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I am straight to the point, My advice is given based on my opinions of what YOU write. I may not always tell you what you want to hear but I am not here to sugar coat shit.
I am honest, I am blunt, At times an asshole but one thing I can promise, I'll never lie.
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can you get pregnant if your mate comes in your mouth
No
If you need to ask people these sort of questions then you shouldn't be having sex as you aren't mature enough to know the basics.
ok theres this girl in california who ilove iknow its love because if she asked me to give her the moon id give her the whole sky but the thing is i live in alabama i would do anything for her but she doesnt know that i love her we have been friends for about 5 years now very good friends but she thinks im a stalker and annoying but the truth is that i love her and cant get her off my mind and i dont know if i should tell her how i feel about her she might think im even more a stalker and it might even ruin our friendship and i dont think i could take it but because she doesnt know she says and does things that makes me want to have never have known her to escape the pain and she wont tell me the truth on things because she thinks im invadeing her privacy thus being a stalker in her eyes but it couldnt be farther from the truth if she was dieing and the only way to save her was for me to give her my heart to save her live but it wwould kill me she wouldnt even have to ask but i know if i should tell her how i feel because if i tell her and she hates me for it i dont know how i would keep on living i might just stay in my bed till i died
Dear Cupid
I have a few questions to ask before I give you my honest opinion. Do you know this person? Have you ever seen her/met her? Or do you just know her offline?
Now for my answer...
From what you've typed above it does sound like you may be obsessing with this girl and obsessing can eventually lead to stalking and harassment even if you don't realize it. For the girl, She is creeped out and I really don't think expressing how you feel towards her is the best idea as she has told you that you are stalking her. This is technically a nice way of saying back off and stop being so clingy. If you don't want to put your friendship in jeopardy then I really would give her space and stop being so obsessive. Personally, If someone typed out what they thought of me in the same way you did above..I'd jet
I'm 17 and my friend is 18 and I told her I was pregnant and now she's scared and she started crying. She's threaten to kill me if I have a baby. What can I do to calm her down ?
Your friend threatened to kill you if you have a baby? ..Perhaps suggesting your friend to seek some professional help with do some good?
Your friend may be experiencing some jealousy issues...
hi i want to know if ur bf kisses another girl should i brake up with him
Everyone has diffident ways of defining cheating but in my personal opinion if you are with someone they should be with YOU and only YOU.
So would I call it off? Probably but again I have a zero tolerance for that sort of crap. I generally stick with the one chance rule, They break it, They are gone because if someone truly cared they wouldn't have any reason to play around.
I have an interview at Pizza Hut on Saturday and I was wondering what I should wear? Should I wear jeans and a pretty blouse? I don't think shorts are appropriate but I think a dress will be to fancy.
Help! Thanks in advance!
NEVER wear shorts to an interview, It is not appropriate.
A nice pair of dress pants with a solid color shirt would be just find just don't over dress.
Few things you should always avoid wearing to an interview: Jeans, Revealing clothes, Shorts, Raggedy or ripped clothing.
If you were interviewing for a business position that required formal wear then you would wear a nice dress but not to an interview with pizza hut.
my daughter is 10 and she wants to work at mackedonals so i was just asking plz she rilly wants to earn money to get her blackberry plz can she work there xx
No, Most fast foods company generally do not hire under the age of 16. Your daughter is too young, Perhaps suggest dog walking, Chores are the house or doing local yard work until she gets a little older.
me and my boyfriend were fooling around in our underwear last night and he ejactulated whilst i was sitting on him, could the sperm go through his boxers and my thong? PS im a virgin
Highly unlikely, If you do not want to become pregnant keep playing it safe!
how do i get back my girlfriend
Assuming you are under the age of 18, There is no "real" way to get her back. As a minor parents still have say.
Truthful, Nobody can have a real relationship with someone if their parents aren't on good terms with their child's partner. Parents play a big factor in couples lives especially when you plan to have a future with their son/daughter. Now if you are on bad terms with her parents all I can say is either move on or try to win their approval the right way.
Hi!! well my friend is fourteen years old, and still has not got her period. Is there anything she could be doing to prevent it?
Everyone starts their cycles are different times and other times there could be many factors that are causing delays such as;
Dieting, Weight loss, Weight gain, Illness, Depression, Stress etc.
If she is concerned then she should make an appointment with a gynecologist.
When I was younger I had a relationship with a girl. It was forbided by my mother so we had to sneak around. anyway For years I have dated men because of that. People have questioned me even my own children and I have denied it only because I didn't want to break my moms heart. My mom passed away a little over a year ago and I feel as if it is now okay to tell people and I just dont know how for fear that they will be mad because I out and out lied for so many year. How do I let them know now.
There is no easy way to come out
The best way I can suggest is to sit someone down let them know there is something that you want to get off your chest and you work your way too it. There is nothing wrong with being gay, You are who you are. There are people who will except you and there are those assholes that may be judgmental about it but in the end the ones that stick by your side are the ones worthwhile.
My husband and I did just fine until we said "I do" and then he became a control freak. He has been married 4 times including me and has abused all of them, even me. I didn't know about the abuse until I did some home work and saw the Div. Decrees. He has got the idea of taking sex away he can ontrol. I guess he can. I just want to know what kind of personality disorder this is?
Abuse is not a "personality disorder"
If you are his 4th marriage due to abuse, Then therefore you are his next victim.
People do not just "magically" change, Many need to seek professional help. Talk to a therapist
What does it mean when a guy doesn't call you after you give him your number?
He isn't interested and doesn't want to be involved in a relationship of any sort.
i have all the symtoms of being pregnantt. im throwing up, cant do push ups in gym, i can barely run, im always hungry no matter how much i eat, i get hot and cold easily and my stomachs even getting a little bigger but not too noticeable .. the weird thing is, is that i have never done anything to get me pregnant ? should i get a pregancy test, wait to see what happens or is it just probally from me suddenly stop taking my birth control ?
If you have not had sexual contact, Then you are not pregnant.
Sounds like you are experiencing PMS symptoms.
I am a 15 1/2 year old girl. I am thinking about going out with this guy, he's 20. We really like each other. If we did end up going out, how far would we be able to go?
Yes, That is too old
You are a minor, He is an adult and frankly someone of the age of 20 should not be looking at 15 year old's as girlfriend material.
You date him and you take a HUGE risk...but I wouldn't want to be you in the public eye if he gets caught...
Quick Answer: Find someone your own age and stay away from the pedophiles.
41/47yrs
I feel like my husband of 5 yrs still loves his ex wife..with whom he has grown childred. when ever there is a family activity that involves their kids. She is overly friendly (she has boyfriend)and acts like she belongs in the family. btw he owns a buisness and hired her to help him run it. He gets mad at me if I ask him if he has feelings for her. they divorces becuase she cheated. I now will not go to family functions theres no room for two wives. I feel threatened by the way he allows her to interact with his family and he says nothing. yet gets upset with me if Im uncomfortable. am i wrong ? she also stole money from his buisness yet he does nothing, he must still love her
I recommend sitting down with your husband and expressing how you feel again, Let your husband know that you feel she is interfering with your marriage and you feel as if she is a threat. YOU are his wife, She is not.
Your husband owes a business and failed to take proper actions against his ex wife for stealing from the company.
The golden key to any marriage/relationship is communication, As husband and wife you two should be able to maturely discuss any matters that come to concerns. If your husband is not willing to listen and talk things out the only think I can suggest is marriage counseling. If your husband is not willing to consider that then as sorry as I am to say your marriage is looking grim. Marriage counseling is the last straw before filing for divorce. She has crossed too many lines and your husband is allowing her to gain access. Harshly, If you really want the answer you seek then you let him know it's YOU or HER but I will tell you honestly I believe you know what you have to do.
Whenever I come on here to give out advice, I see questions that are so ridiculous..
- where can i get a dress?... ummm the mall??????
- am i pregnant?.... get a pregnancy test and find out yourself???
- how do i tell him i love him?- ........ just say you love him????
- do i have a yeast infection??..... how should we know? google it.
honestly. Is it just me, or is anyone else kinda frustrated that people are posting the most obvious and ridiculous questions ever???
I can't say I completely disagree with what you've said but after reading what DN posted...You should be more careful of what you ask if you don't want to be made a fool of.
I know that this is going to lead to responces like "use a condom" and all that but let's give it a shot...
Basically, I spent the weekend with my boyfriend, this is the second time we have had proper sex, and yes I did ask him to wear a condom and he does but we spend a bit of time without it so he can enjoy it more. This weekend we did it a lot, and there was a gap between each time where he cleaned up and we cuddled and went out for a walk or whatever, but I'm suddenly aware that pre-cum can make you pregnant?!
I just want to know how likely this is? given that he didn't actually cum inside me on any occasion and there was a gap between each time we did it and on a few occasions he didn't finish. I also have no birth control as I was a virgin until this point really and I don't have a clue how to start or where to get them... please don't say I'm stupid or whatever.
I just would like to know how likely it is to be pregnant in this situation and if anyone has any advice on how to get contraception pills without letting my mother know would also be appreciated
There is always a chance of pregnancy and if you don't want a baby then yes, I really think you should start using condoms. Even the slightest things can cause pregnancy.
How likely is it?...I can't really give you an exact number because everything happens when it wants to happen but I can tell you that many women have gotten pregnancy this way. Again, If you don't want to get pregnant then be smart.
Hello I am a 16 year old male and I recently applied to a McDonalds near where I live. The application made me really sad at the sort of questions they asked and I just feel like there is a much better way I could be spending my time that mindlessly working at McDonalds. My parents want me to get a summer job but I do not really want to work here. Am I being too picky or snobbish. I get straight As and I don't know it just seems like a waste of my time. Writing this now it seems elitist but it is how I feel. Any advice on this matter would help. Be critical of me too it will only help me.
The truth is you should very fortunate you even have a job, It may seem like a waste of your time only because you keep dwelling on the fact that it is. Sure, It isn't exactly what you see yourself doing long term but unless you have another job lined up or another way of getting steady income...I wouldn't leave McDonald's. Jobs nowadays are a bitch to come by and as the economy slowly approves a lot of people are still unemployed.
Snobbish? No but I think you really should consider yourself fortunate and stop complaining about it.
I took a pregnancy test and it said no, so hat other reasons are there that I haven't gotten my period?
You didn't give any detail...
How late are you?..
A lot of things can cause a missed period. Stress, Depression, Dieting, Weight Loss, Weight Gain, Illness and so on.
If you have not receive your cycle within a month Make an appointment with a gynecologist.
Me and my friend had a sleepover last night and he wanted to cuddle with me and we started kissing and we had sex ! He's my best friend and were not even dating we were just playing with each other. But I do have a boyfriend. How do I tell him i slept with another guy ? What should I do ?
There is no easy way to tell someone, I would sit him down and talk about it with him. Let him know that you done something you feel he needs to know about.
If you feel more comfortable write him a letter but as harsh as this may sound nobody forced you too cheat. Now you must accept the consequences but I really think you owe it too him to tell him the truth and if you can at least try and pay him the respect by telling him in person.