about

im sara, and i'm smallll. dig it
im in love with tylor mutton
& have been since june 28th 2006
he's a better boyfriend than yours
i work at carrabbas as a hostess
it's pretty amazing if you ask me
i go to wilson hs.. ill be a junior
i do that softball thaaaanggggg.
oh and i have a screen namee..
you can IM me if ya wanttt=]
it's onexlove09. yuuuurrpppppp
this advice column is pretty ghetto
i hate it anymore haha. kbye

advice

Ok so I'm gonna keep this short and simple.. I'm in love with my bestfriend and everytime I see her I fall more and more in love with her. She don't like me back. I'm a very emotional person so it hurts that I can't be with her like that. I have stopped talking to her to get over her. But she and I dont wanna lose our friendship. How do I get over her and be her friend?

alright well the way i see it, you have a couple options:

either try to impress her and try to get her to fall for you, then tell her you like her when you think she likes you, [or just tell her whenever you want to]

ORRR

you could just stop looking at her in a romantic/lovely way. like only think of her as a friend.. and a friend ONLY. whenever you're with her, keep it friendly and remember how much you want to not like her.

but personally, i think you should tell her how you feel and maybe give it a shot! by giving it a shot, i mean maybe you two could go out =] since you're best friends, you must have alot in common, so i don't see why it wouldn't work =]

well sorry if this wasn't much of a help, but i tried! good luck! ♥

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Is there a way on AIM to make a persons screen name appear as something else? Like if their screen name was 2jkgLJ and I wanted to make it, "Laura Johnson", can I do this? If so, how?

i get what you're asking; you want to change SOMEONE ELSE'S screen name on YOUR BUDDY LIST WINDOW to their actual name or a nickname that you call them, so you don't forget who's screen name is who, or just because it'd be easier- and there is no way to do that.. that i know of, anyway. i always wanted to do that though lol.. but maybe if you put people in more specific groups if you can't remember them.. like, group them by grade, school, where/how you know them.. or maybe you can remember them it'd just be easier to have their own name appear, then i'm sorry, but i don't know of anyway to do that. hope i helped though? ♥

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hi, im 19 and my boyfriend asks me to sleep with him i hav but im really embarassed 2 make luv with him....... wat can i do??

alright, it is clear to me that you are no where near ready to be doing this. if you're embarassed to do anything EVER, that simply, in plain english, means that you're just not ready. don't do anything until you're no longer uncomfortable with it. maybe try talking to him about how you're feeling, and if he's a good boyfriend [lol] he'll help you figure out the problem =] good luck babe! ♥

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it's complicated.

anyway, first things first. i'm sort of... ugly. my nose is too big, it's uneven and almost witch-like. i have one of the most pointed chins i have ever seen; it almost goes past my nose when i smile. my smile is ugly too, it's not right.
i'm not looking for an answer like surgery or whatever.

it's just that my looks could seriously affect my opportunities in the future. right now, i have my circle of friends, and everyone knows me and my personality. but i leave for university next year; i'm afraid that my looks will be like a hinderance to my making friends, i'm shy until i get really close to the person before i become myself.
i dunno. i'm probably the most hideous woman i've ever seen.

was there a question in there? there was. i hope this doesn't get deleted... i'm seriously worried about it.

alright well it may seem clichè to say this, but looks really aren't that important! and i understand that you're probably worried about not getting oppurtunities because of how you look.. maybe jobs, for example.. but if someone wouldn't take you because of how you look, i wouldn't want to work with them anyway. maybe try wearing some makeup to take the attention away from your not to glamorous features! now don't plaster your face up like a clown, but wear some nice eye makeup and a little blush.. some subtle lipstick of lipgloss will also take away from your smile, if you really think its that bad. you can also practice smiling in the mirror! if you do it often, like whenever you have nothing else to do, just look into a mirror and smile until you like it! then just practice going in and out of a smile and soon it will look great! another thing you can do is look online for some makeup tips, because when applied properly you can really do alot with it! don't worry about missing out on things, anything you miss out on because of something you can't help can't be too great anyway ♥ i hope i helped!!! =]

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Does anyone know who directed Edward Scissorhands? Love that film!

tim burton! you could have easily gotten this answer from google, just so you know! cause it probably would have saved some time for you and you could have gotten lists of other movies by him or any other information you might be interested in ♥

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Ok well I did some reserching on the net and I only found lists of pick up lines. I wanted to know if they actually work. I know some of them are pretty bad and well some can be pretty cute.
I want to know if they actually work though...and if you have any cute ones, lemme have 'em. Thanks.

alright well they usually don't work, and there's lots of comebacks for them.. likee this one:

guy: is this seat taken?
girl: no, but mine will be if you sit there

OR

guy: haven't i seen you somewhere before
girl: yes, that's why i don't go there anymore

lol =]

but i know this really good website with zillions of them.. i never use them, they're just fun to use on my friends haha http://pickuphelp.com/ is the site.. it's hilarious ♥

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15/f.freshman.

I'm shy. in school, i'm quiet in class. with friends/family, im loud. people don't realize that. i hate it! I know i'm not ugly. Really, idk if it's about self-esteem. I just feel like I don't have any motivation to talk to people. I've never had a real boyfriend, or kissed a guy. and i want that to change. I wanna make new friends, because even though i have 2 best friends, i can't ALWAYS rely on them. I talk to people, but i'm not like friends with them as in like hanging out and talking everyday. Plus guys is a whole different story. I want a boyfriend! And i have no guy friends. NONE. This is my new years resolution and i have to do this. i can't keep being like this. What can i do to give myself some motivation, that boost i need to get me going? To get me first of all, participating in class more, talking in class, talking to other people, boys AND girls, making friends and getting a boyfriend (or more:)) I just want to start over freshman year! its a new year i need to make a change! I just don't know where to start.

well whenever i really want something, like really really bad, i just out my laziness and lack of self confidence aside and go for it! it's really not that difficult! if you want to participate in class, participate! if you want to talk to boys and girls, talk to them! if you want to be more outgoing, then do it! you just need to think of what you want, and persue it. if you said yourself that you know you're not ugly, so that right there shows that your self esteem is probably okay =] so just let go and do what you want. also, like i said in the top of my advice column next to my picture, DONT LOOK FOR LOVE. its ok to keep your eyes open for it, don't get me wrong... but don't walk around thinking every cute guy who talks to you if your soulmate lol.. now i'm not saying you're doing that!!! just warning you incase you ever do lol.. so again, about the boyfriend thing.. just wait and be yourself and good things will come your way =] ♥

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about how much is a 300 word essay?

probably no more than a page.. cause i used to have to do 200 word journal entries last year for honors english and they averages about 2 paragraphs so i'd say a half a page to a whole one! ♥

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well i have a boyfriend who is two years older then me. I do really like him but it seems everytime where out he wants to finger me or be alone with me all the time and i think he wants to have sex. I know it probably sounds stupid buit i dont think im ready for that and i dont know how to tell him.Also i dont want him to finger me all the time but i don't know how to tel him that. what do i say?? please help me.

ok well next time he tries to finger you or something, just move his hand and put it around your back or something so he hugs you! then if he asks whats wrong, just say "nothing at all, i promise.. i just don't feel like doing that right now, i just want to be with you without doing anything" or something like that. and if he loves you and really respects you, he'll stop. if he tries again like immediately after that, say "i told you i didn't want to" then move his hand again.. if he persists trying, just make him stop because that's flat out disrespecting you. and you don't deserve that =\ good luck! ♥

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okay lets cut to the chase. im fat. overweight. gross legs and arms, potbelly. i'm just fat. ive been doing the healthy weight loss thing for years now and i havent lost any weight

what are some ways to lose weight QUICKLY. health doesnt matter, if youre some kind of health activist dont answer the question.

first, don't be so negative!!! you should have a positive attitude so that you won't want to give up.

ok first; you should join a fitness club or a gym! or if you really want to that badly, get a personal trainer to help you out. or if you can't do either of those, do push ups, situps, run, and be active!

second; eat right! yeah i know, it's no fun.. but i'm talking fruits, vegetables, and not very many sugars or carbs.

third; keep in mind that readings on scales DO vary from scale to scale.. so don't let the numbers on them freak you out.. good old fashioned dial scales work wayyy better then crappy digital ones. they're always changing and hardly EVER acurate. and if you're going to weigh yourself, don't think this is weird, but be undressed when you do it. if you're fully clothed, then subtract 2 pounds from your weight that appears on the scale. but don't take advantage of this, cause wearing a tank top and shorts isn't two pounds.. i mean like jeans, t-shirt, maybe a sweatshirt, is about 2 pounds. doing it naked works best because it's way more acurate and you won't risk lying to yourself by taking off two pounds when you only have shorts & a tshirt on. & never weigh yourself while wearing shoes!!!

alright well that's the best i can think of right now, but you can go to www.toneteen.com for more information! it's an extremely helpful site with lots of information ♥ and if you use the BMI calculator on that site, don't think too much of that.. it's not acurate. good luck!!! ♥

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Okay, this guy Karl in my biology class likes me, but I don't like him the same way. I mean he's a really sweet nice guy and all, but I don't know what to do. My friend told me that he likes me, and later in Bio. class i heard people her across the room talking with him and two other people about it. I pretended I did'nt hear anything because I was so far away. but anways, If he says anything about it to me, what should I do? I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

Also im female and 16

ok well in the meantime, just be sure not to drop ANY hints of being interested in him.. because chances are, someone won't ask if you like them unless they think you might.. so don't be too friendly too him.. but not a bitch either lol. ORRRRR you could just give him a chance! another thing you could do is if you like someone else, just talk about him alot to him so he'll think you guys are friends since you're confiding in him about another guy. or make up a guy if you really want to lol.. now as for if he asks you, just kindly tell him that you think he's a really nice guy, but you only see him as a friend.. or if you think he's about to ask you, just change the subject!! ♥ good luckkkk!

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i absolutatly lovee your headband in your picture ! where did you get it from ? lol thanks.

aw thanks!! i got it at fashion bug =] it's actually like a scarf that's already attached in the back with part of it hanging down.. i love it too ♥

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after i got my braces off i had little white spots on my teeth, there not too bad, but i wanted to know if there was a way to get rid of them or something?
thanks =]

you can go to a professional place to get them whitened.. i know someone who went to a special doctor in new york just to get it done.. thats all i really know so sorry if i wasn't much help, but i know that it can be done! it's probably somewhat costly though.. so if it's only a few white spots, then you can just go to the store and get some teeth whitening products like those whitening strips and they'll probably fade overtime. =] ♥

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My daddy used to tell me that the first time you fall in love ,
it changes your life forever and nomatter how hard you try,
the feeling never goes away. The Notebook
where is this quote from like what part of the movie

i'm not sure but i know that gus says it to noah.. sorry if i wasn't much of a help but it's better then nothing?! ♥

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17/F
My boyfriend, 20/M, and i have been dating for 3 months now. last night when we were fooling around, he asked me to tell him what i like so that he can do it. I told him that i didn't know. I told him that he was the first guy i'd ever been with, and that i don't experiment myself. (I'm very conservitive). Anyhow, this got into a huge discussion about it and now things are awkward between us. We had a huge sex talk and i found out that he has done alot of stuff before with other girls. i really want to do stuff with him, but i;m afraid of going beow the belt. How can i overcome this fear, and is there any way that i can make things not awkward between us?

it honestly doesn't sound like you're ready to do anything.. if it's awkward to just TALK about having sex, then there's no way in hell you're ready to actually do it yet. it's not like heights or spiders where you can 'overcome' your fear.. you're scared because you're not ready.. simple as that. don't do ANYTHING if you're scared because that means you're not ready to yet.. just wait, i swear and you won't feel nervous anymore because everything will just flow if you're truly ready to do stuff.. good luck!

**& REMEMBER!!: NEVER DO ANYTHING UNLESS YOURE POSITIVELY READY!!!! NEVEERRRRRRRR!!! because it can be the biggest regret of your life.. good luck! ♥

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1. What is Canada's most economic product?

2. What province or place in Canada is most known for growing wheat?

3. Were the Ukarainians the first Europeans to settle in New France? If not who were they?

If you can answer any of them, THANK YOU.

are you trying to get advicenators to do your homework for you? cute =] jk lol

edit: haha don't be mad by rating me a 1.. you tried to cheat with an advice column lol

edit2: um ok whatever haha at least i don't do my homework on advicenators because thats what this obviously is, dont deny it lol

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Okay, so I just asked a question and someone gave me an answer...as soon as I read that I read the exact replica of it and it's from two DIFFERENT users. The user on the top (obviously) copy and pasted the answer another person posted before her. Is there anything done about that?

well i would just go to DangerNerd's advice column and tell him or another moderator.. or you can email one! the email is admin@advicenators.com ... just let them know and they'll take care of it =] but first i would tell the person who was copied, because it could have been something where they didn't care because they have two columns, or something weird like that. if it bothers them, you can talk to them, tell a moderator or email one.. good luck! hope i helped ♥

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Well, our second sememster (sp?) just started, and i have p.e. tommorow. yeah, i suck at p.e. i think i am a little bit overweight, and i am really bad at running and stuff. well, one thing that brings my self-esteam (sp?) more is A LOT of the "popular" and "skinny" people are in my class this year. And, the guy that i have a huge crush on is in my class,and i don't want to look like a fat freak infront of him. should i just concentrate on me and what i'm doing, insted of what the people around me are thinking? or should i try to loose alot of weight? help me please!!!!! thanks ppl!

personally i think you should just forget what poeple might think! because you're your own worst critic. you're the hardest on yourself and perople's perception of you isn't really as bad as you think it is.. i promise. but you can also try to lost weight because it will make you feel better about yourself and you won't ever have to worry about feeling like a 'fat freak' in front of your crush on anyone else! just let go, have fun, and enjoy gym. it's fun! it's my favorite class =P i really should probably be a boy.. but thats beside the point.. just concentrate on what you're doing and have a carefree attitude. that's what gets people in.. is your attitude and personality. if you're constantly worrying about what people are thinking and how you look, people won't really be as interested as they would be if you would just let loose! good luck babee! ♥

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14/f
k so i have this guy friend who i have been best friends with almost three years. he is perfect. he is so nice and so sweet. and i really like him a lot. i dont know what to do becuase my ex-boyfriend likes me again and i really liked him a whole lot too. but the thing is im not sure if my friend feels the same way. i dont know if i should tell him, and see what happens, but i dont want him to not like me and it be awkward. or if i should go back out with my ex-boyfriend. HELPPP!!

ok well what i would do is maybe have a friend or someone close ask around to see if your friend likes you that way or if you'd have a chance with him.. is he nice and sweet to just you?, or is he like that to all the girls? OR you should just figure out who you like more.. the friend, or the ex. you also need to factor in WHY he's your ex.. who broke up with who? is he trustworthy? did it hurt to break up with him? and if so, do you want to risk getting hurt again? ask yourself all these questions, and work from there. good luck! ♥ but first thing first, you should definitely figure out if he likes you.. and if he doesn't, i would just forget being w. him unless you want to work for his 'love'.. but since you already like someone else who likes you back.. maybe go for the ex.. just ask yourself those million questions i stated, and try to figure it out from there.. good luck & i hope i helped!!

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how do you know your in love.

this will probably sound mean and unhelpful, but it's true:

YOU JUST KNOW!!!

when you're really in love, you won't have any doubts about it and you'll just know.. that's simply it. one day it will just hit you and you'll be like whoaaaaaaaaaaa and feel like you're going to explode or you want to run around and do a thousand cartwheels or do something amazing.. but trust me, you'll just know ♥ hope i helped =]

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