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I love her, but she thinks I am annoying stalker!
ok theres this girl in california who ilove iknow its love because if she asked me to give her the moon id give her the whole sky but the thing is i live in alabama i would do anything for her but she doesnt know that i love her we have been friends for about 5 years now very good friends but she thinks im a stalker and annoying but the truth is that i love her and cant get her off my mind and i dont know if i should tell her how i feel about her she might think im even more a stalker and it might even ruin our friendship and i dont think i could take it but because she doesnt know she says and does things that makes me want to have never have known her to escape the pain and she wont tell me the truth on things because she thinks im invadeing her privacy thus being a stalker in her eyes but it couldnt be farther from the truth if she was dieing and the only way to save her was for me to give her my heart to save her live but it wwould kill me she wouldnt even have to ask but i know if i should tell her how i feel because if i tell her and she hates me for it i dont know how i would keep on living i might just stay in my bed till i died
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If you dont ask her how she feels you will spend your entire life wondering what if. If you really love this girl then distance is not a problem. Remember love conquors all. If she feels the same way then problem solved but if she doesnt then as much as it hurts your going to have to acceot her decision then maybe you could stay friends.
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You are an annoying stalker.
You do not know what love is. Love is not admiring someone from a distance taking friendship and pining for more. Telling her how you feel is probably still the best course if only because she'll probably tell you to go to hell and you can begin the process of letting go of someone half the country away from you.
If someone tells you you are invading their privacy, you probably are. If someone tells you they think you're a stalker, you probably are. If someone tells you you are a stalker and you think for one second that it means they have zero romantic interest in you and never will (it does) she really has no romantic interest in you.
You are beating a dead horse. Stop. For the horse's sake if nothing else.
Someday you will look back and read this post, or think about it, and you will feel embarrassed as all hell for how young and stupid you were. When you feel down because there is no real relationship between you and this girl and there never will be, remember that you'll feel stupid about all the time you spent whining about it and feeling sorry for yourself and try to stop and not be a pit of mopey depression so you don't continue to feel embarrassed later.
Date girls you're close to. It says something about a guy when he's making up relationships with girls he talks to online because he's too scared to go talk to girls in the real world. Girls pick up on that. It's not attractive. Go talk to some people face to face and form relationships that way so you don't end up stalking someone else from across the US in six months.
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Dear Cupid
I have a few questions to ask before I give you my honest opinion. Do you know this person? Have you ever seen her/met her? Or do you just know her offline?
Now for my answer...
From what you've typed above it does sound like you may be obsessing with this girl and obsessing can eventually lead to stalking and harassment even if you don't realize it. For the girl, She is creeped out and I really don't think expressing how you feel towards her is the best idea as she has told you that you are stalking her. This is technically a nice way of saying back off and stop being so clingy. If you don't want to put your friendship in jeopardy then I really would give her space and stop being so obsessive. Personally, If someone typed out what they thought of me in the same way you did above..I'd jet
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