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confused!!
well i have a boyfriend who is two years older then me. I do really like him but it seems everytime where out he wants to finger me or be alone with me all the time and i think he wants to have sex. I know it probably sounds stupid buit i dont think im ready for that and i dont know how to tell him.Also i dont want him to finger me all the time but i don't know how to tel him that. what do i say?? please help me.
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ok well next time he tries to finger you or something, just move his hand and put it around your back or something so he hugs you! then if he asks whats wrong, just say "nothing at all, i promise.. i just don't feel like doing that right now, i just want to be with you without doing anything" or something like that. and if he loves you and really respects you, he'll stop. if he tries again like immediately after that, say "i told you i didn't want to" then move his hand again.. if he persists trying, just make him stop because that's flat out disrespecting you. and you don't deserve that = good luck! ♥
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Just tell him. I have to be honest with you - older boys (especially 2 years older) are much more experienced than you. They have done all that stuff, but that doesnt mean you have to! Please dont do anything if youre not ready. I think its great youre actually thinking and not just doing stuff because he wants you to. If hes really pressuring you to, you should talk to him and tell him youre not ready. If he cant respect that, hes NOT worth it and you should dump him.
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No guy should EVER pressure you into that or anything you don't want to do. It seems like your boyfriend is in a relationship for the wrong reasons. Talking to him about this might be uncomftrable but you have to. Just tell him straight up that you're not ready for that and if he really likes you, he would respect that.
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