coolchic070293 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 5:48 pm: Well wirte him a letter telling him that it wont work out in the nicest way ever. Then tell him that you hope that it doesnt offend him, but make sure you tell him why you are braking up with him. Rememver to tell him that you hope that you can still be friends cuz then he wont take it that much badly. [ coolchic070293's advice column | Ask coolchic070293 A Question ]
K3587 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 3:12 pm: There is no "nice" way to break up with someone that is not in person. Over the phone, over the internet, through another person, ALL horrible ways of doing it.
Pick a time when you are together, but not for very long; maybe saying goodbyes after school or whatever. Bring it up immediately, and give it to him straight. If you have no intention of dating him again, do not give false hope by saying it may work out later. Tell him how you really feel, and what he has done to cause this so he can learn from that mistake. It may sound mean, but in retrospect, it will help him a lot more than "it's not you, it's me". [ K3587's advice column | Ask K3587 A Question ]
Devina answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 7:08 am: It's nicer to break up in person though... I'd say... just tell him/her that you can't go out with him/her anymore and tell him/her the reason... Ask him/her if s/he's okay with that and tell him/her you're sorry... At least it's less hurting than not saying those things... (I never was nice when I broke up with my boyfriends... next time, I'll be nicer...)
Hope I've helped... Wish you all the best luck...
Hope your mate won't feel bad... Good luck. [ Devina's advice column | Ask Devina A Question ]
klc23 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 12:02 am: I think the nicest way to break up with someone is to get on the internet and tell them that you think that you two are to good of friends to date... hope I helped
Shortcake22 answered Wednesday May 17 2006, 12:00 am: Honestly, just tell them the truth. If you don't, it will seem fake. They might not be happy right away, but no one likes to be lied to, and they will respect you for telling the truth. You really should do it in person, because it looks like you're scared if you don't. Second best would be on the phone I suppose. At least you would be actually talking to them. Whatever you do, don't do it on the internet or send a friend to do it. Thats the worst possible way to break up with someone.
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