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whats a landing stripe?
Landing strip:
Genital hair trimmed in a neat, narrow, long strip
Okay, I'm scared to tell my mom... I think I might be bisexual.I'm afraid to tell anyone but my one close friend. So what should I do because I know it's a sin. Help!?!?!?
Firstly, you need to find out if you actually are bisexual.
Many teens experience this phase and alot of the time, it turns out they aren't bisexual at all. Just a bit curious.
Can you see yourself having a relationship with a woman or a man?
You might think people of the same sex are pretty, or hot, or admire their body, but this doesn't mean you'd want to be in a relationship with this person, or be intimate.
For now, I wouldn't tell anyone until you are 100% sure.
and if the answer to the above question is yes, you can see yourself having a relationship with someone of the same sex, then try it out first.
If it's for you, then fair enough. and then it's the time to tell people if that's what you want.
If it does turn out you are bisexual, the best way is to just tell your mum, that is if you want her to know.
If you have a significant other at the time who's the same sex, invite that person over and tell your mum you're dating.
Or if your mum has a talk with you about dating (which she probably will!) tell her you might be bi then.
Don't worry about her not accepting you. It could come as a shock at first.
But she should understand. and then you will wonder what you were scared of.
Think this through carefully.
and good luck with who you are, :)
okay.. im going out with this guy.
he lived in ohio and i live in colorado.
i have never met him
we met on myspace
im 13 and hes 14..
how long do you think we will last?
honestly?
You probably already know there's a chance you could be talking to someone totally different, like a 43 year old woman for instance!! So I won't go into that and about net safety etc etc.
I don't think it will last. One of you could go out tomorrow and meet a potential gf/bf, making this internet relationship difficult.
It's perfectly fine to build a strong friendship with this boy, but taking it to the next level is a little far fetched, especially as you don't properly know each other. How do you know he doesn't already have a gf and he's just out to hurt people?
Don't stop being his friend.. After all, that is what MySpace is for.
But really think about this.
Yes, it's nice to have a bf. But how long will it be before you wish you could see him, hold him..
and you know that can't happen because of the long distance.
I, personally, wouldn't get involved with an internet relationship. It's alot of hassle and you will most probably end up being hurt in the long run. Not to mention wasting alot of time.
I hope whatever you choose to do is the right decision. Good luck. :)
In the song London Bridge by Fergie, does the term "London Bridge" mean something bad? Because I was listening to the song with my Dad and he said, "This song is innapropriate."
Your dad probably said it was inappropriate because of the language used in the song. (swearing!) and what it's implying. (sexual!)
i have a problem & i'm hoping someone can tell me how to deal with it. alright...i'm really shy to begin with. everytime i get a boy we break up because i won't open up to him. it's not that at all. i just keep my distance because i don't want to smother him or whatever. i feel that if i call & ask if he wants to do something or that if i walk up to him at school to talk to him that i'm interupting his life. any advice would help. maybe someone could give me some limitation for when to talk to him & when to leave him alone. thank you so much. [:
I've been through this. and it turns out, he WANTS you to go up to him, chat, make decisions, ask him to do things.. Because it feels like he's doing all the running around and you don't actually want to be in a relationship.
I'm sure if he didn't want to talk or he needed time to be alone, he would tell you. So don't worry about "interrupting his life"
There really isn't a way to get over it, apart from pushing yourself to talk to him.
Don't think it won't get easier, because it really will. and then things will become so much better, allowing you to become closer to your boyfriend.
I hope things work out for you.
i'm a 13/f and all of my friends have already started dating. i havent even found out 1 guy that even likes me! my best friends called up my crush and asked him if he likes me. he said i'm not his type and that i'm too tall. i play volleyball and he plays hockey. so i think we have things in commen. but i just dont get it. i'm about 5'6 or 5'7 and he's around that height too. i am so sad now because i feel so behind. all of my friends have bf's and i dont even have a guy that likes me! i need some advice on how to make myself feel better about myself. please help!!!! thanks soo much!
Don't worry about it! Seems like you're getting upset just because your friends are dating.
You're only 13. and quite frankly, you aren't really missing out on much, I promise.
Your time will come. Can be soon, or a few years from now. But it will. and if you're worried about your height, when you're older, everyone else might have caught up with you. So that really isn't an issue. Cheer up.
In the mean time, start talking to boys, get to know them better and make more friends. More could come out of it too :)
okay, well, this is more of a poll than a question. i have kissed several guys, and i think kissing is JUST kissing, but you always hear, "oh hes a good kisser", or "hes not a very good kisser". i think thats a myth. how many people actually believe that there are really good in bad kissers. i mean, i can understand if a guy is like, all over you, thats a bad kisser, but just normal making out? i dont get it!!
I believe there is no right or wrong way. However, what one person may prefer, the other person may not like it just as much.
I can't say I've ever experienced a bad kiss, but some have been better than others.
Eg. They can be too fast/slow, totally out of rhythm with the other person, too sloppy, nervous, etc etc. This doesn't necesarrily make them bad though. It just needs a bit of practice to make it as enjoyable as possible for the both of you :)
I lost my virginity about 2 months ago
aand I've only had sex 4 times
but recently I've been using a dildo and it hurts and stuff, but I keep going anyway because I want the pain to go away.
But now I'm really red and I kind of hurt
"downthere"
Could I have an STD?
or is this normal?
You can't get an std from using a dildo, unless someone who's infected used it before you, which I'm guessing isn't the case!
However, you could have an std from sex if you didn't take all the precautions.
You're probably red down there because you're pushing yourself and trying to make sex easier for the future.
But if you're worried and the pain and redness doesn't go away within 5-7 days, you should go and see a doctor.
Don't worry though. :)
I'll come out clean. I'm chinese and about 5 feet. Does anyone know the average boob size for a mandrian chinese girl from the south? What's the american average? I know I'll never be the american average, but just wondering. I wear a size 34A. Just a few months ago, I got bigger, which I was happy! I thought I'll never leave 32A. Help if you can. I'm 13 too.
You're 13. and if I'm being perfectly honest, at such a young age, there is no certain/average size you should be.
You will grow. It could be soon, or even years from now. All you can do is wait I'm afraid.
hiiiii!
well,
im a female, age 14
i have this guy friend, kurt. (we are both 14) ive known him for like 2 years, but i dont know him that well. (he's my neighbor's friend) but he lives close by. he always says things to me that are like mixed signals. EXAMPLE- everytime he comes over my neighbors house, all of them come knocking on my door asking if my sister and i want to come out and play manhunt at night. so we do, and he always comes up to me and gives me a quick hug and says something like, "marisaaa, i missed you i love you". but he says it in like a funny voice. or he will like just stare at me and everytime he sees me he says MARISAAAAAAAAAA!. and he always does this, and i kind of like it, cause it makes me feel like he likes me. but then when we play truth or dare or are just hanging outside he always asks everyone who they like. so yesterday he was asking everyone and then he was like, "GUESS WHO I LIKE?!" and my neighbor, troy was like, "oh i know, megan". and kurt said,"ughhhhh nooooo yesss maybe soooo. (yeah hes kind of a goofy kid). and he asked me, "do you know megan? she dives shes really cool". so i am really confused! i am getting MIXED SIGNALS from this guy! HELP!
Well, it seems to me this guy could like you, but he's trying to hide it, or not be serious about it, just incase you don't like him back.
Looks like he's also trying to make you jealous by asking you about Megan.
But to be perfectly honest, if he's going to be like this, and you want to know the truth whether or not he does like you, you're going to either have to ask around (ask his friends. Or get your friends to ask Kurt or his friends) or take a bigger leap and ask him yourself. If you don't want to come straight out with it, ask him to hang out with you alone, and see what happens from there.
There is a downside though..
If you do ask him, there's a chance he might not feel the same way and it could affect your friendship. This doesn't happen often though. Only if the person is quite freaked out by it! So really, you don't have anything to lose.
But if I were you, i'd simply hang out with him and get to know him more first. :)
Good luck!
alright, so, we all make mistakes, just, some worse then others
well, yesterday I went to go trim my hair, the lady ended up taking an inch & 1/2 off
so, it didn't look good & I wasn't too happy
so, I went to go get it dyed to maybe make it look better, I tried to dye it dark brown, but it came out black (I'm naturally a blonde, so, imagine how that looks with my skin)
so, what I'm asking is, how do I grow my hair out faster?
& how do I fade the color A TON?
thanks!
There isn't really much you can do alone I'm afraid. Unless you keep washing it to make the colour fade (which it will), dye it again, or spend alot of money getting your original colour back by going to the hairdressers.
You also can't make your hair grow faster.
Try keeping your brown hair. Maybe you're just not used to it.
At least you can fix it. and it was a lesson learnt. Don't worry too much. and good luck with what you decide to do! :)
do girls like guys that are neatly trimmed, just some hair or not cut or shaven at all at the dick? and do girls like guys that shave their ass or not? and lastly, are girls more attracted to hairy chested men or hairy legged men?
To be honest, pubic hair isn't a problem. If there wasn't ALOT, obviously! Same goes for the backside.
However, I can't say I'm a fan of hairy chests. I guess a little isn't bad, though.
and Hairy legs are fine. :)
do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks
Every girl is different. and it depends where the piercings actually are. I like piercings, so facial ones wouldn't be a turn off for me. (within reason. Not a ridiculous amount, like a face full of metal.) Lips, noses, it's all good. As for other places on the body, I wouldn't actually mind either.
i just got my lip peicred, and i wanted it peirced with a stud, but the peircer said he doesn't peirce lips with studs.my friend got her lip pierced with a stud though.after it completely heals, can i take it out and put a monroe or labret stud in it?will it do anything to my gums or teeth if i do do that?
thanks!
You can exchange it for a stud if you wish, once it's healed.
You won't know if it will damage teeth and gums until you try.
If the stud rubs on your gums, it can wear it down, exposing the tooth, causing many problems in the future, such as gum disease.
If you notice anything like this, or if it causes discomfort, take it out right away.
I recently heard that there is birthcontrol for guys i live in Missouri and i was wondering where i could find it...thanks!
http://uk.askmen.com/love/dzimmer_60/72_love_answers.html
hi i'm a 16 years old girl and have never had sex, a boyfriend, or kissed a guy. people tell me all the time that i am pretty and must have a ton of guy friends. i get ridiculously nervous around guys i really like and act like a total dork. what can i do to get guys to like me or to handle my nerves?
here's pics of me lol
http://i8.tinypic.com/24fa8o1.jpg
http://i7.tinypic.com/24fadcy.jpg
You're lovely.
and alot of people your age haven't experienced what you've stated.
It's normal to be nervous around guys.
Just build up your confidence (easier said than done, sorry) and don't forget, they're probably just as nervous as you.
When there's a guy you like, make that extra bit of effort. Strike up a conversation, say hi, and invite him out with you and some of your friends so it won't be awkward.
You really have nothing to worry about. and talking to guys will get easier, promise.
Good luck. :)
i need some new music, i like rock, alternative, indie, the stuff like that. Please give me new bands or non common ones. Becuase i already know of a lot of bands so i need new ones.
Jess
Try these..
Ladytron, Klaxons, Le tigre, Boy kill boy, Archie bronson outfit, you say party we say die...
Go to www.myspace.com on music search and browse the 1000's of indie/alternative bands.
i'm a 16 year old girl who has never done it or had even had a REAL boyfriend.
is this abnormal?
cause my friends are all off doing it and they think im such a nerd.
What makes you think it's abnormal?
Who cares if your friends are doing it.
You are your own person.
It doesn't matter if you haven't had a serious boyfriend yet. Alot of people haven't at your age anyway.
Don't think you're missing out, because you really aren't!
Take your time, find the right person and when the time is right, you will be thankful you waited :)
There's no rush.
General question. I would like to hear everyone's thoughts on the true nature of forgiveness:whether forgiveness is possible, or whether it is a man-made delusion. Any concrete examples are much appreciated.
My friend once told me he doesn't forgive. He just forgets and moves on.
and this is something I've now found myself doing.
I got a terrible hair cut about a few months ago. The lady cut 4inches off, and layered it. However, the layers are all uneven and super choppy. It looks like I did it myself, with a blindfold on! How do I disguise the layers?
My hair isn't long enough to cut it even yet.
Straightening it doesn't work, but I don't
always want to wear it in a pony tail!
Thanks so much.
(2 inches below my shoulders, medium thickness, wavy)
Sometimes, when you get alot of layers, it takes a while to settle and not be so rugged. Give it a few weeks and it might look alot better.
In the mean time though, straighten it and put half up and half down so it won't be noticeable :)
Don't worry. Your hair will grow faster than you think.