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Awkward Sex Talk w/ boyfrend
17/F
My boyfriend, 20/M, and i have been dating for 3 months now. last night when we were fooling around, he asked me to tell him what i like so that he can do it. I told him that i didn't know. I told him that he was the first guy i'd ever been with, and that i don't experiment myself. (I'm very conservitive). Anyhow, this got into a huge discussion about it and now things are awkward between us. We had a huge sex talk and i found out that he has done alot of stuff before with other girls. i really want to do stuff with him, but i;m afraid of going beow the belt. How can i overcome this fear, and is there any way that i can make things not awkward between us?
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dont do anything you dont want to do.
"waiting til marriage seems pointless, but when you do get married, wouldnt you want to give them something as important as your virginity, and not whats left of you"
you've only been going out for 3 months, thats wayyy to early to have sex. and even things before the waist. how would you feel if u guys did stuff and then he dumped you the day after?
oh, and to answer your question, dont do anything you feel awkward doing or you dont want to do. it seems as if your not ready, but still want to. to make it seem less awkward, you could dim the lights or even ask him to try and make it seem less awkward.
i didnt help much, sryy.
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it honestly doesn't sound like you're ready to do anything.. if it's awkward to just TALK about having sex, then there's no way in hell you're ready to actually do it yet. it's not like heights or spiders where you can 'overcome' your fear.. you're scared because you're not ready.. simple as that. don't do ANYTHING if you're scared because that means you're not ready to yet.. just wait, i swear and you won't feel nervous anymore because everything will just flow if you're truly ready to do stuff.. good luck!
**& REMEMBER!!: NEVER DO ANYTHING UNLESS YOURE POSITIVELY READY!!!! NEVEERRRRRRRR!!! because it can be the biggest regret of your life.. good luck! ♥
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