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not sure on the subject. sorry
ive been with this girl for 2 weeks and i like her and everything but the first date we went on, she pretty much ripped off her shirt and was offering herself to do anything to me, ya it was ok at first but i like girls that dont want to give something at first to me.. i like a challenge, everytime were together she wants to do sexually stuff , i mean im a guy, and im all for that trust me but its every single time i see her.. i like taking a girl out, going to chill at home watch a movie or go out to one, go out to an amusement park.. not always doing that kind of stuff to eachother now that i realise how she just seems to want to give everything up to me i dont like that and i want to break things off with her, but im not sure on what to say to her when i break it off with her.. my chick friend advised me to do this, so all your help would be appreciated!
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Sit down and talk to her. Tell her that you like her and ya'll should slow things down a little. Or tell her that she doesn't need to do all this because she's already beautiful to youand she doesn't need to prove anything to you. She might like you alot and feel that in order to make you stay with her she has to act that way. Whatever you decide to say just let her know that she doesn't need to do that for you cause your not other boys.
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hey well there isnt really easy ways to break up but explain to her what you just wrote and she should understand how you feel. you dont need to beat around the bush, just tell her how you dont like what shes doing and how you dont want to be in a relationship with her when she is like this.
xO. jessica
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Sometimes girls are willing to do anything it takes to hold on to a guy, even if that means giving them anything the want (sexually.) Maybe this girl thinks if she does things sexually with you, that you will not want to dump her and that you'll stay with her? Talk to her. Tell her that you like her for who she is- not just for sexual needs. Try and take her out on a few dates and just take it slow for a while. If you talk to her and she STILL just wants to do sexual things- then she's probably just a slut. Lol. =) But really tho- explain to her how you feel before you just go ahead and dump her. I hope I helped you, and if you still wana talk you can always drop one in my inbox. Good luck sweetie.
♥Jennifer
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Go to her house, take a deep breath, and talk to her. Tell her you dont like how she is always just, "giving herself up to you", and tell her you like her but she needs too tone things down, and if she cant you dont want to be in a relationship with her.
if you dont want to give her that second chance, simply tell her you want to break up because you feel "uncomfortable"(?) when she "throws" herself at you, and you'd rather just be friends for now (if thats the case).
Its better to get right to the point of things so you dont leave too many/any unsure/mixed/confused emotions.
hope i helped out a little. good luck =]
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This one is easy. Tell her you like her for more beauty and or sexual attraction and ask her to go
easy here and that sex is not what your interest is right away. Tell her you respect her and she
ought to respect herself and her reputation and
button up. She may not like that at first but you are letting her know you want something else
and she should back off or find someone else. She might appreciate you because you are not all over her. Something tells me this one may have sexual related issues from her past. Never know.
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