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I'm just tired of it.
Okay, so I'm 15.
I've been in a relationship with my boy friend for a year and 5 months. I love my boyfriend, and I admire him. He's caring,smart (even though he doesn't think so),talented and he is an amazing friend.
We've had SO many issues though, with him falling for his best friend, and him developing feelings for someone he use to like in the past. When he has done something wrong, he will admit to it, but I'm so paranoid about things.
Just recently him and I broke up twice, over stupid arguing. Were back together things were going great until one of his friends Joanna was talking to my friend saying my boy friend "loves her" My friend deleted her for all of it.
My boy friend was trying to help her with a break up, and she said she didn't need help and stopped talking to him, he hasn't talked to her for months? Now she's saying this stuff. I told my boy friend he has to be careful, people can take advantage. Sometimes I wish he wasn't such a good friend.
I hate being paranoid, but I just am. I love my boy friend but I don't know what to do. Please help?
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If you truly love the boy then your going to want to be with him forever I know what your going through my boyfriend kissed the same girl 2 times. But how I see it is like softball 3 strikes your out! Let him know that if he keeps treating you bad then he's going to loose you forever and that should kick him into shape but I don't blame you for being paranoid but you also need trust
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I think you should just focus on your own relationship with your boyfriend. Stop listening to other drama or problems between joanna or whoever else.
I doesn't make sense to break up with your boyfriend if you love him.. so just don't listen to the other stuff going on and only focus on your relationship :) work hard to make things better between you 2.
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You're too young to be tied down. Your chances of marrying your current boyfriend sometime in the future are just about nil because between now and the time your brain stops developing (around age 25), your sensibility is going to evolve and change a lot. With all this drama going on you are putting a lot of stress on yourself that only compounds other stresses you are feeling as you grow up.
So I recommend that you end the relationship and date around and just generally explore life.
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