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My self esteem.
Hm well. My boyfriend & I have been going out for 8 months, and I love him more than anything. I know for sure I do. It's just sometimes I get really depressed, and when I'm listening to music alone or something like sad songs I just really upset with myself, and think I'm not good enough for him. He treats me amazing, and we're together constantly, everyday! It's just I don't know. I know he loves me, I do. I just have the lowest self asteem. I need it to be better. Hm. Is there anyway I can, cause like I don't really wanna tell him. Thanks.
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Listen,
I know exactly what you're going through, for I've been through it as well-except without a boyfriend.
Anyways, when your boyfriend says that you're beautiful, LISTEN TO HIM. Don't just let it go in through one ear and out the other.
Your boyfriend loves you for WHO YOU ARE, or else he wouldn't have stayed with you for 8 whole months!
Some girls would KILL to look like you. I know, I've never seen you before, but trust me, it's true.
And, like the person below me said, list your good qualities. I bet there'll be more good than bad! ;o)
Remember-everyone gets sad sometimes. Just don't let it happen all the time..otherwise, you'll turn depressed.
Good luck hon!
Hope everything works out for you.
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i feel the same. what i like to do when im feeling down is tell my boyfriend, then he tells me im amazing, and that he loves me, and it really makes me feel good about myself!
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lists. it sounds retarded like the sort of thing a first grade teacher would tell her students to do. but it works make a list of good and bad see which wins I'm not saying just sit there and make a list at once-but every time you get complimented or you compliment yourself write it down and the same with the bad and downing stuff do it for a week and then reply telling me which side "wins"
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All I Know Is You Should Love Yourself, If You Can't Love Yourself How Do Expect Anyone Else To Love You, I Know That Might Sound A Bit Harsh But It's True. I'm Sure Your Boyfriend Does Love You But You Do Need To Love Yourself.
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Instead of thinking that you're not good enough for him, you should think: "I'm so lucky to have him, I'll enjoy it now because it might be gone someday." Learn to enjoy the present, don't worry about the future. You can deal with the future when it gets here. Treat him the same way that he treats you, he seems like a really nice guy. And, 8 MONTHS! You wouldn't want to lose that!
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