theres this boy thats one of my friends n we hang out all the time like wit other ppl n stuff wit us. n durin the day this boy is the BIGGEST asshole. but then when night time roles around hes all touchy feely n wantin me to flash him n we mess around. it doesnt bother me or nothin because i love sweet guys...n when hes sweet...hes sweet! should i still let him be an asshole n then mess wit him when he 'becomes' sweet?
Ugahottie321 answered Monday July 19 2004, 1:04 pm: Hey hun,
is ur guy PMSing?! lol jk but i dont think u should "mess wit him" when he bcomes sweet cus altho doing stuff with guys is o so fun it sounds like he might b using u :-( dont worry tho im an expert at this ppl use me all the time :-( it sux o wel tho! anyways u need to sit him down and talk to him or call him and ask wat all this is really about and if he jus wants to fool around with u and is that it?! anyways good luck with him hope i helped! write me sumtime!
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jokerzgrl answered Monday July 19 2004, 12:38 pm: i know how you feel, but never compromise yourself for anyone, especially a guy like that! this guy is just playing with your emotions, its obvious thta he wants one thing and one thing only. if he can't be sweet to you 24/7, hes not worth a second thought. even though i don't know you, i don't want you to get hurt, physically or emotionally. please, don't continue to get involved with that, that....that ASSHOLE!
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Fish answered Monday July 19 2004, 10:57 am: NO!!! I don't get it. How do people even consider stuff like this? Look, you treat people how you want to be treated, it's like a guide. Stand up for yourself! You don't deserve to be treated like crap all day long and THEN get treated right. If this guy was actually a sweet guy, he'd be acting sweet whenever he saw you. Don't hang around this guy, he's playing you for a fool. [ Fish's advice column | Ask Fish A Question ]
Mel answered Monday July 19 2004, 10:50 am: Two words: HELL NO. don't let him treat you like crap just because he's a jerk, then when dusk comes knockin start treatin you nice just because he wants it easy. that's called being taken advantage of, and it's bad. VERY BAD! tell him he's either nice all the time (and MEANS it), or nothing at all. that's the way it should be. it's alright to have a few off days when everything is just going wrong, but everyday? that's unacceptable. [ Mel's advice column | Ask Mel A Question ]
ShOrTnSwEeT42094 answered Monday July 19 2004, 7:38 am: Hmmm...sounds slightly schizo to me!!Hahaha! There really is no excuse to let him treat you like an asshole EVER!!!! I would ask him straight up,"hey what's your deal? why do you act like this?".In my opinion you shouldn't ever mess with someone who treats you wrong at any point in time!!You're just asking to get hurt!Sit him down and have a talk with him!!!Let me know what he says!!! :) [ ShOrTnSwEeT42094's advice column | Ask ShOrTnSwEeT42094 A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:27 am: NOOO dont let any guy be an asshole to you! Seriously no one should be treated like that. you should talk to him. he might just have major mood swings. talk to him and tell him how you feel and tell him hes being an asshole.
-holly-
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BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:20 am: Thats weird lol. I think you should talk to him about that and just say "Why are you such an asshole during the day but all flirty and nice with me at night? Whats up with that?" Just say something like that, so you know whats wrong with him. If he doesn't change, then you shouldn't put up with that, no girl should. Maybe he'll learn not to be so mean. But, just ask him questions and just get your point across of why he's so mean during the day and nice at night. Good luck!!
Lizzy answered Monday July 19 2004, 2:09 am: Umm, no. Because that means that the only reason you wanna mess around with him is because he is good at messing around with you. That is just my personal opinion, if you feel like it is more than nighttime infatuation, then ask him on a real date, just to see if he can be gentleman like
hope i helped a little
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kevin1986 answered Monday July 19 2004, 1:56 am: No,because hes putting on a face. He's just being nice so you'll like him and give him some. The real him is the asshole you describe to me in the daytime. But if you're interested in the guy,simply ask him why hes different at different times of he day. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Monday July 19 2004, 1:50 am: Nope.. he's only half dedicated to you. He's not worthy of you. There will be plenty of guys comin' your way, trust me. You can find someone much better and much more deserving of you. [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
FernGully answered Monday July 19 2004, 1:49 am: What the hell? Obviously you don't let him be an asshole. Just because the guy is a reverse werewolf doesn't mean you should have pity and let him be a dick. [ FernGully's advice column | Ask FernGully A Question ]
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