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so i like my guy friend. okay like A LOT.
hiiiii!
well,
im a female, age 14
i have this guy friend, kurt. (we are both 14) ive known him for like 2 years, but i dont know him that well. (he's my neighbor's friend) but he lives close by. he always says things to me that are like mixed signals. EXAMPLE- everytime he comes over my neighbors house, all of them come knocking on my door asking if my sister and i want to come out and play manhunt at night. so we do, and he always comes up to me and gives me a quick hug and says something like, "marisaaa, i missed you i love you". but he says it in like a funny voice. or he will like just stare at me and everytime he sees me he says MARISAAAAAAAAAA!. and he always does this, and i kind of like it, cause it makes me feel like he likes me. but then when we play truth or dare or are just hanging outside he always asks everyone who they like. so yesterday he was asking everyone and then he was like, "GUESS WHO I LIKE?!" and my neighbor, troy was like, "oh i know, megan". and kurt said,"ughhhhh nooooo yesss maybe soooo. (yeah hes kind of a goofy kid). and he asked me, "do you know megan? she dives shes really cool". so i am really confused! i am getting MIXED SIGNALS from this guy! HELP!
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Well, it seems to me this guy could like you, but he's trying to hide it, or not be serious about it, just incase you don't like him back.
Looks like he's also trying to make you jealous by asking you about Megan.
But to be perfectly honest, if he's going to be like this, and you want to know the truth whether or not he does like you, you're going to either have to ask around (ask his friends. Or get your friends to ask Kurt or his friends) or take a bigger leap and ask him yourself. If you don't want to come straight out with it, ask him to hang out with you alone, and see what happens from there.
There is a downside though..
If you do ask him, there's a chance he might not feel the same way and it could affect your friendship. This doesn't happen often though. Only if the person is quite freaked out by it! So really, you don't have anything to lose.
But if I were you, i'd simply hang out with him and get to know him more first. :)
Good luck!
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