using the acne med for a couple of weeks and see how it works for you. If it doesn't work, you can always go back to using it. If you want to you might try using one of those face mask packs once a month or so. Be sure to test it on a small spot on your face first to make sure you can tolerate them. ygsgirl tried one once that had her face really red when she was finished. She is VERY fair complected though. They really make your skin feel nice when you remove them. :)
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I have come to the point where I cant write, concentrate, derive pleasure from anything, have difficulty remembering things, have blurred vision, eyes seriously hurt, sometimes have severe headaches, most of the time dont know what I am talking especially with my elder brother. I have nt got father and mother I live my elder brother and his wife since 6 years. I am 26/M an MBA had a successful career but now since six months things have been deteriorating. I cant bear it any more. Plz tell me the easiest way to commit suicide which hurts less and is quick and doesnt make much of a mess. (link)
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We won't give you any information on suicide methods here.
You need to seek some medical help. Everything you describe could be related to any number of FIXABLE medical problems. Even if you are depressed you can be treated and feel better soon.
Don't give up. You have a brother who would miss you. You just need to get your life straighted out. Get a good job, get your own place, someday make your own family. First you need to to get some medical help so all that is possible.
I realize that medical costs are awful. This is something that is well worth that price though. You do not need a special kind of doctor right now. Any doctor (or even an emergency room if things get rough) will do. Dig out those yellow pages and start fresh as soon as possible! You can do it. :)
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I got banned 1 week ago, but i still want to be a moderator. i know i have to wait 6 weeks but i was wondering if i can be a featured user if i got banned JUST ONCE for putting my e-mail address on an answer. (link)
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http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?f=31
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somtimes ill ask a question on here. and like they dont show up on my comp. its weird.. but yeah.
help. (link)
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Try reading the Help/FAQ. :)
Questions have to be approved before they go on the site. Most are approved pretty quickly but, if real life happens it can take as long as 6 hours for the questions to be approved.
Not all questions make it through. If the spelling is awful or people use a lot of texting abbreviations, or any number of other things they get deleted. You are informed if that happens.
I know its hard but you just have to be patient. Please do not keep sending the questions in either
because if we see it to often we just ban the account.
I know there is more info here than you asked for
but others will read your questions and wonder. I know you are probably not in any of those categories, its just been a long day.
Oh and complaining in this case will do you no good. :)
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what does the gyneologist (sry i can not spell) do?
thanx (link)
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Pelvic exams, pap smears, and they take care of pregnant women. Here is a site that will tell you everything you want to no and more. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/gyn_stuff.htm
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The medication i'm taking says "DO NOT LIE DOWN FOR 30 MINUTES AFTER TAKING MEDICATION"
why. (link)
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It could be it will cause you to have acid reflux or heartburn.
You can call the pharmacy and ask them, they will tell you why since they know the medication you are taking. :)
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What does acid from fruits do to your body and why is the acid bad? My apple juice said, now with less juice acid! No idea what that is though.. (link)
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The acid isn't really bad. Some people get heartburn and acid reflux if they drink some juices that are high in acid. Orange juice is really acidic and can cause problems.
I'm sorry I don't know exactly what it is. Its not something added though, its natural acid. :)
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Hey YG I left you an e-mail, can you please check it when you get the chance I really need your help. Thanks (link)
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I replied. I didn't see anything there that was very bad though. If I can help in another way please let me know!
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I am 14/F and I want to eat the food groups what we are suppose to eat so I can keep healthy. How much grain, fruit, vegetable, etc. do I need to eat? I don't like milk, so what is another way I can drink it? I like cereal though. Is eating two slices of bread good to accomplish my grain servings? (link)
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Here is a site that lists what you are supposed to eat along with age appropriate amounts. If you have a printer you may be able to print it out for yourself.
http://www.kidshealth.org/parent/nutrition_fit/nutrition/pyramid.html
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Okay this sounds like i'm coomplainging but everytime when I try to help someone out to the fullest, I end up getting a lousy 3 or 4, and I think people are being really inconsiderate, because I am trying to keep my average score for helping up, but anyways is anyone else having the same problem? To me It's not even worth answering peoples questins anymore cause I will end up getting an even lower score...so basically my question is this
Is anyone else having the same problem?
and please don't tell me oh you probably misread the question or misundestood it cause I just double checked all of the questions I answered and I have tried helping them. (link)
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In reality, if people are rating correctly 5's should be a rare rating. 3 and 4 are good ratings.
Ratings guidelines
A rating of 1 should only be given if you feel the advice you got was so abusive that the one answering should be banned from the site.
Rate a 5-For answers you think are really great. If someone seems to have gone out of their way to look things up for you, or put in extra effort to give you a well thought out answer, give them a 5.
Rate a 4- If you were given a really good answer that you just might try and use.This is the rating you will probably use a lot of.
Rate a 3- If the person tried and the answer is good but maybe they didn't put a lot of thought into it. Or maybe it just isn't quite what you were looking for, but was still pretty good advice.
Rate a 2- If the advice wasn't harmful but wasn't what you wanted. Can also be used If you get someone repeating what the person before them said. Remember to look at the time the question was answered (close times may have been answered at the same time). Also remember that the first person who answered your question is on the bottom of your list of answers. Read them from bottom
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Rate a 1- Rate a one if the persons answer was rude or offensive. If they advised something
dangerous or illegal. If someone is bad enough to get a one, you should follow up by filing an abuse report. The link to the abuse reports is in the blue column on the left side of the page. Be sure you copy and paste the question link in the address bar so we can find it.
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when you post a question does it show who posted it somewere? (link)
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L2 and up have access to the information. We don't go looking for it though unless the question seems to be a duplicate or is inappropriate. There are very few us that are real active on the site right now, and we do not give the info out to others.
You are anonymous to everyone else.
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Well, I know what TSS Is, but how do you get It? It says the symptons of it on the instruction thing. My friend said you can get TSS from having the tampon in for too long, because the blood just sits there and it drys up...But then again my friend who said It Is a Guy. He might be right, I don't know.
Can anyone tell me how people get TSS? (link)
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Here is a site that will answer all your questions about TSS. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/tss.htm
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Ok my friend Susanna (who is thin) lives with her mom. Her mom decided to make soup chicken noodle soup to take over to her one of her two granddaughters who is sick. So she asked Susanna to taste a teaspoon of the soup and the noodles. Susanna said "Mom no noodles" Her mother replied "You are not going to gain weight from a few noodles" Susanna left to go answer her phone and then came back and said "I wasnt thinking about weight" Her mom said "But I know you you watch what you eat" Susanna said "But mom I never gain weight" Her mother replied "Absolutely you never gain" Susanna asked her friends after she told them the story "Is my mom saying I gain weight if I dont watch what I eat" And her friends said "No your mom isnt saying that, what your mom is saying is she is agreeing with you that you never gain weight, but she knows you watch what you eat" MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH SUSANNAS FRIENDS?
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I think Susanna's mother was just talking and didn't mean anything by it.
I think Susanna probably just questions everything her mother says to the point that he mom doesn't know what to say for fear of setting her off.
Susanna really needs to just live her life and stop worrying so much about what others say. People around her will just start saying whatever will make her happy and stop telling her the truth pretty soon just to keep her from rambling on.
I think in this case your friends know what they are talking about. The mother was simply talking and didn't mean anything negative. Sounds like Susanna has a caring mother. :)
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what exactly is mocha? is it chocolate flavor or coffee flavor or what? (link)
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It is a rich Arabian coffee.
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I havnt started my period.What does it look it like?And can you feel it come out.I can feel my discharge comeout sometimes is this normal?What are pantyliners? (link)
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Here is a site with information about menstruation. :)
http://www.coolnurse.com/menstrual.htm
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What's an IQ and EQ stand for? (link)
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IQ= intelligence quotient
EQ= educational quotient
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