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guy problems!
hi i'm a 16 years old girl and have never had sex, a boyfriend, or kissed a guy. people tell me all the time that i am pretty and must have a ton of guy friends. i get ridiculously nervous around guys i really like and act like a total dork. what can i do to get guys to like me or to handle my nerves?
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woah your really pretty! dont think im lying bcz if i didnt think you were gorgeous i wouldent tell you that! im totally shy around boys, its 100% normal! going to talk to a boy with your friends always helps. that way you can put your arm around them or somthing, which makes yyou feel more secure. please do not cross your arms, it makes you look self-concious! try sitting down next to a boy, it makes you feel less like everyones staring at you. but, standing dosent make you feel trapped, like you could walk away whenever you want. first just try with stopping in the halls to say Hi and ask how a certain class was. and then ask somone for a homework assignment. then get more comftorble with conversations and youll get it. good luck!
p.s confidence is key. if YOU think your the hottest thing in the room, EVERYONE will!
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Never had a boyfriend huh? Well, I'm nervous with guys, and I'm nearly 14...and probably will never get one because I'm not really pretty; no one says it to me. Wait until a guy asks you out.. Can't wait? Ask your friends to come with you and talk with a guy. All you need to do is breath in and out, and talk about normal stuff...be urself and don't stutter.
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First of all, you're really gorgeous and I love your shirt!
Lots of girls your age haven't had their first ANYTHING yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time for something like this to happen. Some get it when they're 12, others when they're 16 and some even only have their first time when they're 18-30. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss/loose your virginity and such, yet. You're only 16, hun. You have tons of time! When your first kiss comes/first time you have sex with someone, it should be with someone special that you care about and you want to do this with. You always remember your first time. So, don't get pressured into it. Make sure you're 100% comfortable with the person you're with. Give it time, though. It will come and it'll be that much more special when it does, because you waited until you were ready. ♥
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your gorgous but u do look lke you wood be shy. um just act like hes a friend. and if you like any of them tell them
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first off i lovveee your shirt so much :)
anyways, a good way to become more comfortable with a guy is too talk to him on im/email/myspace/facebook (by commenting for the last2)
cuz that way you can think of what you are gonna say and then ask yourself is it dorky or not
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Your beautiful. when are around guys act yourself & flirt with them. It gives you more confidence. Guys like girls that have alot of confidence in themselves. Be crazy around guys theres no need to act shy around them.
kim:)
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Aw your very pretty!
Dont worry, dont rush into sex.
Its perfectly normal to be nervous around guys,
I never really have been, but thats just me.
The main thing is be yourself, and dont let anyone pressure you to do anything you arent ready to do. And there is no problem with not having sex at your age. I suggest waiting until marriage, since a lot of teens dont realize that sex is awkward, and not like the sex scenes on tv and in movies, real life sex is nothing like that. So dont worry about it, its best you have it when you are really with the person you are absolutely sure about.
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Well, theres nothing wrong with your looks. Personally I think you're beautiful. The best thing that you can do to get people to like you is just to be yourself and wait for the right guy to come along. I know it sounds lame but, it really is the best option. Hope I helped
-BlackBatman-
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You're lovely.
and alot of people your age haven't experienced what you've stated.
It's normal to be nervous around guys.
Just build up your confidence (easier said than done, sorry) and don't forget, they're probably just as nervous as you.
When there's a guy you like, make that extra bit of effort. Strike up a conversation, say hi, and invite him out with you and some of your friends so it won't be awkward.
You really have nothing to worry about. and talking to guys will get easier, promise.
Good luck. :)
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First of all, WOW YOURE GORGEOUS. I have know clue why the guys wouldnt be all over you. But I kinda have the same problem, i get reallly nervous around guys. Well what I think you should do is just have more confidence because as you know, confidence goes a lonnnnng way. Also guys like girls like that. It should be no problem for you. One way you could try to gain confidence is by looking in the mirror and saying "hey im pretty hot" etc. I know it may sound weird lol but at least try it. Just remember, youre not alone. Good Luck!
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Hey, I saw your pic and if it helps any..I think your lack of getting guys to be attracted to you is not based on your looks. You are a pretty girl.
All I can say is...when you talk to a guy you like...seem interested but treat him like one of your guy friends. You probably get so nervous because you are busy trying to think of a way to impress them. Stop trying to impress them...then the pressure is no longer there and hopefully you can act normal.
But maybe this won't work. And maybe your nervous act will attract a guy one day...they may think it's cute. Just don't worry...your day will come. =]
Good Luck,
Teacup
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when you talk to a guy act like your the hottest shit around and it builds up a lot of confidence and just ask for their cell phone and put your name in it and bam they got your number...btw your pretty
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I went through the same thing at one point, I would only have guy friends and never could go any farther with any of them. One important thing I realized is I had to gain confidence. You are a very pretty girl, so when you're around guys try to feel confident and let that shine through. Also, try flirting with any guy friends that you like. If you don't flirt, then most guys will think you only want to be friends. The "just friends" zone is a very annoying one, but you can break through that. When you're around guys you like, even if you are nervous, try to act like it's not a big deal. Have fun with the flirting.
Hope that helps, and good luck!
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