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Hi There! I'm Nicole, and I'm 23 years old. People tell me I give good advice, I would like to hope so. I can try to help you with anything, so please leave some question in my inbox and I will answer them A.S.A.P. but I must let you know that I don't sugar coat my answers, and I give you my 100% honest opinion. ♥
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Hey, my hair is an inch and a half long, and I have to straighten it each day for it to look funky! But recently it wont spike as much as it used to, I have to use styling wax as gel makes my hair look clumped, it wont straigten up, it keeps falling down, and ideas? X (link)
hi.
sometimes when you wet it, and kinda just use to hands to spike it up, and then use hair gel and hair spray, that works sometimes.
if not, try a new gel or wax.
or blow dry it your hair back to front, then add gel.
glue works too, and i know it sounds weird, but a lot of people use glue to spike their hair, and conditioner gets it out.


Last night I had just witnessed a death. it made me real sad. It was my grannie. she has played a HUGE role in my life. I stood there and watched her die. I All I do is cry now. What can i do to stop (link)
death is always hard to deal with, i know.
just try and think about how she isnt suffering now, and shes happy. She'll always be with you, in memories, and spirit.
i know its tough, but you'll be fine. it just takes some time =]


Okay, I'm on birthcontrol. But, when you're on bc do you have to use a condom? And can he cum inside you and you still be safe? I"LL RATE 5's!!! (link)
the pill isnt 100% safe, and neither is a condom.
i wouldnt chance it, i would use a condom as well.


is it bad at the of 14 to wear under-wired bras?cause i heard that it is. (link)
its not bad.
just can get uncomfy. =P


hey, im thinkin about switchin to tampons and i have one question. do you have to change your tampon every time you go to the bathroom (like every time i go pee)? (link)
you can go to the bathroom with tampons in.
but its good to change them anyways everytime, since leaving them in too long can cause problems.


ive been with this girl for 2 weeks and i like her and everything but the first date we went on, she pretty much ripped off her shirt and was offering herself to do anything to me, ya it was ok at first but i like girls that dont want to give something at first to me.. i like a challenge, everytime were together she wants to do sexually stuff , i mean im a guy, and im all for that trust me but its every single time i see her.. i like taking a girl out, going to chill at home watch a movie or go out to one, go out to an amusement park.. not always doing that kind of stuff to eachother now that i realise how she just seems to want to give everything up to me i dont like that and i want to break things off with her, but im not sure on what to say to her when i break it off with her.. my chick friend advised me to do this, so all your help would be appreciated! (link)
Go to her house, take a deep breath, and talk to her. Tell her you dont like how she is always just, "giving herself up to you", and tell her you like her but she needs too tone things down, and if she cant you dont want to be in a relationship with her.
if you dont want to give her that second chance, simply tell her you want to break up because you feel "uncomfortable"(?) when she "throws" herself at you, and you'd rather just be friends for now (if thats the case).
Its better to get right to the point of things so you dont leave too many/any unsure/mixed/confused emotions.
hope i helped out a little. good luck =]


What are some important discoveries in the field of biology? (link)
biology is the study of living things.
so just about every living thing is an important discovery ;]
but cells of plants and animals, the human body, animals, and plants...the way they are all made is probably one of the most important. understanding the body has helped discover cures for some diseases.
this isnt a very good answer, but i thought id give you my opinion =]


At the end of the movie "Dirty Dancing" it plays an awesome dance song. "Had the time of my life, no I've never felt this way before, yes I swear," or something like that is how it goes. Can someone please tell me what's the name of it, who sings it, and where I can find lyrics for it? Free five for a decent answer to any of my questions.
Thanks so much! (link)
i found this site..
http://vagalume.uol.com.br/letra/b/bill-medley/ive-had-the-time-of-my-life.html

Bill Medley
"I've Had The Time Of My Life"



Why are people so obsessed with being trendy? Why does everyone feel the need to wear the latest clothes, or listen to the latest music(Rap usually). What happened to people being individuals, and being happy with who they are? This isnt really a good question, but it gets on my nerves how people act sometimes. (link)
i agree, it bothers me too!
its fine if they all like something, but it changes so quick and they like things for the wrong reasons..pft. life is no fun if your following the crowd! be different! woo! =]


I am in high school and I am a male. I am also gay. There is this guy i really want to meet because somehow I love him. It may sound farfetched but I am making blisters with his initials in my skin and I can't stop thinking about him. This other guy asked me out to the movies but because HE was down a few seats on a bleacher below me, I couldn't say yes cuz it felt like betraying him (which I know is insane but I really like him) I've taken like 5 pages of notes on him and I'm planning on getting into a sport he obsesses over but when I finally gathered the courage to talk to him, it ended before it got started. If I were just to be friends with him would be fine, just to be around him really would be great but I can't even speak to him. I get nervous every time i get near him and its impossible to speak. If it were more natural i could do it but just I think he's going to look at me as a freak if i go up to him randomly and just start talking. I just don't know what to do. (link)
Hi =]
Getting into something he is into is a good idea. but you dont know if he is gay or not too, and if you do a sport, get a locker close-ish to his, so you can start small talk, its easier that way than to be across the room and come over and say hi and leave. just, when you see him, take a deep breath, relax, and just say "hi" and continue on with your business.
Try talking about the sport he "obsesses" over too. Its nice talking to people with common interests. =]
As this continues...you should start becoming more comfortable around him, so it will be easier to talk to him.
He wont think your a freak if your just being friendly, and if your teammates, its a good idea to be nice to one-another.
Just take it slowly and calmly at first.
probably isnt the best advice, but good luck!!! ♥


well is it weird that im a girl that thinks its better to have guy friends. cause there not all about drama and are really funny. well a bunch of people say that cuz im nice and i hang out with guys that means i like love them or something. and i really dont feel that way about them.
what do you think
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not weird at all. im like that too. some girls just get along with guys better than other girls, and some guys get along better with girls than other guys.
nothing weird about it, as long as your happy with your friends. =]


what is the code for changing text size on myspace when you type a comment? (link)
no spaces between the bracket and the word font tho, and no space after the / in the end tag...

< font size=a number 1-7> text we la la la


I want to get my lip pierced but idk if it'd look good on me, alot of people said it would but i just want some more advice uhhhhh..
here's a link to my picture o_O

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v410/glitterglitz/9d7f9fd3.jpg

lol i drew one on once and it looked okay haha.
but ugh its body manipulating and i just wanna make sure o_o
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i think it would look great!
put a small hoop earring on your lip too maybe?


Hey, there's this guy who I'm almost positive likes me, and I only like his as a friend. I'm going to see him and his friends tomorow, and I'm pretty sure he'll ask me out. How can I tell him I don't like him that way without screwing thigs up? (link)
"hey, your a great friend, and i think we should just be friends for now, and dont worry, things wont be weird between us, cause i dont want to lose you as a friend"

or something along those lines. and talk to him like you normally would so he knows things arent too weird.

hope i helped


i have really thick hair, and i can never put it down, its always in a ponytail or braids, and i never really have the time to straigten my hair , and im sporty anways, so i dont straighten my hair unless i go to a salon. and i dont wear make up either. any tips for different hairstyles for thick hair? or if you have thick hair too, any suggestions? thank you! (link)
next time you go to a salon get your hair thinned out, makes it easier to work with
i have super thick hair too
pig tales is another style..or the side buns, not like princess lea, hah, but sorta towards the back more, just make pig tales and with another band flip them upside down so the ends kind of spike up and out...
you should, if you ever have time, straighten your hair before you go to bed. it makes it easier to deal with in the morning.


does anyone know any free music downloaders that wont give your computer viruses? (not limewire though because it slowed my comp down a lot)
**i rate high** (link)
i use winmx
i use the old version tho, i think you might have to pay to upgrade it. still works pretty well tho, and its free and ive never had computer problems because of it

http://www.oldversion.com/program.php?n=winmx


i have 3 colors for my room picked out
Purple
Blue
Lime green

what are some cute ways to paint my walls..i have 4 walls in my room. thanks

14/girl (link)
purple and limegreen checkered would look really cool! or maybe do lime green wall, purple wall, lime green wall, purple wall, blue ceiling.
maybe even blue walls with lime green and purple pokla dots?
those are awesome colors for a room too btw ;]


hey all i have been thinking about getting my nose pierced, but i would first like to learn about it. just the basic stuff like if it hurts, is it hard to take care of, is it often irritating, is the piercing dangerous, about how much would it cost, and any other useful information you would like to share. thanks! (link)
well, i have my nose pierced, but i did it myself. and it didnt really hurt at all. but then again everyone is different. ihave friends who got it professionally done, and they say that they put a little cork in your nose, and use a long needle to pierce it, and then they put the nose ring in, and they told me it didnt hurt bad. so its probably..4-6, unless your really sensative. but its quick. i also believe its $30 to get it done. its not that hard to take care of, but like earrings, you want to twist it around a little, cause blood might dry around it and it could start to hurt. and using a little alcohol to clean it wouldnt hurt. depending on the type of nose ring, it can sometimes poke you, and it can hurt a little bit. like when you itch your nose or blow it, sometimes the tissue gets stuck on it and it pulls a little. also, depending on the kind of post..(mine is a star with a straight post) it can get stuck on other things, i recommend you getting a small diamond, circular, with a ball at the end, its harder for those kind to get stuck on anything and tug. im sure you dont want to here about the negative things, but it looks great. and they really arent that bad. sorry this is so long, but i hope i helped you out.


Hey guys..
Kay well im on xanga & whenever i copy a layout from a site I see sometimes that it says " No jocking If i find you I will report you to authorities!!" But what does that mean? It sounds scary. I take a lot of layouts. Its it like jocking? Im so confused. I want to know so i know what I can do so im not jocking. I dont even know what it means. Please help! (link)
if you take a layout, and remove the code/are that says "made by such and such" that is like stealing the layout for yourself, thats jocking.
if you take a layout, and you still have the "made bye whomever" then your ok, thats not jocking.


My boyfriend came over the other night and he was impliying that he wanted to have sex But i said no Now he won't answer my calls and Hes always with this girl named sarah and shes a slut Do u think hes cheating on me?

*Nikki 14 (link)
sorry to say this, but it seems like he might be. and if he isnt yet, he probably will. i, personally, am glad you didnt give in to him, dont have sex until you are ready. now your boyfriend is acting immature, and i think you probably deserve better than this.




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