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Father Problems
A week after fathers day my dad punched my brother and my brother socked him back. Eventually the whole family tried to get my fathers fat ass off my brother. I slapped my dad and he hit my bro again, then when his arm came back, it hit me in my head and knocked me out. When i woke up my friend was right there and screaming at me to get up. My bro had run away. I ran outside just in time to see where he was going then i was knocked out again. I felt my moms arms around me and she lifted me up. I wiped my bloody face and ran to my house sreaming :get that son of a bitch the fuck out of my house!" When i saw my dad, his tooth was knocked out and his face was bloody. I told him to get the fuck out of my house and he said he'll leave when he wants too. I started crying again and fell to the floor. My dad didn't give a shit about me. He just fucking stood there.
I found out where my bro went and grabbed car keys. I fired up the engine and my stepdad came out and opened the door. My friend hopped in the back seat and i went in the front. We went and got my brother. He picked me up and started hugging me. We had never hugged before, because we weren't as close as we are now.
I have to get dental stuff and now my dad wants to pay for everything. I know im gonna have to see him cause he has to sign papers. I don't know what to do. Plz help!!!!
signed,
helpless
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Well.. i think ur dad needs help.. does he drink? But i think love cures all.. soo refer the the disney movie beauty and the beast.. same story.. i think that may work.. LOVE BE LOVED.. CURE!!!!!!!
KYLE
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WHOA sounds like something that would happen to my family. and i know u never wanna see ur dad again but it is something u will have to deal with. have u talked to ur mom about it? maybe she can help who knows. i think that really sweet though that u and ur brother have gotten closer. when he was to "sign the papers" or whatever just maybe try and talk to him. even if he doesnt he needs to apoligize i mean u could have gotten hurt worse or maybe even killed. hope everything turns out for the better...
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i would call the abuse center and gte ur dad in jail. that and where was ur mom while this was going on?!?!? but im glad that u and ur brother are close. and i wish i new how to drive now let alone if i were 11. anyways good luck and i hoped i helped...please rate me thanx...:)
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Well, what exactly is your relationship with you dad? Is he your step or what? What your dad/stepdad has done is wrong, and if I were you, I'd watch out. It's always been said that once a man is changed, he's changed for good, and if you're dad is abusive now, he will be tomorrow, the next day .. and so on!! The best advice I could give you, is try to work up a better relationship with him, but at the same time, keep a safe distance!! Easier said then done, I know, but try it out, your dad could be a pretty cool person and you don't know it .. but if the abuse happens .. no second chances girl, get the hell outta there!! =]
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oh my god! you are one brave girl, let me tell you. thats incredibly amazing what you did! you have serious courage! i really cant tell you anything that you can realy do, because since you are so young people don't usually take you seriously (they dont take 16 year olds seriously either..its not you) but you are definetly one strong girl! thats really amazing what you did! thats just kind of .. inspring as corny as it sounds! wow. xo*
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My gosh, that's extremely sad, I'm so sorry to hear about that. Well, if you're only 11 then it's something your MOM should have to deal with. They shouldn't force you to see him after what he did to you, not if you don't want to. But how are you handling everything that happend? Keep me posted, and if you need anyone to talk to about this sort of thing, don't hesitate to ask me questions, I've been sort of in the same type of situation. But i'm soo sorry, I hope everything works out for you.
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Well your friend needs to be more caring. Well I'd take him to court he has no right to be treating kids like that? Under no circumstances and im glad your step dad could have been of assistance. the only good outcome of all this is that you and your brother are closer and your dad should pay for all this he deserves to cuz he caused all of it! well just go to your dads..but try not to say much about what happend...try to move on but you should sign them ~trix
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WOW! I'm really sorry, but I'm sure you don't want to hear that, so... Let your dad pay for it and don't see him at all! He caused you to go to the dentist, so I would let him pay for everything and then not see him at all! Thats what he gets afterall, he hit his own kids and thats horrible! =( Just talk to your mom and be like "I'm going to let dad pay for it, but I don't want to see him at all" And she'll understand and she can do something about it! =D I hope everything works out and keep me posted!
xoxo Kourtney
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Helpless, im really sorry for you and your brother tell your mom you dont want ot see him and she will know what to do and they cant FORCE YOU TO SEE SOMEONE YOU DONT WANT TOO
Love ASHLEY
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