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Q: I wrote a song and i think its pretty good. Im a pretty good singer and I could sing it, but how?
Get a band together-trix

Q: heres another poem:

When you lose something special, no matter what the pain, you must look inside yourself and see what others gain.

When you lose someone that you love, you must set them free, if they slip through your fingers, then it wasnt meant to be.

Your day will come and your light will shine through, always remember, someone loves you.

Like it?
I like that and its true so good job! and keep writing!-trix

Q: okay, i knew this guy sionce 8th grade, adn we are becoming seniors this fall. i used to date him, and we broke up because a freind made it heck for us, and now we are friends again. and i realized that i am in love with him...so we went to the crnival in our town together and we sat and watched the fireworks together, holding each other tightly the whole time. and we walked home hand in hand. we sat on my porch untill 2 am cuddling and talking. i asked him to our homecoming dance this fall and he said "well, i dont like to dance, but since you want me to go, i'll go with you". and he left and went home an hour later, adn i have not heard from him since. i have tryed to call him and i cant get ahold of him...no oen answers his phone. and when i leave a message, he never gets back to me!

so my questions are...does he like me back? did i scare him off? what is going on inside his head? if anyone could help me it would b eso so so useful!
Well bring up the past of when you 2 went out and tell him it was a friend that made you 2 break up and if that friend hadnt do u 2 think you would being still going out? start a convo and see what happans from there. He may just be out of town and It sounds like he likes you and it may have came to a shock of him that you asked him so i dont think you scarred him but i think you just shocked him and for the inside of his head.. i have no idea he is just probably thinking things through good luck between you too-trix

Q: how do you kiss please help and it would help if you could give me a time when you kisssed and explain it
Well you cant really teach someone how to kiss its just something you know like i was soo lost on how to kiss but i new what to do when it was happaning just go with the flow-trix

Q: hey i like this guy but i dont think he likes me how can i find out?
Have a friend ask him about it-trix

Q: My mother treats me like I'm 5. I can't shop wherever i want to. She tries to hold my hand while crossing the street and at the mall. I needed new underwear and there were thongs and then granny underwear. She handed me the granny underwear!!! I told her I wasn't wearing them and then she was like, "Ok we're leaving here then." How can I tell her to back off a little bit??
Just tell her how you feel and that you are growing up and maturing more just tell her-trix

Q: Okay there is this guy named brad and i like a lot i mean a lot...i imagine a future with him...that's how much i love him!! he is interested in someone who doesn't even think of him like that!! now i'm suppose 2 go 2 a concert and he has invited me 2 sleep over his house after the concert!! is he flirting with me?? is he giving me signals?? what kind signals should i give?? how can i tell my best friend of 3years that i like him?? How can i make a friendship into a relationship??

From,
.*.BeSs.*.
I think he does like you and is giving u signals and give him the same kind back! And just tell her cuz you cant help who you like or how you feel about the person! Just talk to him about it when you sleep over or at the concert like right before it starts or when your walking out-trix

Q: every times i wear a shirt you see on my sides sticking out.. any moves wrok on abs??
i am like 4.11
wight105
Pilates and you are talking about your love handles-trix

Q: I'm a 15 year old with a little sister who's 14. We are not allowed to date and outr parents are pretty strict but they love us and just want the best for us. Anywayz lately my sis is rebelling(wearing revealing clothing, getting car rides from guys, etc) and i'm kind of worried about her, i just don't want her to get into trouble from rebelling or from my parents. Also next year i'll be able to drive and i'm expected to drive her but she's got plans to let her friends drive her to and from school and when i tell her it's not a good idea plus it's not fair that her rebelling may get me in trouble if she gets caught since she's supposed to be with me. She tells me that i can't tell her what to do. i don't know what to do can u give me some advice?
Talk to your parents and point out what you see is going on-trix

Q: Thing is me and travis dated for three years and broke up my freshman year. he kinda 2 years younger then me.. now i am 19 and senior and he is sopmore 16... i know age not matter but matter is that I never went out any othner guys. and i do know other guys... see we thinking we are soul mate like we feel we belong together and we both get along and feel so comble with eather family. but problem is I am not in love with him and I sard that i maybe find someone else for a reason.. I do want go out other guys and i dont want lose my best freind... we been friends forever. thing is i dont want waste his school year and stuff.. sorry if this sound conffuseing i trying explaime question i try writ but if this not enought just email me and i try put out more... thanks
I got confused lol send something to my inbox and ill help you out-trix

Q: I need to no is there any where i can go on the net and make my own homepage for free and can copy and paste pictures on it? pleez help and answer asap! thanx! i rate!
xprofile.net or buddy4u.com-trix

Q: Is it ok to have a make-out buddy? I mean, not a sex buddy, we're not having sex...but we're only making out once in a while. We dont like eachother, but is it still ok? Does it make me a slut?
Well.. it kind of varies.. it seems slutty but so many people have those kind of buddies so i wouldnt worry just dont let it get to far-trix

Q: im going to a camp in another state and my cousin is going to the same camp. (its a church camp) and i dont think my cousin likes me very much. i just move to this church so i dont know anyone but my cousin. i dont want to hang out with her cause she'll get mad! i dont know what to do.
Just be frinedly and you'll do fine-trix

Q: can anybody tell me exactly what happens when u get ur bellybutton peirced.. i want it done so bad but iwanna know what they do!!
The pain.. doesnt hurt to bad cause they put a clamp on it and that hurts then all of a sudden they stick the needle through before you know it but its a so-so thing.. depends on how skinny you are cuz the more skinny you are it hurts. -trix

Q: I feel that my father is cheating on my mother. There are some obvious signs, and I'm not sure on whether or not I should confront him about it. (I'm thirteen.)

1) There have been small pieces of paper in front of the family computer with porno sites on them.

2) I have seen porno links on the computer's history.

3) At strange times of the day, his 'work' cellphone rings, and on the phone's interface it reads 'private call.'

4) I went onto the computer one day, seeing that a Singles website was completely filled out with my father's information.

My feelings are mixed--it could all just be a coincidence, and if it isn't, should I confront him about it or would I just be getting in the way? Please help me guys.

xoxoxox,
Constantly Confused
I would just tell your mom first before you confront him about it otherwize you and your dad would probably not have much of a talk again-trix

Q: hey k so my boyfriend smokes and when he came back from thedoctor he said that if he smoked again hed die right there and then , he keeps wanting to smoke each night how can I get him to stop and hes 15, need help fast
~need ur help~
Tell him you really want him to stop and how you feel and point out that you dont want him to die and its important that you dont and that he has so much to live for-trix

Q: Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do???
It was the right thing to do but i would have not let him down that way.. you could have asked it to be a promise to get married and that you feel like you guys should just make it a promise instead of a engagement or something-trix

Q: I've been having problems with my dad lately ... well now that I think about it i've always had these problems. Sense my parents got divorced when I was like one I've only seen him everyother weekend. I used to hate it and lately i've been wishing I'd never see him. He always seems busy, and when hes not he always seem to be judging people, and mostly me. He won't let me have certian piercing because he think they will make me a bad kid ... he honestly said that! He also said he'd be embarresed. I've just started to learn he doesnt realize im growing up, I just can't stand him sometimes, he makes thing seem like there always my fault, and I just feel really uncomertable around him, like I can't be myself, and he doesn't know me so hes always asking me questions about drugs and stuff, I just don't know what to do, ive tried to tell him not to judge me to get to know me, and i've told him im growing up and he needs to accept it, i evenasked him to respect me because he didn't act like it. And after he seemed like he felt bad, but it didnt last long. Any advise would help thanks aton!
Well my mom said something about the piercings to.. she just said they would give some of the people the wrong impression on what i intended it for. He cant help what he is emberassed from though so you cant put that on him. He may just wnat you to be his lil girl and not grow up parents have a hard time with that. I dont think any girl really at our age feels 110% comfortable around there dads.. even if we no they wont do anything to us its just something we feel and we most defintly cant help how we feel. And for all the questions and stuff he is just being protective and cares about you! But one day sit down and talk to him and hopefully he'll gain more trust and respect for you! And you will to with him. -trix

Q: theres this boy thats one of my friends n we hang out all the time like wit other ppl n stuff wit us. n durin the day this boy is the BIGGEST asshole. but then when night time roles around hes all touchy feely n wantin me to flash him n we mess around. it doesnt bother me or nothin because i love sweet guys...n when hes sweet...hes sweet! should i still let him be an asshole n then mess wit him when he 'becomes' sweet?
No he is only what you call taking advantage of you!! Dont let him be a ass to you during the day if he is then he should be ass during the night too and if he is a sweety during the night then that should go for the day also! Tell him off!!-trix

Q: What do girls my age (14) like in us guys?
I like humor-good personality-cuteness-honesty-loyality-trustworthyness in guys. But the have to caring to and be there for you exspeacially in times of needs!!-trix

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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"

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