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internet relationship
okay.. im going out with this guy.
he lived in ohio and i live in colorado.
i have never met him
we met on myspace
im 13 and hes 14..
how long do you think we will last?
honestly?
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Well, I tried it out once, and it lasted longer than I expected. A month and a half, but then.. well, he found ANOTHER girl on the internet I guess he prefered so he dumped me for her, bahaha. Turns out he was juggling another internet girl while he was with that one too. Haha, so I don't think any good comes out of it. So they probably won't last too long cause too many emotions get into it and they'll miss eachother and want to see eachother and everything, and it just gets messy.
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let me tell you -this isnt going to last long AT ALL. sorry to tell you =( but why do you wanna go out with someone over the internet and they dont even live in the same state as you? what kind of relationship is that. you wont get to see them at all or anything! try finding another boy near you ..trust me you will be much happier hunnie! but if you really want to stay in this relationship then go for it but im just warning you! ♥
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honestly not very long i mean you will alomost never see each other how do you know if one of you will sneak around or something. i dont think it will work i mean you can still be good friends but you cant even be friends with benifits becuase of the distance sorry hun :)
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I'm pretty sure he's in his late fourties & you're putting youself in danger. All you're going to get is words with this guy-no affection. It's going to be a waste of your time if you continue this. You need to end it because you might not be dealing with a teenager.
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Hey I'm Sasha. I think the little internet relationships are cute...but they aren't real. I'm saying to make the point that you shouldn't really put all of your feelings out there and end up getting hurt when he out grows myspace girlfriends. It's like a game to me. Something fun to do , but just fantasy life. Now, if you two were a little older then I'd give you a bit of time because you two could actually go and see each other. But, I'll give you two maybe a couple of months. Hope that helps.
Love,
Sasha:]
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Um, next time Dateline To Catch an Internet Predator comes on - watch it. Vulnerable teenagers like you are the reason that show has like three series.
Don't get involved with people over the internet that you've never met. That is probably the lamest thing I have ever heard; it won't last. Honestly.
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seriously i would not date sumeone from the internet specailly myspace cause they could be lyin big time. but if you feel it's a must then do what ya gotta do just don't give any REAL info cause he might say he is from ohio but he might be a creepy guy right down ya block. THINK ABOUT IT.
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Having a boyfriend over MySpace isn't the best thing in the world to do. He may claim to be a 15 year old boy, but that's not always the case. He could be a 40 year old pervert that goes on the internet to look for little girls and tries to lower them into his trap. Once he has you as a friend, he'll be able to search up everything about you; where you live, what school you go to and what you look like. DO NOT give him ANY kind of personal information about yourself. If you do, he can track where you live in a heart beat. A lot of people over the internet ARE NOT safe and a lot will try to harm you. I suggest not talking to him anymore and if he wants to meet you, tell him no. You never know who he could be. Hopefully you make the right decision and you dump him for your safety. ♥
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i dont know if this will answer ur question but this is a TRUE story of what is happening to my cousin right now.
my cousin meet a girl Online. he is 17 turning 18 and he was talking to a 15 year old year. the both lived in the same area of the state but they never meet each other. well one day the decide to meet up and when they meet up he got arested because it really was a 40 year old cop. now he is locked up and his parents ahve to pay 40,000 to bail him out.
to answer ur question i wouldnt do this. i mean he can say he is with you but he can also say the samething to other girls. so yea..
♥ Steph
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Honestly, I don't think you'll last a very long time. For one, it's a really bad idea but no one can tell you what to do. Second, you don't know what he could be doing behind your back. Maybe he cheated on you and you don't know about it. It's hard having a relationship when you don't know the person at all. You only know him by his picture and what he claims to be. Just be careful.
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Oh my don`t go out with him. For all you know he could be a 40 year old man or somthing. Never go out with someone you meat on internet. People lie on there and everything so don`t put your self in a risk of getting raped or somthing like that!
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umm probably about an hour. if you met on myspace..who knows if hes even telling the truth. he could be some perv pretending to be 14. dont give him any info about yourself. internet relationships are stupid i think. youll never see him or talk to him in person.
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I don't think thats a good idea. It could be some 40 year old pedophile whos pretending to be 14. Don't give him any personal info ir anything, and don't meet him in person, you never know who he could be. You can still talk to him just don't get too serious about him it could be dangerous.
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i think you should break up with him...it is very dangerous to meet someone online and go out with him! for all you know it could be a 70 year old man! i think you should break up with him and stay away from any way to communicate with him. if you met him, it would be another story but this is pretty dangerous. take my advice, this could be really bad...you never know.
~~Jenna
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Alright this is a disaster waiting to happen. This could be a physco pervert stalker! But... you probably already know that, so I won't lecture you any more. Just *please* NEVER MEET IN PERSON! Even if you "go out" with him for years, its still very unsafe.
Are you seriously committed? Like, do you really think of him as your boyfriend? Let me just say that if you're taking yourself off of the dating market for some guy that is probably cheating on you in REAL life then its definitely not worth it. With this relationship, you will never be able to hold hands, kiss, hug, or do any of the intimate things that REAL couples do. So, to answer your question, I think you will last a few weeks, and then either you will realize its not worth it or he will.
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MySpace is a piece of CRAP! It's stupid and you can get hurt. It's not worth it. An ohio guy you've met on myspace...right...
He could be a 40 year old molester and could be lying to you! I think you should be a mature teenager and grow up! Myspace are for those desperate wannabe's and wanna have a guy... you whoo, you can find your own guy at school. your too yougn too. it aint gonna last and don't even try. If i was in your position, I'll leave him alone, and go find guys in colorado where I belong...
GROW UP...come on. at least in colorado where you are, you know and you've seen the person.
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it's never going to be a real relationship. you're probably not going to meet each other or anything but it's okay have this boy around to talk to. maybe you should make it a friends only kind of thing. i think it'd be better that way. [:
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Seriously, like a few months - tops. [:
I was in a lot of internet relationships, when I was around your age, until I was 15. & Trust me, you make not think it now, but whenever you get older you'll want a boyfriend around you all the time not just talking on the phone. Everyone goes through it at one point or another. [:
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You probably already know there's a chance you could be talking to someone totally different, like a 43 year old woman for instance!! So I won't go into that and about net safety etc etc.
I don't think it will last. One of you could go out tomorrow and meet a potential gf/bf, making this internet relationship difficult.
It's perfectly fine to build a strong friendship with this boy, but taking it to the next level is a little far fetched, especially as you don't properly know each other. How do you know he doesn't already have a gf and he's just out to hurt people?
Don't stop being his friend.. After all, that is what MySpace is for.
But really think about this.
Yes, it's nice to have a bf. But how long will it be before you wish you could see him, hold him..
and you know that can't happen because of the long distance.
I, personally, wouldn't get involved with an internet relationship. It's alot of hassle and you will most probably end up being hurt in the long run. Not to mention wasting alot of time.
I hope whatever you choose to do is the right decision. Good luck. :)
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Dating someone over myspace is not the savest thing to do. You have no idea if this boy is 14 years old. i know this isnt something you want to hear but i wouldnt date him. He could me a 30 year old man planning to hurt you. Alot of people get killed by dating online because they believe everything that the person tells them. Theres probly a good chance that you guys would probly never meet because one of your parents would have to bring you. And your parents probly wouldnt approve of you dating him.
kim:)
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HI! well first are you sure hes 14 because you never know who oyu are talking to these days and i dout u will every meet each other so is there much point to your relationship???? and at the same time you are going out with each other you or him could have another boyfriend/ girlfriend who you are able to see so you probably wont be true to each other as its only an internet thing if i were you i just stick to being frineds and chating on the net
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