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what do i do when i love someone but everything not working!
me and my boyfriend were together for about 6 months i went away and we both cheated he tryd to have sex with his x and it really hurt me so bad hes a compulsive liar to the point were he was goin to go to counceling now nothing is the same between us i love him so much i think im depressed when im not with him i sit at home waitin for him to call but he drinks to much im scared hel do it again. we fight about 3 times a day what am i sposed to do ! HELP
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This guy's a total jerk. I know it sounds hard, but you have to move on. Just think about what he's done to you...
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Yup. They nailed it.
A guy who "cheats," who is a compulsive liar, an alcohol abuser, and someone who fights with you three times a day? Where are you gonna find another like that? Hopefully, nowhere. Would you keep a friend who always lied to you, let you down, drank excessively, and fought with you several times a day? Why is this worthwhile for you? Seriously.
I assume you have either school or a career to devote your time and attention to. Please get out of this situation before you accidentally bring a child into this messed-up situation.
There's someone else out there for you as soon as you decide you don't need to be treated this way.
Sabine
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Young Gram is right and you probably knew it, but it is hard to face sometimes that something has failed. Remember, the relationship failed, but you are not a failure. Pick yourself up and get out of the situation with a little bit of a bruised ego, and tired emotions, but a wiser and stronger self. You won't make the same choices in the future. Be the woman the man of your dreams is looking for and you will find each other when the time is right. In the meantime, don't lower your standards for anyone less.
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You won't like my answer but here goes.
You need to pick yourself up, go out with some friends and move on. The relationship you had with your ex was no good then and nothing has changed now.
You say you BOTH cheated. You do not cheat on someone you care about. It was over when you went away. What he tried to do with his ex is his business. You were no longer in the picture for him.
He cheats, he lies, he makes life for you miserable, move on. He isn't going to get help for his lying. You need to stop talking to him and stop seeing him, it is just keeping hope alive for you so stop torturing yourself. It will be tough for you to do, but you have to.
Good luck.
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