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Question Posted Saturday July 17 2004, 1:25 am

why do i think its ok to masturbate and look at naked guy pics but i dont think its ok for my boyfriend to masturbate and look at porn. i feel like when he does it im not pleasing enough. why do i feel this way ?

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Inthydreams911 answered Friday August 13 2004, 4:01 am:
if you can look at porn your bf should be able to too... i know you feel jealous but porn is not something to get jealous from... mostly guys just do it to get an orgasm to please there selfs... not to dream about sexy girls wishing they were in there arms... maybe you and your boyfriend should make a porn together then watch that in the nude

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TheRightOne answered Saturday July 17 2004, 6:09 pm:
you feel this way becuz you think is hand is giving him more pleasure than you vagina can but if this might help why din' tyou just jack him off yourself and then see if he likes it then tell me what did he think

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Roxybabii922 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 1:18 pm:
I dunno, maybe its a jealousy thing you know?

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xDiExaLoNex answered Saturday July 17 2004, 11:41 am:
you feel this way, because you must love your boyfriend alot and you must be jelouse of what hes doing. you probably want to be the only girl in his life n when you feel like hes looking at other girls you get mad.

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Sw3eTi3_xO answered Saturday July 17 2004, 5:07 am:
Well, that's a good question. You should tell yourself, "masturbation is a form of nature", cause that's exactly what it is!! Who's to say your boyfriend is okay with you masturbating to naked guy pics? I mean, there's always gonna be that jealousy between a couple if you're looking at naked guys and he's looking at naked girls. Trust me, you're pleasing him enough, it's just a common thing to do when masturbating, who knows, he might just think about you sometimes .. ;]

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 2:16 am:
Well i think its how he may feel to its just a feeling you feel and probably how any girl or guy thinks about there bf/gf you dont need to feel that way..he is just horny it may sound bad.. but thats just what happens to some guys when they are horny-trix

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united_python_cheerleader answered Saturday July 17 2004, 1:48 am:
Well i think you should care if he does it because that does make you think your not good enough and you are so i think neither of you should do it it is fair


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kevin1986 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 1:42 am:
You may feel insecure about yourself. But just because he looks at porn doesn't mean you're not doing the job. Sometimes guys get horny and their girlfriends or wives aren't around. It's not a slap in the face towards you. I think you have to put yourself in his shoes. If he enjoys being with you,and I'm sure he does,don't worry about his porn habits.

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