Hey,
I need some help. Lately my gfs "old friends" are talking about me and trying to get in fights with me....she instsits she loves me more and everything and they call her names on aim and everything and she says we wont talk to them anymore and she asks me if I promise. I say yes and then the next day shes telling me if I want to see her again she HAS to sleep over their house. Also let me note that everytime she sees this so called friend we get in a fight. Last time she slept over her house she snuck out at 2 in the morning to another boys house wich she promised to never talk to again. I think shes lieing to me also...we've been in a ton of fights lately because shes on the computer almost 24/7 talking to people. Also, her parents don't even allow her on aim, she and I have to lie to them about it, when I would rather not go on it at all. Everytime I'm over her house she gets on the computer, then we go to my house, and she gets on, then we go home to our own houses and she gets on right away...she hardly even calls anymore shes to busy on the computer. Then she says online when we get in a fight that I want to break up with her and I don't....now she wants to go to her friends house...what should I do...she makes me cry and throw up almost everynight. What should I do? Should I break up with her?
superstar10 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 11:20 pm: aight I would say break it off with her. I mean by the sounds of it your ready for a relationship and she isnt so tell her that you dont want to be involved anymore because of what shes doing to you. When you find someone who you love so much that shes worth all the pain, she wont make you suffer. you seem way to good for her. and you should get major props for being a guy and opening up...well done....hope i helped....rate me..:) [ superstar10's advice column | Ask superstar10 A Question ]
XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO answered Saturday July 17 2004, 8:06 pm: ok 1 i give you major props for being a guy open enuff to come on here and tell your feelings..2 yes you deserve so much better i mean you obviously have more feelings for than she does you..and if she letting her friends get in the way of your realationship she doesnt deserve you! break it off and find someone new! good luck! [ XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO's advice column | Ask XoKaThArInA~eLaInExO A Question ]
SuGgaBabYsWt answered Saturday July 17 2004, 7:24 pm: Woahhh y0u deserve so0o0o much better then that..!!* She must be psycho to take love forgranted... y0u need to back off and tell her that you arent dealing with it anymore! Break up with her... y0u*ll beh better off!! [ SuGgaBabYsWt's advice column | Ask SuGgaBabYsWt A Question ]
cowsoink answered Saturday July 17 2004, 5:46 pm: You deserve better than her. Trust me, there's more good people out there than bad, which she is. I hope you find the right girl for you. Thanx much!
~Chelsea~ [ cowsoink's advice column | Ask cowsoink A Question ]
LoViny0ux914 answered Saturday July 17 2004, 5:27 pm: i think u shuld break up w. her...ppl have bfs n gfs tomake them happy n have sum1 who love sthem n 2 love back..but it seems like this girl is just causing u pain!! shes not makin u happy at all n she starts fights..so why stay/ you could be out there having a great relationship w. sum1 who will be there 4 u n not lie 2 u n stuff. thts just my opinion...but i think u shuld get out of tht relationship. gl! [ LoViny0ux914's advice column | Ask LoViny0ux914 A Question ]
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