about

Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.



I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.



I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.



I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.



For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)



Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.


advice

my 2 best friends an me always hang out an like whenme an one are chylllin the other storms off an gets pissed off... she curses to much an she talks behind our back to one another an we are reallygettin fed up!like rite nowme dana and andria..(

You need to get your friend help. Andria could have these certain attitudes/mood swings because of her drugs and drinking. It would be more typical if she was just jealous of the girls, because sometimes people may appear that way. But I don't think that's the problem for her. The fact that she drinks too much and does drugs is probably one of the reasons she cooks for no reason and takes things. You need to get your friends and talk to her whenever she comes around and tell her as a friend you are concerned because * and list the things she does behavior/cooking/taking things* . And you feel that this may have something to do with her drug usage and drinking. If she becomes vicious, then you can take that as a first sign. People normally don't admit that they need help, but in some ways they show it without words. She needs to get of the drugs and cut down on the drinking because things can get worse for her. Maybe she'll have a hard time understanding now, but if she is a good friend she will thank you later. You can look up local programs for her cases and start her off there. I hope everything turns out okay for her! If you need any hotlines or anything let me know and I can try to find you some! Well, good luck, love ya - Mandee

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is there medicine for it?

Haha! Sorry..but I don't think anyone has developed a medicine for that. Maybe, but if so, then I have never heard of it! Good luck anyways! Love ya -Mandee

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i just had sex with my dad and i'm afraid that he got me pregnent..what the hell do i do! i'm so scared. is it possible for my dad to get me pregnent

It is possible for him to get you pregnant. This has got to be tough for your whole family. If you are pregnant theres not much you can do. Here are some symptoms if you might be pregnant: mood swings, food cravings, mroning sickness, missed periods, and fatigue. If this sounds like what you've been experincing get a test. If you are pregnant, that could present family problems. Honestly, this is between you and your family. I understand you're scared but this feels to me like something you and your family should discuss. *If your dad sexually harasses you please report it.* It would be so much safer for you and your life to report it. I'm not exactly sure if your dad does sexually abuse you, but if he does that really needs to be taken in control. I'm so sorry, and I can't imagine what you're going through. If you need anything feel free to ask me. Best wishes, love ya -Mandee

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hey im a 16 male from cali and i really like this girl. she likes me too and shes 16 as well and i want to ask her out but im not positive if i should because she just got out of a relationship. so im wondering what i should say to her. i dont want to make her ex mad cause hes cool and hes still obsessed with her. i really want to give this a shot with her i just dont know what to say to her any ideas?

It's so awesome that you care that much about her to consider her feelings and her ex-boyfriend's feelings before you get into anything!! If I were you I would wait a while and just start building up your friendship with her. Be there for her when she needs you and let her take some time to get over the break up. I'm sure she will be more than delighted that you are giving her this free time to just get over a relationship. When you find that the time is right just tell her that she means so much to you and you want to take it up a level and date her for a while. This will give you and her a chance to get to know one another on relationship basis. If dating goes well for a couple days or weeks you'll most likely end up as her boyfriend. The only problem is that her ex-boyfriend still cares for her. And I think that she should let him know that it's over and that she has moved on. If you're friends with her ex or you at least talk to him once in awhile, let him know that you don't want to go against his wishes but you really like this girl. What I think they both need right now is time. Time to get over their relationship. You are such a sweet guy for being so considerate, and even if things don't work out between you and her, any girl should be so lucky to have you, because you seem like a keeper! Good luck!! Love ya -Mandee

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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends

Aw, don't consider yourself as an outsider! It's summer and you are already worried about school next year! lol Since you're entering highschool people change and everyone is different. Sometimes people are more experienced in fitting in than others. It's not about what other people do, it's about you and your own actions. Be yourself all the time, don't be afraid to show who you really are. People tend to find it annoying if other people start doing exactly what they do. If you have confidence and are yourself they will love you! Trust me! If you are anti-social a little bit, practice becomming more outgoing. Go to the mall or swimming and just talk to people. Meeting new friends is like baby steps. You talk, you get to know them and their interests, they learn a little about you, and then you start hanging out with them more frequently. But enjoy your summer and have some fun! Best of wishes and have a great year as a freshman! Love ya- Mandee

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okay well...my mom and dad got a divorce a few years ago..so i have to go back and forth like..one week i'll be with my mom and the next i'll be with my dad..but i cant stand my dad and his new girlfriend..personally i think he deserves better than her but what do i know i'm only 14...okay well..how do i tell my dad that i dont want to go over there anymore because he changed and i dont like his girlfriend?

Hey hun! Well, that's not such an easy thing to say to your dad without hurting his feelings. But be honest with him, and tell him that lately his behavior has changed and you are quite concerned about it and if it has to do with his relationship with his new girlfriend. Is there any particular reason as to why you don't like his girlfriend? If you just feel uncomfortable seeing them both together maybe you should reconsider and give it some time. If it has been awhile sicne they've been together and you still be insecure, it's definitely time to talk to your dad about his girlfriend. Instead of saying " Dad I don't like your girlfriend, so I'm not comming over" which would hurt his feelings just be considerate to his feelings. Maybe explain that you have given sometime to get to understand his girlfriend but you find it hard to see what qualities he likes about her. Tell him that you've noticed that he has changed and that you don't know if she is the reason for that and you don't feel as secure around her, and maybe you should take a little break from visiting until everything comes together. Your father might seem disappointed, but if he is understanding enough he may realize why you feel this way. Good luck, and take care!! Love you- Mandee

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Hi ok well I got a problem. I was friends with this one guy for 5 years. We were good friends and we have a lot of memories. This past year he changed and he never talks to me anymore. I didn't do anything. I miss him so much and I just want him to know that I love him, but hes totally changed. I don't know what to do.

I know exactly what you mean. It hurts so much to see a close friends fade away when nothing happened. It's not you that did anything, it's him. You said that he changed, so obviously he backed off on your friendship. Let him know that you miss and love him. Write him an e-mail, AIM him, call him. Just tell him how you're feeling. Because if you don't he will never know he's doing something wrong. If he respects you enough, he will attempt to become closer to you and talk to you more. If he doesn't it might be time to take a break from him. People change all throughout your life. Some of your friends will remain with you forever, some will change and some will let go. But if your friend really cares about you he will come back and realize what a huge mistake he's making. Maybe he's just at a time in his life where he can't seem to find out who he really is. Let him know that you'll try to be understanding, and if this is the case then you'll give him some free time. Because he might just need a break. I'm sorry about his actions, I know it must be difficult for you. But let me know what happens! Love you- Mandee

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I was dating a guy for 9 months and we had sex...we broke up yesturday and he allready has another g/f. Should I regret doing that? To me it seems as if he doesn't even care what had happened between us b/c he's allready dating another girl...I'm just confused.

How was your relationship? Because if it was special and really worth it, it should be something to be remembered. Did you have sex and the nezt day he broke up with you? If so than he was most likely using you. To date a girl that fast he obviously didn't take time to get over you. But he could be doing it just to show off and make you jealous. If you truly believe that he doesn't care what happened between you guys, he really isn't worth your time. I would just relax because he's like a weight lifted off your shoulder now. If he moved on that fast he probably didn't care what happened between your relationship. I do understand it's hard to get over someone, but you'll get through this. Would you really want a guy who never even cared in the first place? Take care, love you - Mandee

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Ok. So my friend who is 14 like me, basically makes out with a different guy every night and gives head to a new guy every week. She recently lost her virginity at a party, and when we started talking about all the stuff she does she says she has fun but she looked really sad. Personally I think she's been doing way to much stuff with way too many random guys. I don't want to hurt her, and make her think I think she's a slut or anything, but I do want to talk to her because I'm concerned. What do I do?

Sounds exactly like my sister. You definitely have to talk to her, because if you don't it may only get worse. Hun, this might sound horrible to say, but she is only going to get worse from here. She's probably ashamed overall, but she wouldn't want to admit it because at the same time it could be fun. She could be come depressed for this, and seriously it's not right to be notorious for sex. She just needs time to stop this before she gets addicted to sex lol. Tell her your opinions, don't be afraid to, they might make a difference. If not..just remember it's her body and while it may be wrong she's the only one who can handle it. Love ya - Mandee

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im 17 and went to have sex with my gf our first time and i had trouble getting my penis in
it went soft after a couple of minutes and it happened a second time it's a bit worrying my penis is not real big could that be the problem?
What can i do?

Nothings wrong, actually that's natural for your penis to be difficult to get in. Maybe it might have something to do with the size...if that's it then you really can't help that. Hopefully your girlfriend is understanding about it. Your girlfriends body may adjust to it too. But if your really concerned about it see a doctor. But I wouldn't worry about it! Take care, love ya- Mandee

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hey ive read your advice and your really sweet! well im 14 and havent had a real kiss and alot of my friends have told me theres like 392570723059730 different ways...i was just wondering if you could tell me how you move your tongue around :-/ i know im a loser but theres this guy i like and im scared to kiss him because i dont want him to think im a total idiot because i cant kiss! PLEASE HELP!!!

Aww, thanks a million, sweetie! One of the best things about kissing is that there is no exact way to kiss. It's actually just your own way, so be creative! Your friends are kinda right, there are many ways. My favorite however is french kissing, and french kissing is simple! If you haven't kissed before then yeah I remember I was real nervous about it. But it's not such a big deal after all. You can move your tongue in all different directions..it's hard to explain without not actually doing it! You kind of learn while doing it. So yeah just move your tongue around but make sure you dont chew while doing it, you know? No teeth! lol Make sure to have opened lips of course and for your tongue make sure you dont have your whole tongue in just like an inch and a half or something similar. Just circle your tongue around his and from there just follow him. Keep in mind he might kiss differently. But no worries, it's nothing to worry about! You will do fine! And the more you date, the more you'll practice, therefore you'll get better at it! Good luck, take care!! Love you- Mandee

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Ok heres the story,
I lived with my dad untill i was 121/2 .... But know i live with my mom and i am 15 .... when i lived with my dad he used to give me a suit case and tell me to move in with my mom when he was drunk or mad and now my mom does it only she doesnt give me a suit case cause i have one in my room .... When i first moved in with her she used to allways takl to me and i could tell her any thing but over time we drifted and thats normal i know for going into teens and stuff but know she loves my step dad more then she loves me .... i know she does becuase if my step dad is off some where else for work then she cant stand not talking to him at least 3 times a day even if hes only gone for 2 days and when i go to visit my dad for a weekend or for a couple of weeks she doesnt call me or anything and when i come home shes like i missed you but then goes back to talking to her husband errrr

AND THEN my brother wont even talk tod me becuase him and my dad got into a fight and he doesnt want anything to do with someone who is related to my father ....... and my family (like aunts etc..) on my dads side hates me becuase i "left" my dad and moved to my moms

Sry for sounding like a complaining person but i wanted to know why does family treat me like this? it makes me really depressed

Sweetie, you should never be treated this way from your family, there is no excuse. Your family needs to pull themselves together and learn from their mistakes. I can tell from by you writting this that you seem more mature than they do, and I think it is wonderful for you to speak up and ask about this. If your mom and your dad both drink constantly that could represent a problem. Maybe it's because they are both depressed and take it out on each other and you. Divorce is something that happens in the relationship of your parents, not you. But thety don't seem to understand that for treating you this way. I would talk to both of them, tell them how you feel, and that you would like to spend time with one of your parents feeling secure and not having the other parent neglect you just because you decide to live with the other one. Explain to them that you love each of them with all your heart and just because you want to spend time with your dad does not mean you love him more, you just want to see him. Maybe you could try to sort this out by saying: "Okay, maybe I can spend a year and half of the summer living with daddy, and then I'll spend the next half of summer and following year with mom." If they cannot agree to this, not only do I personally think thats not right, but maybe it's time for your parents to see a counselor. Obviously your family has had a rocky relationship, but by getting them help you are doing them a favor.
For your brother, you need to tell him that the fight between your dad and him is not your fault and that you love both parents but choose to live with your dad. I'm sure you love him and are very hurt by his actions and not wanting to talk to you is even more depressing, but he really needs to get out of this and get on with his life. You obviously are apart of his life and deserve to be treated that way.
I know that whatever is happening with youa nd your family right now is hard, but hun, just hang in there. You are a very strong person for making it this far! If you need anything feel free to write to me, I hope I helped. Soon you'll be able to live on your own. lol. I'm 18 and loving it!! Haha. Good luck sweetie, love you- Mandee

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I've always been really bad at finding things to say to people when they're upset. I mean, I know that usually what they need is just for their friend to be there for them, but I can't just stand there while they cry...for instance, one of my friends has been having a lot of problems lately: she fights with her mother often and recently her grandfather was taken to the hospital and they think he might have cancer. She gets upset often and i never know what to say or do! I feel horrible...i need some advice on what to say when she's going through hard times or crying on the phone or whatever because I always feel that I'll sound stupid and not good enough of a friend. when someone has cancer you can;'t tell the person 'oh, it'll be okay' because it won't! so please, if you have any advice i'd be glad to hear it

You need to support her, and let her know how much she means to you. It seems like she means a lot to you. You have to say things from your heart. Because if you really believe that she can make it through this, you need to be helping her each step of the way. Let her know that. Tell her that whatever happens with her grandfather is not her fault, and that everything happens for a reason. She will become a stronger person at the end. And when a lot of things happen at once, it is depressing. If you notice mood swings or constant aggressive behavior there is something really wrong. Talking helps. I know that when something happens to my friends no matter what I try to bring a smile to their face. Since you mentioned she gets upset often, that is not healthy, do some fun things with her. Whats her favorite thing to do? Cheer her up a bit, and have her forget her problems. If you can't don't feel horrible...there is only so much you can do, and if you are trying your best that's all that matters! Just have a long talk with her, let her know that you need her as much as she needs you. This is a really bad time in her life, and theres only a few people to depend on, so be one of them and make sure you don't treat her any differently than you would if none of this was happening. Example: If a death in the family occurs, don't avoid her or assume she needs a lot of time alone. Sure she may be depressed but she is still the same person as she always was. But don't worry you will do fine. I'm sure she loves you! Let her know that you love her as well! Good luck sweetie, Love ya- Mandee

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I'm fifteen years old and completely in love with a twenty-one year old guy. We have both liked each other for about 2 years now. However, the guy I like has never acted upon his feelings because of my age. He respects me, which isn't a bad thing. But how can I make him see that I'm mature enough to be his girlfriend? How could I coax him to get into a relationship with me?

I understand that you are attracted to some one older, but this is illegal. You really need to be aware of what you can get into. It is okay to date innocently, but if it isn't so innocent you can be put in jail. And honestly, I didn't know much about this topic, so I asked beth. And according to her, you can't sleep with him, and if you do, it's considered statutory rape and may result in jail. And I definitely want to thank her for helping me out on this one. So if you are very sure he is the one, you need to consider these things. It's very hard to make someone love you back, especially at this age difference. Talk to him about how you feel, if he respects your decision then I guess you could date. But if he doesn't there is not much to do. Maybe you should try to find a guy your age. This is hard on your part too, but is it really worth all the trouble you can be putting yourself into? Take care, good luck, and be careful! Love ya- Mandee

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What should I do, I thought I liked this guy but really I just liked him as a friend so now I like one of his friends and he says he likes me but the other guys really hurt and wont get off my back! I need advice

You need to explain to the guy who is hurt that you really do not like him more than a friend, but would like to keep in touch. It might be a good idea to let him say some things because what he wants to say should be of importance to you. It will show him you do care as a friend and will let him say what he needs to say. You probably know how it is to love someone but they don't like you that way. It hurts. And it's tough to get over. Maybe introduce this guy to a friend of yours? Who knows, maybe they will hit it off and that will have him give you some space. Falling for his friend might make matters worse for the guy who is hurt because it's hard to see a person you love with one of your friends. Some jealousy could occur. Take things slow if you are willing to be in a relationship with his friend. And make sure his friend spends time with him so he won't feel let out. Unfortunally there is not a whole lot you can do to help him. When someone is hurt emotionally it's their own problem to deal with. But try to do as much as you can. Good luck with the other guy! Love ya- Mandee

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I have a few celebrity screennames I would like to share:
Justin Timberlake: Tearstick
Jim Carrey (Bruce Almighty): Jimcarreyonmoon
Adam Sandler (Mr.Deeds): Triangular Earth
Kristanna Loken (terminator 3): evilyethopeless
John Raitt (???): JRamboNWL

im not sure if theyre real. my friend goes on websites, and she has 200 celebrity email addresses, but she only gave me these.

Are you sure? Honestly, I don't think they are real. They could be stalkers, you never know. Usually people will say they are a celebrity and are not. These websites your friend could be getting them from are most likely false. Love ya - Mandee

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we r about 2 move and i have 2 get my moms furniture...but i wanna make it 2 where its not so adult like...if that makes sence....im 15 and i want 2 paint my room pink and make it really girly...hehe...so if anyone knows anything i can make adult furniture not so that way and also i need some ideas for like wall hangings and kinds of selves and really anything i can put in there that has 2 go with the theme...if this question makes any sence...thanks 2 anyone who answers!!!!!

Pink! Pretty much the color that I always wear or use! Haha. Okay well, you know what really works good...Pink with a zebra furniture thing. Yeah, does that make sense? My cousin has somthing similar. If that seems...not really what you had in mind think "Legally Blonde" you know because shes so surbame! Sorry...surbame is like cool Jake made it up, of course you wouldn't know who Jake is! Just get a bunch of pink stuff and don't be afraid go to a store such as Ikea, you'd love it there! And just shop you're heart out! Find things that make you happy or that you like! My room is like a romantic/girly sort of theme. Candles...roses, rose petals, silky..hot tubs...and such. But the bed is the main focus. ;) Haha, I can't really help you out that much because I sort of need to be in the room. But I'm a pretty good decorator. Just decorated my house and it's crazy but everyone loves it! But hey, good luck! Love ya -Mandee

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Hi there,

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The choice is between:

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-Mandee

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What would u do if you found out that your worst fear came true and that u HAD to face it because no matter what it's gonna happen? (Like, u couldn't just avoid it like bees or spiders.)

I can't describe my fear because it's to complicated. My best friend and i have known each other for a very long time. We planned our life together and now that we are growing older our plans are totally ruined. We're going to different schools and she has already kissed a boy and i'm a bit nervous around them. And i'm afriad of being alone. I want to freeze time because talking and playing games with my friend is changing to more mature things for her but not me. Everyone seems to be getting older and the change and time and me are all just clashing. Fears are usual stupid but how can u be brave if you aren't afriad of anything??

When my friend first told me she kissed sum1 the feeling was deeper than depression...fear, and i wasn't completely sure why. Is there sumthing bigger that i'm afriad of??

Everyone changes...it's only natural to do so. But some people are not ready for change yet. And I think you're one of them. This is good but this is bad too. You're fear of losing your friend and being alone is something that your friend needs to deal with as well as you. I think what you want is things to stay as they once were and nothing new to come. But you need to realize that things change, it sucks, yeah, but it happens and you can't hold on to the past. When you're friend kissed someone you either were probably A.) Jealous in some way because you want someone to have in that way, or B.) You are afraid that who ever she kissed will take her away from you, and that you will lose her. And unfortunally sometimes whenever your friend has a boyfriend or girlfriend they sort of take all of their heart and time to them. But sometimes not. As for me, I have a boyfriend but I know that I must keep doing things with my friends making them happy and making them feel like an importance to me. Because they truly are, I love them to death! If this happens, just give your friend time, he or she will come around. There also could be a change for life, somthing that you are not ready for. I've experinced it, but if your friend is loyal to you and really is a good friend she will never let you go. Just show her you care and care for some of the things she wants to do. Let her know you're there for her no matter what! Good luck hunnie, hang in there! Love you! -Mandee

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im 15/f ... i have noticed that there is cloudy substance on my thong constantly.. it is embrassing and sometimes smells... what is it what can i do am i normal?

*scared*

Oh don't worry, hun. Nothing is wrong with you. It's just discharge and yeah everyone has it. However you may have a yeast infection if it's real thick. If it does seem un-normal then go have a doctor check it out. Good luck! Love ya -Mandee

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