I know that this is going to lead to responces like "use a condom" and all that but let's give it a shot...
Basically, I spent the weekend with my boyfriend, this is the second time we have had proper sex, and yes I did ask him to wear a condom and he does but we spend a bit of time without it so he can enjoy it more. This weekend we did it a lot, and there was a gap between each time where he cleaned up and we cuddled and went out for a walk or whatever, but I'm suddenly aware that pre-cum can make you pregnant?!
I just want to know how likely this is? given that he didn't actually cum inside me on any occasion and there was a gap between each time we did it and on a few occasions he didn't finish. I also have no birth control as I was a virgin until this point really and I don't have a clue how to start or where to get them... please don't say I'm stupid or whatever.
I just would like to know how likely it is to be pregnant in this situation and if anyone has any advice on how to get contraception pills without letting my mother know would also be appreciated
VoiceofReason answered Monday May 23 2011, 3:41 am: If he has had the head of his penis inside you at anytime, even for just a minute or two you can get pregnant. Young guys secrete a lot of precum when they get excited and it has sperm in it.
Yeah, condoms suck, but you gotta do what you gotta do. Have him use a condom and then, after you've climaxed, have him pull out and then use your mouth or hand on him without the condom. He will be thrilled with that. By the way, if you don't like the taste of his cum, just let it drip out of your mouth, which is totally hot. Don't spit it out. That's rude.
Xui answered Monday May 23 2011, 2:51 am: There is always a chance of pregnancy and if you don't want a baby then yes, I really think you should start using condoms. Even the slightest things can cause pregnancy.
How likely is it?...I can't really give you an exact number because everything happens when it wants to happen but I can tell you that many women have gotten pregnancy this way. Again, If you don't want to get pregnant then be smart. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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