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Im 15 years old and me and my boyfriend are haveing sex with out a condom and the other night he went in my twice can i still get pregnet even if im on the pill????

well theres always a chance that you can get pregnate. if your on the pill, i dont think theres a bigger chance if he goes into u twice tho. it should protect you the same amount. plz be safe!

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its my day off from school. i dont really feel like going to hang out eith friends i just wanna chill home. can anyone give me some funn sites.
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homestarrunner.com ,ebaumsworld.com, iambored.com ,launch music, astrology.com, advicenators.com, or just make a random webpage on xanga or freewebs.

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there is a boy on the bus i ride..his name is nick..and he is soooo hot! how can i get him to notice me? he is shy and dosent really talk alot and i want him to notice me without it being that i like him too obvious...i'll rate! thanx!

note about shy guys: they will notice you but they wont let you know they see you. my bf does that ALL the time! so just ask him a question & smile at him.

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Er. This is a long one. Sorry about that.

Ever since last year, I've liked this guy. There's no specific reason, I mean, we didn't have a lit in common THEN, but I guess we do now. And there was a dance at the end of last year. I was just dancing with my friends, but my friends felt bad for me, so they asked him to dance with me. (his name is Zach) I never even really wanted to, [I'm really super shy] and he had a girlfriend. So I was totally fine with him not dancing with me. But...my friends asked him, and I never even knew that they did until he walked over and gave me the "I like you, but only as a friend" speech. And yada, yada, yada. All I know is I spent the whole night crying. Not at the dance. I'm not one who likes to cry in front of the person who made me cry. So when I got home, I spent the whole night crying.

Early this year, I wrote him a letter apologizing for what my friends had done. I didn't want to annoy him, so when he asked for no more letters, I didn't write him any. Until he got a letter in his locker that read "I want u I need u oh baby oh baby" And he threw it at me, thinking it wa smy note sent to him. Well, it was sent by this girl named Amanda, who we think likes Zach too.

So I wrote him a note. Like I said, I am shy, and since he was mad at me, I didn't know what else to do. [Was this a good descision?] I was just saying that I didn't write the last letter [The oh baby one] and he believed me. Zach broke up, and got another girlfriend. And all was well. We were friends.

But now we have more in common, and he doesn't have a girlfriend. Should I take the kill, risking rejection for the up-teenth time? Or should I just go for his friend who I think likes me? I like them both pretty well equally. I wouldn't say the same thing if it was last year, but I've gotten a lot more lienent with guys since then. I've also realized that Zach and I are probably never going to happen. What should I do?

I'm trying to be wise with the signoff...

♥ *ad0rkable* ♥

well i can see you ot wanting to get rejected but honestly theres not that much to lose. dont put all you self worth into whether he likes you back or anything, it will make you unhappy. get to be a closer friend, kinda flirt with him (its gonna take some confidence!) and sometime later bring up the word "us" and see how he reacts. hope everything works out! adorkable? lol

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well i did community service last week with my friend and a bunch of kids from my school, and we had to serve food and stuff to the senior citizens. i got assigned table 1 and so did josh

hmm well maybe you both got to know each other a little bit better. thats cute! anyway, as for the shyness...im still trying to figure out the shy guys but if he wants to hang out then thats definatly a good sign. smile at him when you see him & try to spend time with him. put him in your profile if you have aol. if you dont wanna call him (im phone-phobic too!) then pass him a note or tell him to get online when you pass him in the hallway. if he continues to shows signs that e likes you (flirting, smiling, ect.) and you want to be with him, you might have to ask him out b/c hes shy. feel free to ask more on this...im always here!

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i have never baby sat for kids before but my neighbour has asked me to help. I really want to do this but the baby is only about 11 months old and i've no idea what to do with it . I'm really scared that it might have a cot death, or that i might drop it. Any tips?

well i would be concerned if the baby was 6 months but at 11 months you should be ok. he or she should be crawling and you could hold them, pass a ball, watch tv, play with stuffed animals or lay them down for a nap. go on the red cross site, they should have some health precautions for babysitters there.

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Hello, I have recieved several threatening letters over the past year from my father. The threats include having me put in hospital, also stating that he has had a curse put on my daughter and myself to ensure that something bad happens to us, and general insults and abuse aimed at my wife daughter and myself. We have really had enough of this, is there anything I can do and should I go to the police ? I am convinced that he is going to pay someone to come and do physical harm to my family or myself. He is quite old and in a poor state of health, but is and has always been a very brutal person having caused misery and suffering over many years mainly to his wife and children. All I have done to promt these letters is to write to him listing his bad deeds over the years and telling him what I thaught of his behaviour, this was without any aimed insults from me. My letter to him was in response to further bad behavior on his part.

Yours and Best Regards

Daniel

please call the police before something happens to your family. dont wait until there someone holding a gun to your daughters head! stay safe,

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Ok there's this grl at skewl and i HATE her so0o0o much. Well our Principal called us both down to the office once to talk to us...he asked us if we had ever gotten along and she said "Well at one point we were good friends" I was like WTF!?!? (not out loud of course) But anyway wenever she is mean to me (she is only wen shes with her friends and im not) i want to stand up to her but then i never find a chance or im afraid ill get in a fight and get suspended or something. Anyone kno wut i could do? Plz help...i rate good!

if its just that you hate her, dont fight her unless she initiates it. that really sucks but violence isnt the answer and its just another one cat fight. please hold back, i know how hard it is.

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I just got converse today..my friend said not to wear them for a long period of time, till fully broken in..there hightops..does anyone know how long it would take be4 I can wear them to School? *btw were on spring break so I go back May 2nd*- thx

well my friend and i both have converses and no one ever told me that. they hurt the first time i walked the whole mall with them but if its just school where your sitting down for most of the day anyway, you should be able to wear them.

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I want to get a skateboard but I don't know how much it costs. I want a good one but not professional or anything.Does anyone know how much those would cost and maybe a link to a site to see some pictures of a board?Just something good that will last.Where could I get one?Would Target have a good one?

if youre broke (like i usually am) go to play it again sports and get one there for a lot less.

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I got my first period in January. I haven't gotten it since then! I know I'm not pregnat.

What's wrong with me?

first couple months are known to be irregular so dont worry about it, you are fine. if you dont get it again by june/july then go get checked out. www.beinggirl.com that should help.

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Does anyone have any good ideas for a mother's day gift? I have no ideas! It could also be a home-made gift.

a cd with her favorite songs or songs that remind you of her, a scrapbook of the 2 of you, a gift certificate, something she really wants, bubble bath and stuff, or do something nice like clean the house or her car.

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I have a great friend...we always talk about how we're gonna grow old together. But there's a problem. He smells extremely bad of bad B.O. I don't know how to tell him... people have come up to me and asked me to please tell him about it. I don't want to offend him...what should I do? How should I tell him?
Thanks a bunches for helping out!

well if you guys are really that close just kinda say it nicely or joke around alil bit about it. if he really doesnt get the hint give him a stick of deoderant cuz that isnt something you should have to get used to.

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There's this guy I like... he's amazing. But the problem is... he has a girlfriend. Hes a good friend of mine and he used to have a crush on me, and we still flirt but I keep reminding myself hes not single. I don't know what to do. On top of this he and his girlfriend never kiss, or hug or do anything girlfriend/boyfriendy stuff with eachother..and they have nothing in common.Do I wait it out? Or is there some other thing I can do to stop driving me crazy every day?

WAIT! if you try to take him it will become a huge cat fight. eventually theyll get sick of each other and break up. i doubt it will last very long so just wait it out.

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OMG, I am so frustrated right now, because I just went shopping and must have tried on over 20 pairs of jeans, and every single one of them was big in the butt. I went shopping last week, too, and still nothing. I have the smallest butt in history. I feel like I'm gonna have to walk around naked the rest of my life! What am I gonna do? Does anyone know of any stores or brands that sell their pants with smaller butt sizes? Please don't suggest Hollister, but I'm totally poor! We tried that today and they were like, $80! I've tried Vanilla Star, L.E.I., Mudd, Arizona, Paris Blues, Union Bay, and other regular brands, and I've also tried Aeropostale. Does anyone else have this problem? Where do you shop at? Thank you so much.
x3 Erin

hollister is actually pretty big on the butt! like in glow jeans and stuff im like 5 and for hollister im a 1. what does that tell you? try deb for some really odd sizes or tjmax. try all different sizes and materials. some shrink to fit and some you can buy in some really small size and theyre snug around the butt. also, try forever 21 and charlotte russe. theyre fairly cheap stores with a million different styles of clothes.

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okay im in track and im not the best runner and the only reason i joined is to get in shape for the summer well anyways my friends think they are getting shin splints and i might be getting them too how can you help this or make them go away and it is really tough on your shins cuz we do hurdles even though it is in middle school level but thanks.

im not really sure where they come from. i doubt its the hurdles tho cuz i get them and i dont run track (i play soccer). the only thing you can do to get rid of them is stop runnin really.

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I have an extra curricualr activity. There's this guy there. His name is Gabriel. He's not the hottest guy in the world, but I think he's totally nice. We have a lot in common. We see eachother once a week, and talk on AIM. We're in different grades. He's in 8th, I'm in 7th. We don't go to the same school, and won't be able to see eachother over the summer. I really care about him, but he doesn't know. My friends think he's ugly, and that even if he is nice, he's not worth it because he's ugly. I don't care about looks so much. I'm really shy too...

What should I do?

DEFINATLY go for him! if you like his personality thats so much more than just his looks. i asked a similar question before i got with my bf cuz i was scared of what ppl would think. dont worry about his appearence, its whats inside that counts! follow your heart!

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Does anyone have any tips for swallowing pills? I have some pills from my doctor for a bronchidal infection, and they were huge, I had to cut them up into fourths, yet they still are tough to get down. Tips or tricks?

i need to warn you that some medicines should not be cut into pieces. please, make sure they can be or else they could end up harming you. to swallow them, just put a ton of water in your mouth and put the pill in and swallow. this works for me. if you are really having trouble, ask for a liquid or chewable instead.

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I need help on asking a guy to come and watch a movie with me...i don't know how please help!!
I don't wanna look like a doofus.....lol:)

hey just be casual about it. a simple "do u wanna see ___ with me on __(day of week)___?" if some other people are going you can say "some friends n i are going to see ___, would you be interested in going?" then have him call you for details. thats should take some of the worries out of it. relax and be yourself,

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My four month old has the flu/cold and so does my two year old nephew. Any idea on what I can give them to make them feel any better.

if you really canttake either of them to the doctor (some ppl cant so im bringing it up) go to a drug store and ask a pharmasist (sp) to help you get the best over the counter treatment for both kids. they should be able to help with doses and things to comfort them.

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