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Okay me an this guy dated for like 3 months but we been off and on and threw alot of shit for the last 3 year's .. hes been tellin gme lately how much he really loved me and all .. well hes in the army so its really hard for me to trust him being as im being told by everyone at home that hes messin aroun.. and hes stationed right now so far away from me .. but i thought that love was enough for us to stay together and all .. Well recently we broke up i told him i couldnt deal with the worrying all the time, and plus long distance sucks soooo bad , Well now he like wont leave me alone at all, he tol dme he cared for me too much to see us just be over .. but I did love him and all and i still will i just I met this guy whos younger closer to my age, and lives around here .. Hes like the perfect catch i havent found a flaw yet hes just a dream come true, Well i mean i dont kno what to do do i throw basically 3 years down the drain for this guy who seems totally worth giving up everything .. or do i go back to this ex of myne ? .. Im so confused .. so please hurry with the juicy help!
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ok trust me on this. go w/ ur first love. age doesnt really matter here and it will never matter. as long as ur heart is with him nothing else gets in ur way. he really cares about you and obviously the who country but this other guy who is younger.....i dont no about him.
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This is a toughy right here!! Hm, lets see .. Okay, this guy that you've dated for three years or so obviously cares for you, but you're young, right? I mean, you're at the age where you just wanna have fun and experiment with others, so I see nothing with "throwing the three years away", but I wouldn't see it as that either. You could simply just be on hold with this other guy and see other people, understandable. I mean, this new guy is more your age and could probably understand a lot of what you're going through better than the other!!
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Well, yes, 3 years is a long time to be with someone, and in no way should you forget any of the memories you've had with him. However, I think you should go with the new guy. He's there, he's close, and you make him sound like he's a really awesome guy that fits your personality. Not many of those type of guy come around too often. You gave the guy in the army 3 years of your life, I'm sure there's terrific memories and of course you would be attached to him. If you go with the new guy, you're not "throwing your 3 year relationship down the drain", you're simply moving on to a new chapter in your life. In the end you just should think about which one would be more worth it, and which desision you think would OVER ALL make you more happy in the end.
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Stay with the guy you have now. This other guy in the Army has a long distance relationship with you and those never work. If your friends say he's messing around you,believe them. If he won't leave you alone,tell him to do so. But ultimately,this descision falls on you. Which one do you feel happier with?
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I'd go with the new guy but yet that 3 yrs is something you want to hold on to very tightly-trix
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All i gotta say is follow y0ur heart babe.. it seems like y0u believed what other people said TOO much... if y0u loved him then trust him :-/ He may think y0ur messing around on him so0o0o talk to him about it! As for this otehr guy its just totally up to however ur heart wants to go... good luck..!!*
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