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I slept with another man ! ?
Me and my friend had a sleepover last night and he wanted to cuddle with me and we started kissing and we had sex ! He's my best friend and were not even dating we were just playing with each other. But I do have a boyfriend. How do I tell him i slept with another guy ? What should I do ?
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Anytime a guy comes over to your house to "sleep over," he intends to have sex with you. That is pretty much an iron law of guy behavior.
Your boyfriend will likely (and rightly so) kick you to the curb if you tell him. So you must now decide if you can put up with the guilt and keep it from your BF to prevent getting dumped or if you want to risk an end to the relationship by revealing the episode to him. It's your call.
The other guy will hit you up for more sex in the future. That is also an iron law of guy behavior, especially if he gets intoxicated a lot. Good luck fending that one off. If you want to.
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you cheated.
its something you need to come to terms with.
and you now you need to tell your boyfriend what happened. if you dont tell him and he finds out later on from you or someone else, it will end very badly.. it always does.
and yes, when you tell him, he MIGHT break up with you, but he will be hurt, especially if he loves you. if he doesnt love you, he'll just shrug it off.. because he wont care.
but you need to do this in person.. over tex, or the phone will make it worse. you have to have the courage to say it to his face or he'll think you dont respect him even more. you just need to ask him to hang out, somewhere private like your house or his or something.. maybe even a secluded park, because he might freak out.. i know i would. but be gentle, and own up to EXACTLY what you did.. never ever try to make it sound less than what it actually was.
the fact of the matter is still that you made a mistake. people make mistakes, youre only human, but remember to put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself what you would want him to say/do if he did this to you.
good luck ! hope i helped and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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Just make sure you actually tell him. Tell him face to face (if you can) if you feel like you've made a mistake, and you want to apologize make sure you tell him it was just a mistake, and it won't happen again. If you guy's break up, don't be surprised :/ Things like that are hard to deal with.
If he really loves you though, he'd stay no matter what. Just don't do anything like that again. :3 Stay away from this friend, it was partly his fault to..if he knew that you had a boyfriend, it's just as much his fault, as it is yours.
I hope I helped,
Emily <3
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There is no easy way to tell someone, I would sit him down and talk about it with him. Let him know that you done something you feel he needs to know about.
If you feel more comfortable write him a letter but as harsh as this may sound nobody forced you too cheat. Now you must accept the consequences but I really think you owe it too him to tell him the truth and if you can at least try and pay him the respect by telling him in person.
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break up with him and next time be more smart of what you do...
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