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i'm a tall freak
i'm a 13/f and all of my friends have already started dating. i havent even found out 1 guy that even likes me! my best friends called up my crush and asked him if he likes me. he said i'm not his type and that i'm too tall. i play volleyball and he plays hockey. so i think we have things in commen. but i just dont get it. i'm about 5'6 or 5'7 and he's around that height too. i am so sad now because i feel so behind. all of my friends have bf's and i dont even have a guy that likes me! i need some advice on how to make myself feel better about myself. please help!!!! thanks soo much!
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You're not THAT tall. You're tall, but I mean like its not like you're abnormal. At age 13, most people are around 5'4", so you're not that far off.
About the boy thing- you want a guy that will break away from the crowd of guys that likes "the popular person" to like you. And a guy like that is worth waiting for.
Even if you haven't found a guy that likes you YET, I guarantee there is a guy out there that thinks you are the most beautiful girl on the face of this planet. So don't freak just because you haven't found him yet-- he's out there. =]
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I'm going to assume your in 7th or 8th grade.
If so, then the guys will be hitting your height soon, so you have something to look forward too.
Those guys sound pretty superficialy,
don't waste your time on them, when they're taller and they want to go out with you, turn then away. Hit the older guys for now :)
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First of all if that guy didn't like you because you're too tall, then you can do better than him. Find guys that like you for you, not how tall you are or what you look like. 5'6, 5'7 isn't even that tall, the older you get the more you grow into your body and you'll be fine. And once you get the guys, you're gonna realize that you were worrying for nothing, cus really, it's not that great!
=] Evy
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I think that at this point in life you don't need a guy! I mean it isn't really that important. There are things like your sudies and other life aspects like playing volleyball to think about and put your focus into, guys can just blur things up because you aren't sure what they think. I think at this point it would be better to just not worry about it.
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first of all i gotta say that you don't need a bf to feel good about yourself. there is always someone out there for everyone. just be patient and your bf will come around.
hope i helped.
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5'7 isnt that tall alot of people who r gurls are about that height. just go up and flirt with more guys and u'l probably find a guy who will start to like you
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Hey. I know how it feels.. I have been there and done that. What you have to do is find confidence in your self. Walk tall and be happy to be you. I know this sounds really dumb but just be yourself. Theres a perfect guy for everyone out there you just have to be patient. As for dating? Don't worry about it. Your thirteen you have plenty of time. I'm sorry you feel left out of the picture but chances are theres a guy out there crushin on you and he is too scared or un sure of himself to fess up. Just be happy and time will tell when mr. right comes along. ♥ kelli
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Don't worry about it! Seems like you're getting upset just because your friends are dating.
You're only 13. and quite frankly, you aren't really missing out on much, I promise.
Your time will come. Can be soon, or a few years from now. But it will. and if you're worried about your height, when you're older, everyone else might have caught up with you. So that really isn't an issue. Cheer up.
In the mean time, start talking to boys, get to know them better and make more friends. More could come out of it too :)
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