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I am sad............
Last night I had just witnessed a death. it made me real sad. It was my grannie. she has played a HUGE role in my life. I stood there and watched her die. I All I do is cry now. What can i do to stop
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i know exactly how you feel because i witnessed me aunts death she died of cancer. she played a big part in my life as well. when someone passes away and they played a big part in your it tears you apart and all you want to do is cry to no end. i know i did. but if you have a close friend trusted adult or a family member then sit down and talk to them it will help you slowly but surly even so you will always remember that person but you should try to remember the person they were and the memories you had with them. look at it with a positive outlook and you will be okay. i hope that you can smile again..
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Since it was really recent, I think you should keep crying and let all of your feelings out. Talk to someone about it too - find positive support. My dad died four years ago, and my grandma 2 years ago. I'm lucky because I have many people who are happy to support me.
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when somone you love die all you can do is cry give it time your missing her that why u crying apart of life is death but once you over this u will stop cryng but you griefing at the moment
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I just recently lost my grannie too. I just cried and tried to remember the happy moments that we had together. I just let it all out. My grannie wasnt the best to me, but i still loved her. There was a time when my aunt couldnt take care of her 5 yr old daughter and we were asked to take her in. My grannie wouldnt let us because she accused my parents of not feeding me bc i am 14 and weigh 90 lbs. But i saw the love my grannie had for my cousin. She just wanted her to be safe. If you remember the good times and not the bad, it may help. Like i have a drawer i keep all the cards i get. It may sound kinda wierd but i have birthday cards from her from a long time ago. and ones that are recent. I have a picture of her in the hall to my room. Its a happy picture of her and her husband. when he was still alive. But all i can say is just remember all the happy times. And its ok to cry. You can leave me info in my inbox if you want to talk.
Hugs~ Michele
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you cant do any thing about that , i know how you feel i lost my nanna and she broght me up (aswell as my parents) i know it might seem inpossible now but you will stop crying , but when you are ready just let it out (your nanna will have wanted you to go on and make her prowed and dont think cos you get on with your life does not me you are forgetting your nanna) just remember that MAKE HER PROWED lots of hugs xxx xWhiteTigerx
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well you should cry to take the pain away . And just remember she will always be in your heart and she is now watching you. I know how you feel my uncle died when I was 5 years old I didn`t really know and remeber how he looks because I was 5 years old.So wat I am trying to say is it will be all right.If u need anything just Put it in my inbox and I will u.
lots of love & hugs,
MissThang
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I think it is better you let your feelings out. You should cry to take your emotions out of your system. So cry all you want. And if you need to talk to anybody just leave it in my inbox. Okay, don't worry everything will be okay. I'm here for you I PROMISE!
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I know death can be a hard thing I wansn't near death but my grandma is a diabetic and I seen you have an reaction and fall to the grownd shacking and I couldn't stop crying and I started shacking all I can say is let it all out. It is ok to cry there is nothing wrong with it sooner or later you will get over the death and get on with you life. if she was preety old then should new it was comeing and she probely didn't mind. see at that age they there bodys heart and we don't know as much so they want to but in a good way. i hope you can be happy soon.hoped I helped and good luck please ask me for any advise anytime and please rait me. thanks.
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i am really sorry...and the pain will never go away...but you can just think of all the good memories you had together. And you can talk to a family relative if you want..but its going to take some time...
*.*steph*.*
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death is always hard to deal with, i know.
just try and think about how she isnt suffering now, and shes happy. She'll always be with you, in memories, and spirit.
i know its tough, but you'll be fine. it just takes some time =]
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I witnessed the death of my grandfather. He was a very special man and I will always miss him. It is good that you can cry. Crying though it hurts is the best way to relieve the pain her passing hs caused you. Let yourself cry. Though the pain of her passing will never completely go away, that you can grieve and cry now will help you heal to a place where remembering her will be a pleasure as well as a pain. This is a normal part of the grieving process. It isn't easy, but it will eventually pass. Give your selftime. Big hug. It will get better.
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There is really nothing you can do to stop your crying. When I found my goats dead(yes I am playing your grandma as two little goats)I was horrified. All I could do was cry and look at them. I was to horrified to go by them, and it hurt me the next day that I couldn't do anything about it. I had friends who helped me get over the shock but no matter how many friends, family members, or animals that help you you will never get over the death. People say they will get over it but that of course is allways a lie, because nobody can ever truely get over death.
-ask2recieve
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aw. im so sorry to hear that. i know how its like to go threw death. in my family there has been so many tragedies in the passing away subject. my dads twin brothers life was taken to heaven on september 11th (twin towers) and i know how horrible it is to go threw that. my aunt judy...my dads sister....her life was also taken. and my dad had a pretty ruff time. i know how hard it is. your grandmas in a better place now. i know its hard to except it but youll rejoin her one day. YOU WILL. its good to cry. but dont get hung over by it. your grandma wouldnt want that. try to do things to keep your mind off it...but still remember her. its good to honor her by remembering...but she wouldnt want you to be stuck in your room crying. i am really sorry that happened, but SHES IN A BETTER PLACE. shes happy. she wants YOU to be happy. understand that. i hope i helped. becasue thats all i have for now. let her rest in peace. much love, erica.
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Well i really don't think there is like anything you can do to make it stop cause i mean its your relative so you can't just make yourself stop crying. It just has to take time to calm down a little bit. Sooner or later you will feel a little bit better hopefully.Well hope i helped!
~Kristy~
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i had to go throught the same thing....my grandma died the day before my birthday...she also played a big roll in my life......you will always miss her but you will soon stop crying.......if she was going through a illness that she had to suffer with than she is now in a better place...if she stayed on earth than she would have to suffer through pain and i know you wouldnt want that for your grandma...now you will always have a guardian angel....
try to take your mind off if it....
when my grandma died all i wanted to do was spend time with my family..it made me feel a lot better
<3steph xoxo i hope you feel better
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