Okay there is this guy named brad and i like a lot i mean a lot...i imagine a future with him...that's how much i love him!! he is interested in someone who doesn't even think of him like that!! now i'm suppose 2 go 2 a concert and he has invited me 2 sleep over his house after the concert!! is he flirting with me?? is he giving me signals?? what kind signals should i give?? how can i tell my best friend of 3years that i like him?? How can i make a friendship into a relationship??
spoiledx3shortii answered Monday July 19 2004, 3:59 pm: i would say he is just being friendly.. unless he doesnt do this stuff often.. then he may be flirting.. you can turn this into a relationship buy, either being assertive and asking him on a date or writing a note, IMing him or you can wait around for him to make a move..
hope i helped
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Juelz2005 answered Monday July 19 2004, 1:10 pm: okay, he asked u to sleep over at his house? i dont know this guy so i cant tell u what he means by it, but just be careful
with the freindship to relationship thing, i completely understand what u are going through. i once dated this guy named John, and we had known each other for 2 years at the time...i mean, he was the first person to task to me when i moved where i currently live...and we were so close, i mean our parents adored the other...and it was so awesome, i mean, we were so close, we knew everythign about the other! literaly! and then we started dating for a while...broke up and still are like best best freinds.
but, to tell him, just up and say it, tell him how u think of his as more than a freind. explain your feelings, since he is your best freind, he will not laugh at u. u see, i believe for a relationship to work, u have to be, first and foremost, and above all, friends. so if u just explain to him, i am sure he will understand, but dont do what i did and wait around for him to come to u. if he doesnt feel the same way about u, its okay. dont worry about it. i hope this helped u out even the slightest bit.
Ugahottie321 answered Monday July 19 2004, 12:54 pm: Hey Bess,
wats up girl?! its sounds like u hav a little situation here. mayb wat u should do is wait till AFTER the sleep over to tell him cus otherwise it could b pretty awkward. im not sure if hes flirting with u or not but i wouldnt read into anything to much. to tell him that u like u should jus call him and b like hav u ever thot about being more then friends with me? and see his reaction. also i wouldnt go around telling him that the person he likes doesnt feel the same way cus thats only gunna get him down. anyways i hope u figure it out with him. write me sum time!
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Kali7890 answered Monday July 19 2004, 12:49 pm: Hey, if you really like him then you need to straight out tell him because it does sound like he's flirting w/ you and if you don't you'll never know how he feels about you. I hope everything works out and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~ [ Kali7890's advice column | Ask Kali7890 A Question ]
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