My boyfriend came over the other night and he was impliying that he wanted to have sex But i said no Now he won't answer my calls and Hes always with this girl named sarah and shes a slut Do u think hes cheating on me?
x0xVivaLaJeniix0x answered Monday August 22 2005, 7:07 pm: ok if he's cheating on you for that reason that is pathetic a real boyfriend would respect your decision...
sunnyville answered Monday August 22 2005, 5:52 pm: I do think he is I mean some guys if you don't give them what they want they will go find another girl to do the job and especiall ywiht a girl you say is a slut.Spy on him when he is with this girl if he is cheating on you break up with him and look for some other guy who will respect you for who you are and your decisions.Especially keep your eyes on that girl Sarah.If he is not cheating on you well just let that girl named Sarah know that he is your guy and warn her not to even try to put her eyes on him because he has a girl which is you so she will get the message real well.And also tell your guy to understand you if you don't want to but you do like him and also ask him why he doesn't answer your calls. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
falliingxagain answered Monday August 22 2005, 4:52 pm: All signs point to yes - he's cheating on you. Talk to him about it because let's face it... most guys need the physical as much as they need the emotional. Maybe him getting the physical somewhere else is going to help you in the long run (I've seen it happen). But since he's doing it behind your back you should probably just break it off with him. [ falliingxagain's advice column | Ask falliingxagain A Question ]
SweetxxIntoxication answered Monday August 22 2005, 3:52 pm: sorry to say this, but it seems like he might be. and if he isnt yet, he probably will. i, personally, am glad you didnt give in to him, dont have sex until you are ready. now your boyfriend is acting immature, and i think you probably deserve better than this. [ SweetxxIntoxication's advice column | Ask SweetxxIntoxication A Question ]
girlygirl answered Monday August 22 2005, 3:52 pm: So sorry, but Yes he's cheating on you... or more than likely you're already broken up. He's a jerk and just proved that that was all he was interested in. You are much better than that! [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
TheOldOne answered Monday August 22 2005, 3:35 pm: My guess would be yes. If not, he's probably heading that way.
But he's being a jerk. Pressuring you for sex at 14 is ridiculous! Don't give in. He's actually MORE likely to leave you, sooner, if you have sex with him. And of course there are a lot of other good reasons to wait.
Never have sex until you feel TOTALLY READY. It needs to be what YOU want, when YOU are ready.
When or if you break up with him, you'll need some time off to recover. But after that, I hope you find a boy who'll value you for YOU, and not just for sex.
They're a little rare, but they're out there. And I think you'll be much happier with a boy who respects you.
afro_timmy answered Monday August 22 2005, 3:35 pm: well maybe?
i am not sure
if he wanted to have sex wid you but you said no then maybe he is wid this sarah girl to force you into having sex with him so he dosent see her anymore... du you get what i mean?
if not just have a talk with him and sort stuff out. you did the rite thing by saying no because if he is cheating then you would have lost your virginity and it wouldnt have been special
hope i helped
luv ya
xoxox [ afro_timmy's advice column | Ask afro_timmy A Question ]
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