The website is a forum and i havent quite started promoting. What should i do to make it a hit? Who wants to help me!?
I started traffic on my website through word of mouth. People from school, people on instant messenger, and whatnot, let them know about it and give them the URL. If you stay active in it yourself, you're more likely to succeed. Your friend tells a friend, that friend tells two friends, so on and so forth.
Reckless website advertisement on other webpages is highly frowned upon and rarely gets results. Stick with keeping it personal and before you know it, people you don't even know will join, and BAM, you get new friends.
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hi ok, uhm my best friend is i think anorexic she doesn't eat and she exorcises all the time. she hasn't eaten in 2 days and sometimes she eats dinner so her parents don't think anything is wrong. she also makes herself throw up the meals. she also figured out that another good way to lose weight is to cut herself because then she'll lose blood and that will mean she will lose more body fluid and make her lose more weight. she takes all her fingernails and toenails off so it takes off more body weight. she also, just cut her hair really really short. she is going crazy!!!! i don't know what to do. i'm so scared for her, and i don't think her parents even care!!! What should i do? please help mee. i can't tell anyone, she told me not too.
There is obviously some sort of mental disorder going on here. She has gone beyond the realm of logic if she thinks that bleeding herself will somehow make her thinner. What she needs right now is support, and failing that, an intervention. She needs to know that people care enough about her to step in and do something. Ignoring the problem will, in her eyes, tell her that she is still not good enough to receive attention, and she will continue this behavior. I'm not a psych major by any means, but this seems like some serious shit. Guessing by your age I'd say you're in high school. Speak to your counselor, and be completely honest; do not hold back any details. Your counselor is there for more than to simply assign classes for the next semester!
Regardless of the fact she told you not to tell anyone, you have the obligation of a friend to do the exact opposite. Ignoring it and doing as she asks is potentially fatal for her. One cut too deep, one purging session gone wrong, one extreme taken too far could be the end for her. She may hate you for it at the time, but she will thank you in the long run. I hope you value your friend's life above her selfish, psychotic wishes.
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ive only had sex once, and i wanna do it again but make it really fun for both of us.. any ideas? ideas for positions?
Typically, the first few times you have sex are a sort of probationary period. Neither of you know what you like, how to achieve what you want, how to give the other person what they want, etc. etc. The only way to find out what you both like is to try things out, and most importantly, COMMUNICATE. My girlfriend and I know exactly what the other wants because we experimented and told each other the results. I prefer her to be on top of me, and she prefers me to be behind her. We compromise and switch positions to give each other a good experience.
So yeah, guide each other in the right direction. You can worry about mixing it up later when the sex begins to get stale.
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okay so my stupid boyfriend decided to step on my laptop while it was closed anyhow the whole screen is black and gray can they replace the screen or im screwed?
The last answer is pretty accurate, but let me add in one thing. Most TV's nowadays have a VGA input in the back, the same kind of cord that connects a computer tower to a monitor. You can buy one cheap and hook your laptop up to the TV, using it as a monitor, if you don't happen to have a desktop in the house. That should tide you over until you can get another laptop. In the case of a large HDTV like mine, it also makes it freakin awesome to download movies onto.
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K so today is my best friends birthday but i cant go because i just got a job and after a week of oreintation im finally working today is the day i get trained which im excited for but my best friend is really pissed because im missing her 16th but its not my fault she didnt tell me 2 weeks ago she just told me a few days ago what she was doing and i tried calling her yesterday to tell her i cant come but she didnt answer so i sent her a msg on facebook and i told her i would call today but she sent me a msg saying "fuk you seriously you cant even call in sick or anything" so ya i dont know what to do should i talk to her again or no because she really hurt my feelings shes only thinking of herself.
If she's 16, chances are she's never had a job, and doesn't know that your first few weeks are sort of a probationary period, where your supervisor determines whether you are capable of learning the skills necessary to complete your tasks, if you are reliable enough to be depended on, and adaptive enough to handle whatever is thrown your way. If you call in sick your first day, you're starting off on the wrong foot, and will likely go nowhere, if you aren't straight up fired. When I was working in a theatre, the majority of the bottom-level employees were 16 year olds. You can imagine the kind of turnover we had. A single sign of unreliabilty in the first week or two warranted an immediate termination. With so many lazy kids, the majority of new employees didn't last a month.
tl, dr version: Your friend doesn't understand the shaky ground associated with a brand new job at a young age. Send a message explaining how you WOULD have, not could have been fired by calling in your first day. Give her time for that to sink in before you reestablish contact again.
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What is your favorite quote?
"Remember, it takes two fingers to make the peace sign, just like it takes two people to make love. So when you're giving someone the finger, you're just jerking off."
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my friend rob posted a bulliten on myspace saying that he was suicidal again. and he said that he had a knife and a lighter in his bedroom and he wasnt afraid to use them, he also said that meybe he'd add a rope in to and that he wasnt afraid to kill himself. should i tell someone? if i do, who do i tell? will he hate me? should i talk to him first?
he's a good friend of mine. i dont wanr him to die. please help me.
There's a 90% chance he is not serious. If he were serious, he would not advertise it in a Myspace bulletin. It's more likely a way of gaining attention. Threatening suicide is an easy way of getting tons of response, varying from "no don't do it I love you" to "you mean too much to me" to "can I videotape it, dumbass?"
Suicidal thoughts are serious and too many people make light of them. Unfortunately, it's tough to discern the attention seekers from the seriously disturbed. My advice is to talk to him about it, face to face, in a serious discussion. Instead of asking if he'll do it, ask him WHY he'll do it. In most cases of teenage suicide, there are a multitude of reasons building up to it, and an event of sorts that becomes the climax to break the camel's back. If he's a middle class only child spoiled brat whose daddy works too often and doesn't hug him enough, fuck him. He doesn't have real problems, he just wants the response.
In the off chance he IS serious, and believes he has qualifying reasons for the act, it's up to you and everyone who cares about him to be the intervention; the reason he decides to keep on keepin on through it all.
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ive only been fingered by 3 guys, and each time that they fingered me i didnt feel any pleasure whatsoever.
i only feel something good when i masturbate, but i dont even orgasm or moan or anything.
why cant i feel good when a guy does it to me? i just kind of sit there and think ..."this is akward, bc im just laying here feeling nothing."
i dont know how to react to that.
help!
There's a good chance those guys just didn't know what the hell they were doing. Most unexperienced guys just shove their finger in and swirl it around, having no idea where the clit is, if they even realise it exists. Regardless of how "experienced" they may tell you they are, you can't trust that until you can judge them yourself. Your best bet is to SHOW them where you like to be touched. If you sit there and wait they will never find it. I know I sure as hell didn't know what to look for the first time I did it, but my girlfriend put my hand exactly where she wanted and told me "don't you dare move from that spot."
The fact that you don't moan doesn't mean anything. A lot of girls don't. My girlfriend is damn near mute unless she's really into it. As for orgasm, it might be too hard to achieve just by clitoral stimulation. Vaginal penetration may be your only option in that department. Invest in a good vibrator, or a boyfriend who didn't learn female anatomy from a naked Barbie doll.
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K, what would be your perfect blowjob? Doesn't matter, the more graphic the better ;), my bf is coming to visit me and im really nervous, so help!
This is horribly late, but better late than never. I'm not real picky about my blowjobs, but here's a few generic tips.
- At first, your goal is not to make him come. First, you want to simply make it pleasurable. Once your mouth gets tired and you want to end it, THAT'S when you can turn it on full blast. It's not a race.
- Build him up. Don't just put your mouth around it and start sucking. Build some anticipation. Kiss his thighs, handle him lightly, slowly flit your tongue across the tip and on his balls. You're in control, you can do whatever YOU want. Don't tease him for TOO long, though. That's just mean.
- The penis is not the only thing your mouth needs to come in contact with. I assume this guy has balls. Play with them. For me, personally, I don't like it rough down there at all. I'm very sensitive, and if you bite me I will jump and probably punch you in the face. Sucking very hard is not recommended either, because if you happen to suck in the testicles proper, it can cause very sharp, sudden pain. Be gentle.
- On that note, the area between the scrotum and the anus (the perenium) is also very sensitive. No, you don't have to stick your tongue in his ass (also personally I do enjoy it, but I would never expect it or DARE ask for it) but the area inbetween is very responsive.
- Keep it moist. Spit is sticky, and if given time to dry, can stick to your face or chin, which may be uncomfortable for the guy. The tip of the penis is sensitive, and if the spit on it dries and you put your hand on it, he will likely shift quickly cause it won't feel very good. No, you don't have to slobber all over him (please don't) but be sure you don't leave it exposed to the air for too long without putting your mouth on it again.
- You want him to be clean, don't you? Nothing's worse than going down on someone, only to find they didn't wipe as well as they should have. If he doesn't expect you to be down there, he probably won't have made any special effort to clean himself. The easiest way around this is to take a shower with him. It's perfect for some foreplay, but it's the best way to make sure he's as clean as you desire. You can do all the scrubbing you like until you're satisfied.
- Not only that, but the kindest thing to do after receiving oral is to reciprocate. If he doesn't at least offer to go down on you, he's a jerk. But you should hold yourself to the same standard of cleanliness you held him to. While you're scrubbing him in that shower, take the time to scrub yourself. Invest in some scented wipes for when you have little to no notice. Do NOT attempt to clean yourself with toilet paper! Small bits of it will get stuck inside, and that's just weird. You don't want to smell like piss, so if you've used the bathroom since you've last showered, you will want to use a scented wipe. It won't smell like flowers, but it won't smell like piss either.
- Grooming is essential, for both of you. A man should keep his nether regions trimmed. If you find he has Don King's head in a leglock and going down on him is going to be a normal occurance, tell him to trim. In your case, shaving is most considerate, however that can be very painful. If that hurts too much, you can trim as well. I've gone down to find more hair than I have on my head. It's not pretty, it's not sexy, and it can kill a mood.
- You're in control. Don't let him push the back of your head. There's a good chance you'll gag and vomit all over him, and let me tell you, nothing kills an erection faster. If he tries it, just flat out stop, and tell him NOT to do that. You're not obligated to give him head in the first place, so he has no right to tell you how to do it.
Wow, I wrote a lot. Can you tell how much I enjoy oral? Good luck!
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My friend is comming to visit me from a place out of the states where it is legal to drink before 21. Could she bring a bottle of alcohol in her check-in baggage? When they check bags, will they take it from her if most of her stuff screams "teenager"? Any other info appreciated. thanks!
When coming from another country, things like alcohol are considered contraband. You cannot bring it yourself, you have to import it. Regardless of her age, they will confiscate it if found at the gate, and she will probably be arrested if it is found after she gets into the states.
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i live in a low income apartment..all of my friends live in big houses. i hate living in a crapy apartment in a rich neighborhood. especially my crush! we talk a lot (hes an only child). and i always hear about his escalades and BMWs and i HATE IT! because i have a crapy car and i wish i wasnt ashamed of were i come from. i used to live in a crappy neighborhood but that was okay because i was the rich one of the poor people (even though then we were poor) now i have to transition to being on of the poor people. again. and i HATE IT! what can i do to change this feeling?
Been there, done that. I was raised in a very poor household. I know what food stamps look like, I've used a Lonestar card, and what exactly you can get cheaper at Dollar General. Now, I've moved out. I'm not as poor as I used to be. I can pay my bills and get by just fine. And the reason why? I live below my means, I don't impulsively buy things, and since I'm so scared to death of being poor again, I make damn sure it won't happen again. I don't have a credit card, and the only debt I have is in the form of student loans (which isn't that much, and I don't have to start paying it off until I leave school).
Growing up poor was the best thing that ever happened to me, because now I realize how important money management is. Just by moving out and getting by, I've already made a huge accomplishment in my life. Not only that, but income does not establish your social status. If your friends look down on you for having less money, kick them in the face and find new friends.
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Hey, tomorrow I'm gonna buy a digital camera with these gift certificates I got which are for Best Buy. Each gift card is $30 each, and I have $20 also to spend on it. I'm just wondering if anyone knows of any good cameras that I can buy with that much money, and which kinds are really good quality. Thanks so much :]
I'll rate!
I have an Aiptek DV 3100. It's a pretty small digital camera, with a screen so you can see what your picture looks like before you take it. You can also look at and delete the photos before you ever upload them. It's a pretty neat piece of work, and it looks like they cost around $80. It's worked for anything I ever needed it for. My only complaints are that it has no flash, and pictures are pretty fuzzy if you don't make them smaller. So, make sure you have plenty of light, and you're close to what you're taking a picture of.
Another neat thing is that it connects with a USB, and has a drive on it. I use it as a portable flash drive as well, such as when I type a paper at home and need to print it at work. You can take files other than pictures from computer to computer.
It has a memory card slot too, if you ever needed more space to shoot really long movies or something.
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hey i heard a guy in my class joke around that he said he was going to "t-back" someone.. it was a joke and all the guys thought it was hilarious.. i was so confused! lol i never heard of that!
can you tell me what that means?
ill rate
thanks!
I'm pretty sure he meant "teabag". That's when the man stands over someone who is lying down and places his sack on the person's unwilling face. It's used as an insult, a derogatory gesture.
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About a month ago i had really bad strep thoart for the first time in my life. well today i went to the doctors because my throat was burting really bad and i have strep again.
I still have my tonsils But having strep twice i such a short time . Is it a sign that i need to have my tonsils removed?
I had been getting strep consistently from ages 14-17, about 3 times a year. My doctor never recommended removing my tonsils. I haven't had strep since. My best guess is that my body finally got over it.
My suggestion is to wait it out. I did, and I still have my tonsils to show for it.
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What is the nicest way to break up with someone without hurting them too much? I preferr not in person though. Please Help
There is no "nice" way to break up with someone that is not in person. Over the phone, over the internet, through another person, ALL horrible ways of doing it.
Pick a time when you are together, but not for very long; maybe saying goodbyes after school or whatever. Bring it up immediately, and give it to him straight. If you have no intention of dating him again, do not give false hope by saying it may work out later. Tell him how you really feel, and what he has done to cause this so he can learn from that mistake. It may sound mean, but in retrospect, it will help him a lot more than "it's not you, it's me".
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at my school, we use MLA format for our papers & what not. i was sick today so i didn't go to school, but my outline is due tomorrow. i have a few questions about MLA format for outlines.
-do you internally document an outline?
-i know you use roman numberals & capital letters, but do you need numbers after the capital letters?
thanks!!
http://www.ccc.commnet.edu/mla/outlines.shtml
This seems to have enough information for an MLA outline.
Learn the format well; you'll be using it throughout college too.
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THIS IS NOT A QUESTION OF FAITH
I have considered myself asnostic for a few years now. I have faith more in the people I know and everyone, then some silly religion with it's own agenda. I also believe in a greater god, but mostly for comfort, to hate, and to thank. Anywho, this coming fall I am going to have to make a decision of getting confirmed by the Catholic Church. I am not so sure that I should do it. I know that it would make my mom happy, but I feel like I am just flat out disrespecting Catholicism to follow their ways even though I don't believe it. I don't really care if I am found out, I am not like an in-your-face religion hater, but still, it would kill my mom. So, my question is, should go through with it for my mom, or not?
THIS IS NOT A QUESTION OF FAITH, I DON'T BELIEVE IN CHRISTIANITY, PLEASE TO NOT TELL ME OF THE GLORIES OF HEAVAN, JESUS, AND WHAT NOT
I consider myself agnostic as well. My mom is a devout Episcopalian. At the age of 17, I was confirmed. Did I choose to? Yes. Why? To make my mom happy. Basically, I saw it as a short, painless ceremony that meant nothing to me, and everything to her. I was not lying to myself or her.
At my house, I was more or less forced to go to church every Sunday until I turned 18. At that point, it was my decision. I stopped going. When my sister turned 18, she stopped too (and now considers herself a complete atheist. Forcing religion sure backfires, don't it?).
My mom didn't need to know about my lack of faith until I stopped going to church. Yes, it seems unfair to have to "pretend" to be Christian to your mother, but do you really want to have to see the look in her eyes when you tell her otherwise? That's why I chose to wait until I turned 18, and she had little to no influence on that decision anyway. The blow was lessened considerably, and she had the whole "Well, I tried" attitude about it, and didn't worry herself.
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Last monday my ex and I broke up and now he's telling everyone what we did in our relationship.He calms he " hit it and quit it" which means he was just with me for sex. So it all back fires on me.But instead of just sitting here and letting him say that.I started to tell people that I "hit it and quit it". Does that make me a slut or does it make me look stupid?i really dont have a choice.
If you want to get back at him, you could just tell people that the sex was terrible on his part, and you were so embarrassed about it that you had to let him go.
What you're doing now is just making you look worse. C'mon now, do the stereotypical woman thing and turn it around on this guy.
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I have a full time job doing concrete construction. Yet financial stability has always been a struggle for me. i would like to know how i can make extra money, like investing, stocks, internet business etc. i would like advice and tips from those who have been like me and suceeded. I would be so happy to get some advice. Thank you so much,
Well, aside from my job, I have two ways of making money on the side:
#1: I repair console gaming systems. I have an ad up at work with a phone number, and people can just drop off their PS2s and NES systems and whatnot for me to pick up there at work. Is there any little random thing you know how to repair or build? Find somewhere to advertise this skill.
#2: eBay. There's a small store here in town that buys and sells used games for any system. I visit it at least once a week, and look for anything rare. I can find a rare PS1 game for $4 and resell it for $40 sometimes. You could try pawn shops and look for rarities. Do a little online research first so you know what to look for.
As for investments...that's all long term. Buy some bonds and you can't expect to see income from that for a good 10 years. If you can't afford to give out that money right now, there's no point anyway. I've always preferred short-term, quick cash. It may not be much, but it adds up.
When I get fast food, or pay for anything with cash, I give that extra dollar so I can get some loose change back. I keep this change in the ashtray of my car (I don't smoke, so what else use do I get out of it), and when that fills up, I bring it inside and put it in this giant rocketship coin bank I got from work. This thing will hold around $250 of randomly mixed loose coins. That's a good chunk to throw in the bank at any point, and also enough to fall back on in case of emergency. So save your change; even if it is just pennies.
One last tip: Save your soda cans. When I lived with my parents, my Dad and I were Coke fiends. We'd gather the cans in trash bags and keep them in the garage. Then we'd fill up an entire carload and take them to a place that recycles and buys them. That was gas money for a month at least.
Yeah, none of this sounds like much, but when you're on a low budget to start with, every bit counts.
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How did Judas betray Jesus? There is a band called Judas Priest. Does that pertain to the story and so they are satanic-ish because Judas was a traitor? Or was he? I don't know.
Judas Priest takes their name from the Bob Dylan song "The Ballad of Frankie Lee and Judas Priest".
"Unusually for a Dylan song, "The Ballad of Frankie Lee and Judas Priest" seems to end with an explicit moral, telling the listener to never be where he does not belong, to help one's neighbor with his load, and not to "go mistaking Paradise/for that home across the road." These closing lines, practically a non sequitur, are of debatable sincerity." - Wikipedia
Just because Judas Priest is a metal band, does not mean they are Satanistic. I hate that generalization. If the name has anything to do with Satan, blame Bob Dylan. He came up with it.
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