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my dad
sorry this is probably gonna be really really really long
ok me and my dad have always been really close like i could always talk to him and stuff and for the last like year it has only been me and him living together in a city like an hour away from my sister{shes 16}and also where we used to live.and like a few months ago he came to me with a problem that he may loose his job and that finding another job in his feild in reddeer will not happen we would have to move back to our old city where my sis is {calgary}or to edmonton where his gf is{thats an hour away from reddeer in the opisite deriction of calgary}i was realy upset by this because i love reddeer i was popular and happy and nopt afraid to show who i was like i was in calgary.my dad knew i was upset and felt awful about so a few weeks later he came to me saying his old boss offered him a job {in calgary}i didnt think this was very good because he hated is old job {the never piad there bills or anything}but then he told me he would be getting alot more money and his boss promised my dad that he would basically be the boss my dad seemed to think it was a good idea and so i shutup and didnt whine about moveing or any thing his gf moved with us my sis also moved back in since we moved right aftyer school was out i have no friends yet so i dont have alot to cept the computer i have also been hanging with my sister and her friends so anyway my dad has gotten realy cranky since we moved he says i always argue with him and i cant seem to have a normal convo with everyone has seen his mood swings and no one y and i dont no wat to do o and also the job that he took here got screwed just like i thought now he works somewhere else and i dont know wat to do
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You guys have been going through a ton of stressful changes. You can't control how his job is going, but you can control your attitude. Just be positive and nice and obey him, with his problems with work, he certianly doesn't need more at home.
And try to be open about where you've moved, that is a tough ordeal but you WILL make friends if you make an effort.
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You and your dad have been through a lot of changes lately, and stress. You are not responsible for anyone else but yourself right now, but try to be respectful and maintain the peace with your dad and family. It may be a bumpy road for a while, and you may have to do a lot of helping out. Be patient with the mood swings and concentrate on your responsibilities at school. To relieve your own stress, find a teacher or counselor at school to talk to. It sounds like your dad is trying really hard to make things work out for everyone, so be supportive. You will make friends if you keep trying, so don't give up!
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i know how you feel one day when i was in America my parents to move us all to egypt because of my dads job also...same thing i didnt have friends so this is what i did and you should do this also...MAKE FRIENDS!! haha look your gonna be going to a new school soon and in schools there alot of children there your bound to find people just like you that your gonna end up to love and if you make alot of friends you meet there friends and there your back to popularity..abouut your dads mood flips talk to him about it and tell him that hes been fliping on everyone ask his whats wrong tell him what he said to you upset you and that you moved here all for him..talk to him like an adult so he can see your mature...tell me how it goes..and i hope i helped kk peace
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