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did i scare him away?
okay, i knew this guy sionce 8th grade, adn we are becoming seniors this fall. i used to date him, and we broke up because a freind made it heck for us, and now we are friends again. and i realized that i am in love with him...so we went to the crnival in our town together and we sat and watched the fireworks together, holding each other tightly the whole time. and we walked home hand in hand. we sat on my porch untill 2 am cuddling and talking. i asked him to our homecoming dance this fall and he said "well, i dont like to dance, but since you want me to go, i'll go with you". and he left and went home an hour later, adn i have not heard from him since. i have tryed to call him and i cant get ahold of him...no oen answers his phone. and when i leave a message, he never gets back to me!
so my questions are...does he like me back? did i scare him off? what is going on inside his head? if anyone could help me it would b eso so so useful!
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alll u really need to do is go 2 his house and talk to him or never no maybe they went a vaca or sumthin i dont think u scared him away he liked alll the stuff u to did so i dont think u did most boys would tell u there feelings he probly would so just keep trying that is really all u can do untell he figuires out what a wonderful gurl u r goodd luck
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Well bring up the past of when you 2 went out and tell him it was a friend that made you 2 break up and if that friend hadnt do u 2 think you would being still going out? start a convo and see what happans from there. He may just be out of town and It sounds like he likes you and it may have came to a shock of him that you asked him so i dont think you scarred him but i think you just shocked him and for the inside of his head.. i have no idea he is just probably thinking things through good luck between you too-trix
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Try to go and see him, if he said he goesnt like to dance but he would go with you he probably likes you, maybe something happened to him. just try going to see him or something
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"...went home an hour later, and I have not heard from him since."
You said you were "cuddling" until 2 am in the morning, if that were me I wouldn't want to go home and call right away. Chances are my ass went to bed. Maybe a car hit him and that's why he didn't call? No, totally kidding!
With guys most of us tend to be hesitant when it comes to jumping into a relationship after one night, especially when it's getting back together with an ex. It's not a huge secret that girls like to play games, so for a lot of us we wait a little to see what effort the girl will make. Most girls like to take the ‘hard to get’ route and we HATE that. If you like us you might as well talk to us and not blow us off because it just makes it that much harder to like you. However, in your case it doesn't sound like you are playing hard to get.
Nobody but him, and maybe his "homeboys" know why he hasn't called you back or what he is afraid of. Maybe he just needs some time to think things over and not rush into things? If it were I in his shoes I'm sure I'd be the same way. I wouldn't want to rush back into a relationship with an ex. Maybe he is afraid that if you went out again, that you would just break up again and not be friends. Perhaps what your friendship has is special to him and he doesn't want to lose that. No disrespect to you, but you are probably looking into things to much. The fact that he hasn't called back doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. Hell, it could be as simple as he hasn't had the chance.
Just don't worry about it. It sounds like he likes you. If not I'm sure he wouldn't have "cuddled" with you until 2-friggin'-o'clock. Just give it a little more time and if he still hasn't called you back leave a message telling him how you feel about him and the fact that he hasn't called back. Things will work out right. I promise.
I hope you get your Mr. Cuddles! Good luck!
SLeDGE
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i wouldn't think you scared him off at all. maybe he's thinkin the same thing as you; that he loves you, and he just realized it. he might just need time to think about it. this time period could be anywhere for a day to a month, who knows? just give it a bit and see how it goes. good luck.
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hey..i have no idea what happened but i'll try to help you out- wow this guy sounds like one in a million...if you gyus went out before and broke up then it probably had something to do with either one of you if not both people just mixing very well together....so i don't know he seemed like he was being such a sweetheart- and guys do that as an act sometimes, but he did so much do i don't think it was really an act as much as it was just...he was needing someone and you were there and you wanted him to cuddle with and be with so it worked out- and maybe he just decided that was all...but since he said he'd go with you...maybe he will maybe he's away on vacation or not very free to talk..he probably still has feelings for you but idk if it's enough to like you- i doubt you scared him off because it seems like he was feeding off of your affection and if you were to scare him off he would have ran right away....i really don't know what's going on in his head- but i wish you the best...good luck and let me know if anything =] hope i helped somewhat..
love elle
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That sounds tough...but i am here for you! To answer you questions personally i think he does like you back. if he didnt like you why would he be cuddling with you all nite and walk hand in hand with you? i dont think you scared him away but maybe you shocked him a little bit. or maybe he doesnt know if he will be good enough for you. i cant tell you what is going on inside of his head...i can give advice but i am no phycic! i wish i was so i could help you! but...if you are close friends with one of his guy friends ask them to ask him about what he thinks of you...oh have one of your friends who is a girl and who is friends with him to ask him. if this doesnt work write back! i hope everything goes okay! good luck! xox Emily
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well it seems if you guys were cuddling and were holding hands and watching the fireworks you would think that he liked you. Maybe hes just confused about his feelings thats why he doesnt call you back. Maybe hes scared to be commited again because he doesnt want things to mess up. I think if he doesnt call you back you might want to wait a while to try calling back again.
-holly-
hope i helped
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