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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.

Well i dont have brown eyes but i do make up all the time.. um use black eye liner on the top of your bottom eyelashes and above your top eye lashes.. and i think like bronze eyeshadows look good with your eyes..much luv dez

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i`m a freshman in high school. ever since i was about 4 or 5, i've had an excessive bladder problem i guess you could say. when somebody makes me laugh, i start to piss myself. it's been happening lately at school and volleyball practice, and i have nothing to cover it up with! is there any type of medicine i could take, or anything that could help prevent this or something.. ? please help

if you're going to laugh or make fun of me, you'll be rated a one, and i'm gonna report you. =)

lol diapers i didnt think of that.. but i think you should see a doctor cause i had that when i was younger and it got better as i got older and im not perfect if you make me laugh hard enough its over with i cant move and i make a fuckin river.. alot of girls have weak bladders..but go see a doctor bout it hun.. much luv dez x0x0

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20/f/CA.
My good friend Rose just started dating my ex-boyfriend Justin. We had been broken up for quite a while, but I am still confused about how I fell about Justin, although I think I am mostly over him. I am also seeing other people. But why is it when I see them together when I go out, that I get jealous, or more upset?

Well that will probably be there for a while cause he is your ex and you did have feelings.. i get like that every now and then with my ex B.. but i get over it real quick cause im with who i want and who makes me happy.. but um jus continue to go out with friends and try not to get close to him or anything..much luv x0x0

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When my boyfriend and I are sitting down and he puts his arm around me and pulls me into him am I sopposed to put my arm around to or just lay on his chest? What should I do?

Lay on his chest and put your arms around him.. cuddle up to him and loosen up..much luv dez x0x0

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see i dont know what to do i like this guy alot but he wants me to tell him why i like him what should i do?

Well if you like somebody you should know why.. i mean you have to have a reason.. so you should tell him..much luv dez x0x0

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ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!!

Well i wouldnt do it if i was you.. i mean i know you are tryin to be a friend but sex is ment to be with somebody you care and love for more then friends.. well he could also be lying so he can fuck ya guys do those sort of things.. but i wouldnt do it hun.. much luv dez x0x0

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ok my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch a movie and his parents were not home. and about half way in the movie he leaned over and kissed me and we started making out and them he took all of my clothes off and we started having sex it was so much fun!!! My friends were all asking what happend at his house should i tell them?

Well if you dont want them to know your business then you should keep it between you guys..but thats up to you..much luv dez x0x0

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so this guy that I rele like had a girlfriend. We are rele good friends now and even my friends think i like him. I even talked to him on the phone. Today he broke up with his girlfriend and now my friends think he likes me and they say wed make a good couple. I dont know if i should just tell him I like him. Hes asked me a lot when my friends told him they think I do. I think he might ask me out but the girls he likes, I think he only asks them out when he knows they like him. I think he already thinks I like him for sure but idk what to do!

Well let him know that you like him...go for it hun..much luv

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whenever im talking to this guy i like on the phone or online i never know wht to say!! its soo annoying and awkward. i dont know him tht well so what would be some things to say that would start a conversation?? please help! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off!!!

Well ask him questions like.. does he have brothers and sisters.. what school does he go too.. whens his birthday..has he had many girl friends..does he play sports..what kind of music does he like.. what kind of movies does he like..what is his favorite movie..what tv shows does he watch.. what does he like to do with friends.. much luv dez x0x0

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Hi! I'm thinking of getting contacts. I have been wearing glasses for 8 years, and am unhappy with the marks that they leave behind. Numerous friends of mine have said I should get contacts, and I know some people that already do! I'd love to know what brand of contacts are the most durable and easy to wear, and any stories, guidelines, or precautions I should know about would be gratly appreciated! Thank you!

ive never had glasses ive had contacts for 2 years..before then i never realized my vision was bad.. but ive been on the same brand for the same time i have acuvue johnson i think i spelled it wrong *sorry*.. but um its cool to have em also cause you change your eye color and stuff.. much luv dez

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okay like,me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months and 2 days. and i absolutely love him with everything i have. but i feel like he's becoming too attached and serious. i'm 15 and he's 17 about to turn 18. ((thats beside the point)) but like last saturday ((march 5th)) he asked me if i would promise to marry him and he gave me a promise (("pre-engagment")) ring. well of course i said yes. because it's what i was thinking at the time. but now i'm having second thoughts. i mean i'm only 15 i have the rest of my teen years to live. i just dont know what to do. i wanna tell him were getting to serious, but i still love you and wanna be with you.

eck..someone please help! ...=]...i ratteeee!!!


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Well tell him that you think you guys are getting to serious..dont keep that all in jus go on and tell him.. and tell him to give you more time bout those kinda things cause you only bee together 2 months and 2 days.. you probably still want it hun.. you probably are jus all the sudden actually thinkin bout it and you probably jus freaked out thinkin bout it..so um jus tell him all that and everything should be okay..much luv dez

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what is the best working cold medecine that will really help my cold so i can go back to skool?!??!?!?!?!?!?!

i dont know why you'd wanna go back to school but i guess use tylenol or advil to reduce your fever or what not..much luv dez

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I have this boyfriend, he's really nice but i never ever get to see him because he lives in a different town. Everytime i get the chance to go visit it seems like he has something else to do. He has cheated on me about 3 times already but we made up. He calls me every night and is a sweet heart. I dont noe if i should stay with him or break up. I feel so bad when i break up with him because ive done it before that i just go out with him again. what would i say? someone please help

Tell him like *hey we need to work this out* are you going to make time for me* whats goin on do you really wanna be with me..* ask him if he gon ever have time for you.. if not you need to dump him.. you need to be with somebody that will see you and *not cheat on you* you shouldnt of gave him chance after chance... you should of moved on a long ass time ago..*atleast thats what it sounds like to me* no girl deserves to be cheated on unless they stay with the asshole and keep givin em chance after chance knowing they cant trust em again and will not have the same trust for them ever again.. and you probably worry alot like if he's done something and you not know bout it...see you should be with somebody where you dont have to worry and will always keep the same trust with somebody..much luv dez

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My hair is wavy-ish straightish...kinda unruly. It's dark brown and a little longer than shoulder length and super layered with side swept bangs. For school I usually just use a straightening iron to make it stick straight. But I want to try some new styles...cute stuff, punk stuff, whatever!!! I want to keep it the same length though because I am growing it out. Anyone have any ideas??

Kepping hair down is cute.. putting your hair up half way with layered hair looks cute and putting it in a clip is real cute too.. i dont know any punk styles.. and i think side way low pony tails look good with some hair in the front hanging down.. much luv dez

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is it possible to get skin cancer from going to a tanning bed once for 8 minutes?

anythings possible..

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my boyfriend is really mean to me, he gets mad at everything, sometimes hes nice and sweet but then other times hes mean. like today i told him someone was trying to get wit me and he goes ok im like do you care? hes like no and i sad your a asshole and he said i know and then i said im gonna laugh when i die cuz the kid was really bothering me and wouldnt leave me alone and hes like punch him in the face. hes soo mean some times. how do i get him to be nicer?

get rid of the asshole.. no girl deserves an asshole unless they are stupid enough to stay with somebody like that...sorry if it was mean..much luv dez

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my lower back really really hurts. my mom gave me some of her pain meds but they arent working. some of my friends are saying that i might have a slipped disk and the doctors have to put it back in place. first of all what do they do and does it hurt?

Well idont know cause i never had it done.. but this might help a lil bit um if its your time of the month or almost time.. it could be cramps.. i get bad lower back pains when its my time of the month..much luv dez

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ok look i kno this chick and we've been goin out for about 9 months and she wants to do stuff really bad and dont get me wrong i do too but i am not done with puberity and i am shy about it i dont kno what to do what do i do? what do i say? should i just go for it and see what happens or should i just wait?

P.S. we love each other VERY much!! :)

if you are really that embarassed then i would wait.. but you seem to have alot of love for her so thats the positive thing and reason why you should.. but um it sounds like you young if you arent done with pubertiy..so i think maybe you should wait til your a lil bit older..much luv dez

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I'm 26 and have been with my boyfriend for 5 years next month. We've talked about marriage on and off and it's always been a positive conversation from his point of view, I've always been more hesitant but have realised I really do want to marry him. So! I am thinking of surprising him and popping the question!

Even though it isn't leap year is it ok for girls to propose to boys and if so what do you get them!?

Guys and gals I need your help!

Well i would pop the question but make it romantic when you ask him like cook him his favorite food with of course candles and ask him over dinner..and i'd give him a ring not real real expensive but something so you can put it on his finger..much luv dez

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how do i get rid of a sunburn on my lips?? or how long does it take to go away? (i got it friday, today is sunday)

use a real good lip gloss or go to the drug store for like lip balm..much luv dez

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