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im a female and i live in pa
i have brown hair with blonde streaks and green eyes .. i think
my birthday is Feb. 23

i play basketball.

i luv giving advice. its something i enjoy and im helping people also. even tho im still young i have been through alot; especailly with my family and friends. i will answer your questions to the best of my ability.

if you need anything just drop one in my inbox..or you can im me...i am on alot.
i will answer any questions asap that are in my inbox. i never reject any questions.


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Is this poem OK?

people always tell me i'm not like others,
i don't fit in with the preps and am not like the brothers,
I like to listen to Aerosmith and P.O.D,
Is there any other way i should be?
I don't have a certain way to dress,
For someone i hardly know to impress,
I don't watch movies about cheerleaders,
And i hardly go to the movie theatres,
I just am myself and no one can change my rep,
Except maybe good old johnny depp

That last verse was a joke

Pleez rate the poem 1-10. Thank you
Lizzy

its really good. i thought the ending was really funny. anyways keep up the good work..:)

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another poem yall

I look in the mirror
But what do I see
The person I look at
Isn’t the real me
No one knows
What I want to see
Someone that loves
Some one that hates
Someone who isn’t just the someone
That everyone thinks is me

another

Who is louder our hearts or our minds
When it comes time to decide what do we find
We listen closely but it is hard to tell
Almost as if they are two little bells
But which one masks the other
It is so hard to hear
Why should we even bother
It will only cause a tear

another

I shiver in the heat of the day
I wish I could just get away
I have these dreams at night
I don’t even try to fight
For this feeling isn’t something I can escape
Now my heart is out of shape
I can’t run of hide
From these thoughts inside
You will stay there forever
Giving up never
You torture me day and night
Because this will never be right

one more

I shiver in the heat of the day
I wish I could just get away
I have these dreams at night
I don’t even try to fight
For this feeling isn’t something I can escape
Now my heart is out of shape
I can’t run of hide
From these thoughts inside
You will stay there forever
Giving up never
You torture me day and night
Because this will never be right

they are really good. i really like the last one. keep up the good work.

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write me about em...
ugahottie321 on AIM and Advicenators

i luv them. they are really good. my favorite one is the third one. but they were all really good. so who the special guy?!?!?!?! lol....keep up the good work.

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ive been criticizing other peoples poems and i would like to know what people think of some of my work...


The knife
Seductively strokes your arm
The sharp pain
The tiny droplet

Nothing

The blade
Drawn down your forehead
The an abrupt bliss
A bloody tear

Nothing

The dagger
Slitting your wrist
A delightful innervation
The extravagant red

Nothing

The switchblade
Cold at your throat
Lack of breath
A graceful fountain

Nothing

The scythe
Ripped down your back
The first true pain
Death’s eyes are beautiful

You find no God

its really good and really sad. keep up the good work...but some parts are kinda hard to understand....

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hey i didnt no wat to put this under. but i need help. is it wrong to wish that u wouldnt wake up in the morning. or widh that u were dead. and if so then how do i stop thinking like that. i feel like everybody hates me and that if i was gone would ne body care! i no i shouldnt but i do and rite now i just want to leave. plzzz help me how can i stop thinking like this?

i think that way sometimes to. but u shouldnt!!!talk to some one about it. mayb a friend or a parent or anyone that u can trust. think of the bright side of life. wut always gets me past thos days is thinking of some one or something worth living for. and if u were meant to die u would die...but dont force it. ur time will come. lol i dont mean that it will soon just that god has ur life planned already. dont wry everything will work out. i hope i helped...if u need anymore help rite back or ask me for my i/m....good luck

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Im 13 years old- what do guys my age want?

they usually go for the looks. belive me im 13 and all the guys go for the looks. but dont change who u are just for a guy. i would never do that. but some are different i know some guys that are different but not alot. hope i helped. please rate me....:)

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Lately I've noticed that my friend's ex-boyfriend has been wanting to be around me alot. It's really sucky, because he was so mean to my friend! He constantly put her down & even told her she was a "fat cow". I've tried being subtle about the fact that I don't want him around me because he's so rude, but that just seems to make him hang around me more. He's really nice to ME, but that's how he was when he started dating my friend & then he just acted so jerk-ish afterward. I'm soooo confused, help!

tell it to him straight. or just ignore him. either way he should get the picture. hope i helped.
~rate me~

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Should I have sex with my boyfriend even though he's 20 and I'm 16?

no it would be considered rape if anyone found out.

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My husband beats me, I'm scared I might die. I need advice! Call the cops or not? He has $, he could just bail himself out!...

I rate!


Did I say I rate?!?!

I know that makes you wanna answer my question even more b/c I RATE!!

definitely call the cops...if he gets out and u think that he might come after you take him to court. or move. do anyhting in your will to get away from him. good luck...i hope i helped..

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im madly in love with this girl and shes a very good friend i dont want our friendship 2 get wierd if i ask her out wut should i do???

idk give it a try, shes your bestfriend maybe shell say yes. or you could ask her who she likes. if u need anymore help put it in my inbox...hope i hleped

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ok, my ex boyfriend is a fricken asshole.. nd i mean seriously i don think ive ever met ne one more heartless n selfcentered (idk if thats even how u spell that..) but i love the kid sooo fricken much which is just messed up cuz he put me through soo much, he cheated on me dumped me for no reason, treats me like shit, went back out wit me nd then dumped me for this otha chick who i was kinda frends wit.. nd then he cheated on her wit me n "dumped" me soon after that... but i like freakin love this kidd cuz wen hes not bein an asshole hes sooo sweet but i needa get ova dis kid... so got ne ideas?? my sn is x ChainMeUp 13 x lemme no im in desprate need...

stand up for yourself. If you wanna continue to be treated like that than ull go back out with him but if you wanna be strong and tell him to get out of you life than do it. dont take his crap anymore. hope i helped....

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me and my boyfriend are 13, he has these 2 friends who i am also friends with and i get on with them really well and i am good friends with them. is it ok to be close friends with my bf's mates? i don't fancy them or anything so is it ok?

yea it is fine as long as your boyfiend doesnt get jealous.

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Hey,
I need some help. Lately my gfs "old friends" are talking about me and trying to get in fights with me....she instsits she loves me more and everything and they call her names on aim and everything and she says we wont talk to them anymore and she asks me if I promise. I say yes and then the next day shes telling me if I want to see her again she HAS to sleep over their house. Also let me note that everytime she sees this so called friend we get in a fight. Last time she slept over her house she snuck out at 2 in the morning to another boys house wich she promised to never talk to again. I think shes lieing to me also...we've been in a ton of fights lately because shes on the computer almost 24/7 talking to people. Also, her parents don't even allow her on aim, she and I have to lie to them about it, when I would rather not go on it at all. Everytime I'm over her house she gets on the computer, then we go to my house, and she gets on, then we go home to our own houses and she gets on right away...she hardly even calls anymore shes to busy on the computer. Then she says online when we get in a fight that I want to break up with her and I don't....now she wants to go to her friends house...what should I do...she makes me cry and throw up almost everynight. What should I do? Should I break up with her?

aight I would say break it off with her. I mean by the sounds of it your ready for a relationship and she isnt so tell her that you dont want to be involved anymore because of what shes doing to you. When you find someone who you love so much that shes worth all the pain, she wont make you suffer. you seem way to good for her. and you should get major props for being a guy and opening up...well done....hope i helped....rate me..:)

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Does anyone know where to get famous quotes over the internet?

u could go to google,msn,yahoo, or even askjeeves. any of those are prolly good places to find famous quotes. i hoped i helped rate me

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Can anybody give me some things or ideas for my profile... it is pretty blah right now and I need to spice it up... I will rate you!!

in my profile i put anything thats on my mind but instead of putting names i put he and she or them and stuff to keep ppl gessing. so if ur in a bad mood rite in in there. or rite something to someone specail. i hope i helped...

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A couple weeks ago, I met this guy and I thought I started to like him but I had a serious boyfriend and I eventually I realized I didnt like him. Today, my boyfriend came over and was looking at my buddy list and asked whos sn it was and I said "Oh some kid from summer school." Well he copied it and sent it to himself so he can talk to him! I'm so nervous if the guy I met tells my boyfriend that I sorta liked him... Any ideas on what I can do to get my bf not to talk to him?!

you can tell it to him straight, tell him if u trusted me it wouldnt matter, or just let it go and tell yourself that everything will work out. with what ever you choose good luck and i hope i helped...

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once a cheater, always a cheater?? TRUE OR FALSE?

I would say true. If he has done it once, he can/could do it again. ~rate me~

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ok so i went out with this girl (we'll call her jane) ok so me and jane started goin out last year march 20th 2003 and we were good for the first 3 months talkin and hangin out like we were meant for each other and really havin a good time then she broke up with me but i kept goin at it and we started goin back out keepin our original date so bout 9 months into the relationship shyt started gettin bad and we hardley ever talked, hung out or nethin but we still loved each other and shyt but when we talked we constantly fought.. so when march 20th came up this year it would have been a year and i thought that was pretty special idk maybe that sounds gay cuz imma guy but i really thought it was special and i wanted to spend time with her and everythin.. but we didnt talk or see each other at all and she didnt even call me so i got mad like ne other person would.. so we talk the next day and shes actin like nothins wrong so i get tired of it and i ask her if she still loves me and all that and shes like i love u but i dont have the same feelings for u nemore so i was like iight well then i dont wann go out with u nemore..... so its been over 3 months since we broke up but im in love with her and i dont wann let her outta my life ya kno so i keep goin at it but she stays at sayin that shes not ready for a relationship and so my question is....should i keep goin at it with her or just move on?

thanx
-Anonymous

if she doesnt like u you shouldnt waste ur time. but if u love her i mean do wut you want. follow your heart it never fails you. but i would stop...but maybe you could ask her how she feels and why she stopped liking you all of a sudden. good luck...i hoped i helped...

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half months...and I love him so much. But lately (since we will be in highschool together next year) he is afraid that I am going to dump him for another guy. WUT SHOULD I TELL HIM! I dont really like gurls that much cuz they are snotty in my eyes...so i have guy friends and he gets jealous and we fight. I am a gurl and im 14 wut should i d0?
PLEASE SOME ONE HELP ME!!!

talk to him and tell him that. tell him that none of ur guy friends mean as much to u than he does. just tell him the truth and how u feel. let it all out.hope i helped.rate me please

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A week after fathers day my dad punched my brother and my brother socked him back. Eventually the whole family tried to get my fathers fat ass off my brother. I slapped my dad and he hit my bro again, then when his arm came back, it hit me in my head and knocked me out. When i woke up my friend was right there and screaming at me to get up. My bro had run away. I ran outside just in time to see where he was going then i was knocked out again. I felt my moms arms around me and she lifted me up. I wiped my bloody face and ran to my house sreaming :get that son of a bitch the fuck out of my house!" When i saw my dad, his tooth was knocked out and his face was bloody. I told him to get the fuck out of my house and he said he'll leave when he wants too. I started crying again and fell to the floor. My dad didn't give a shit about me. He just fucking stood there.
I found out where my bro went and grabbed car keys. I fired up the engine and my stepdad came out and opened the door. My friend hopped in the back seat and i went in the front. We went and got my brother. He picked me up and started hugging me. We had never hugged before, because we weren't as close as we are now.
I have to get dental stuff and now my dad wants to pay for everything. I know im gonna have to see him cause he has to sign papers. I don't know what to do. Plz help!!!!
signed,
helpless

i would call the abuse center and gte ur dad in jail. that and where was ur mom while this was going on?!?!? but im glad that u and ur brother are close. and i wish i new how to drive now let alone if i were 11. anyways good luck and i hoped i helped...please rate me thanx...:)

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