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i have a problem & i'm hoping someone can tell me how to deal with it. alright...i'm really shy to begin with. everytime i get a boy we break up because i won't open up to him. it's not that at all. i just keep my distance because i don't want to smother him or whatever. i feel that if i call & ask if he wants to do something or that if i walk up to him at school to talk to him that i'm interupting his life. any advice would help. maybe someone could give me some limitation for when to talk to him & when to leave him alone. thank you so much. [:
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i would say leave him alone when hes around his friends so you dont interrupt their conversation. if hes by himself, you can go talk to him. maybe sit by him at lunch so you can talk. and yes you can call him and ask him if he wants to hang out. hes your boyfriend he wants to be with you. as for being shy, i used to be really shy too. you just have to be more carefree and not be a..hmm..pussy. dont be afraid to do things or say things. that made me less shy.
hope i helped!!
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well if you're someone's girlfriend you are then part of his life. so if you talk to whoever it is they won't be mad because you're pretty much their's. they really don't like when girls don't talk to them. they get confused. just don't be afraid to talk to any guys.
you should ask him what plans he has for the week and that way you know when to leave him alone and spend time with him.
hope it works out!
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omg same thing is happeneing to me too right now. well sorta. i liek this guy. to shy to talk. he gets really ANNOYED that i dont go up to him and that i cant talk to him. so now he doesnt think i like him anymore. which is a lie. so go up and talk to him. so hi to him and stuff. believe me they will like it. and his friends will think its cute. lol trust me
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guys really like it if you go up and talk to them. and they get annyoed if you dont. they thing that you dont like them or whatever so go up and talk to him and stuff
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I've been through this. and it turns out, he WANTS you to go up to him, chat, make decisions, ask him to do things.. Because it feels like he's doing all the running around and you don't actually want to be in a relationship.
I'm sure if he didn't want to talk or he needed time to be alone, he would tell you. So don't worry about "interrupting his life"
There really isn't a way to get over it, apart from pushing yourself to talk to him.
Don't think it won't get easier, because it really will. and then things will become so much better, allowing you to become closer to your boyfriend.
I hope things work out for you.
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