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I`m Desiree

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when i was a kid and even in middle school..i didnt even want a boyfriend i was soo occupied with sports n school n my friends i didnt think about having a boyfriend. Well im in highschool now..and all of a sudden something just changed in me..i want to find love now..is that normal and will i ever find love? They say some dont..is that true?

Well hun youve got older and your mind was going to focus on guys eventually.. Everybody dont think bout guys at a real young age..You will eventually find love and meet somebody special it just takes time.. and you dont want to just go with anybody.you should have standards in what you want in a guy and relationship so you dont go in and out of relationships and continue to get broken hearts.. much luv dez x0x0 *rate me*

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Okay here it goes, my boyfriend is really unexperienced, and really shy. I want to know if I should just go for it or wait untill he goes for it (it being the kiss) Or is it more of a "we both will know when its right" type of deal. I was the one to initiate most everyhting else such as holding hands and whatnot,...now what?

Well if he's shy you might be waiting for a while.. so you should just make the move it doesnt sound like you have a problem with it so just go for it.. if i was you i would stick with kissing for a while..he'll probably loosen up after that then make moves on other things your ready for..much luv dez x0x0

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Last night I did this really hard aerobics class at my gym and i am sooo sore that it hurts everywhere everytime i move...is there anything i can do to make the soreness go down?...thanks

take a hot bath..much luv dez x0x0

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ok, i really like this guy and he wants to make-out with me and i really want to make-out with him. the only problem is that i've never made-out or even kissed before so i don't want to seem like a total looser. he's a very trusting and understanding guy and already said he didn't want to rush me and everything for which i am grateful, but eventually i'll have to learn. does ne one have ne tips or have any ideas on where we should make-out (my parents don't know and i don't want them to) and when we make-out, what should i do?

Making out is so much fun.. hun there isnt really no wrong way to kiss.. just go along with what he does.. and when i make out with my baby i like to touch him like on his back,back of his neck and hold him real close to me.. and i like for him to sit up and i face the same way as him and wrap my legs round him so i can be in more control and kiss on his neck.. much luv dez x0x0

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I'm a 15 year old female. I really like this one boy, but the thing is he's always teasing me or hitting me. Sometimes it's actually funny and we play around but other times it really hurts physically & emotionally. Very little of the time he'll come up to me and start a normal conversation, flirt, etc. I have a strong feeling he likes me the way I like him. I know that if he told anyone, his immature friends would start on him. He wouldn't straight out tell me either because he's shy about that kind of stuff. What could I do to make him realize that if he makes a move, I'll go along with it?

How about you make the move hun... with of course none of his friends around.. much luv dez x0x0

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okay well this boy.. lets call him.. tony.. is going out with my goooood friend.. we'll call her sammee... well im totally jealous of sammee and the fact that she gets tony and i dont... but even though there going out. sammee really likes my best guy friend (lets call him jake) well samme really likes jake and he as well likes her... and i like tony but i dont know if he likes me at all!! its so confusing... well its hard to avoid flirting with tony.. and pretending that i dont care that hes with sammee.. so what should i do for now.. is okay to express feelings or should i hold them in untill they break up?! thanks for you help

you should talk to your friend about this.. tell her that you think her and jake should hook up but you maybe should add that you like tony more then friends.. and does your friend sammee have real feelings for this tony guy...?? much luv dez x0x0

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I dont know how to do very much with me hair and i want to learn how to do those twistie things so if someone could like give me a site or something with steps that would help me a lot thanks! x0

i love doing hair and doing twisties isnt that hard hun..

Well first divide the hair with some up and some down.. *keep bangs out or what not if you want*

Okay well part it into two sections..*the hair on top* ill tell you how to do it pullin it back first before tellin you how to stlye the twisties..

well part a small section from the front of the head to the end and make sure its not real real thick or it will look funny when you put a rubberband in.. gel or get the hair wet so its easier to twist and so it stays in good.. and start from the beginning and twist some in the front and work your way back and continue to add hair and you go back and when you get to the end dont twist the last bit and put the rubberband in.. and continue to do that til its all dont.. if you knw how to french braid its similar to that with adding hair to it.. and since youve never done it before maybe practice on a friends hair first cause its hard to practice on your own hair.. and do it wet for the first couple of times...much luv dez x0x0

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hey im 15, and i was wondering can teenagers get breast cancer? like on my left breast i feel like some bump or something but i dont know if its really a bump and it hurts a little in that area. i was wondering could that be breast cancer? im really worried and i want to know, if any of you know what can that be, maybe its just that my breasts are still growing or something i really dont know. please help me.

Well you can really get brest cancer anytime and at any age.. but hun your 15 they could be growing or it could be an allergic reaction cause ive had a bump in my chest and it turned out to be something stupid i was allergic to my wire in my bra.. but you should go to the doctor anyways..much luv dez x0x0

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In english class we're doing a project and we have to read it outloud. Last time when i was reading something outloud evry1 lauged at me! (Darn my squeeky voice) Anyways, i dunt want 2 read mine outloud! What should i do??

i get embarassed bout my voice too hun.. i usually ask the teacher if after class can i read it to just them and they usually let me to it.. cause usually the oral part is a grade too..much luv dez x0x0

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15/f i wway overdid my texting and so now i have to pay the bill its 300+ dollars and the only way i can pay for it is to get a job... right now im looking at sonic... but does any body know of any places that have jobs available for 15 year olds??

babysitting..cleaning.. much luv dez x0x0

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my best friend is pregnet. i dont know what to do. i know she wants to keep it but she hasnt even told her boyfriend and she wasnt going to tell me but i found the strip in her room. I'm afraid that she wont be able to handle it and that her parents will be mad if they find out I've known this girl since i was 7 and were 14 now and she is so young that her parents would probly just kick her out. i dont want this to happen to her and i dont know if i should tell anyone she's not ready to have a baby at all and she cant get enough courige to go tell somebody about it so now im realy worried about what will happen if she doesnt tell. should i just go ahead and tell ppl and make things easy or should i just let her do it her way?

Let her do it her way.. you dont wanna lose her friendship or trust she told you that as her best friend she dont want you runnin round tellin everyone.. keep it to yourself and maybe help her wanna tell people..much luv or she could be lien.. x0x0

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I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 3 monthes now, and we havent kissed yet... part of the problem is that i havent really found the time right, i would like a spot that (i know this may be kinda unlikly) but later on down the road maybe if i proposed to her, it would be the same spot... the other problem is that she never makes any "moves". The only times we talk is when i call her, (or at school) and the only times she ever calls me, is when she missed my call and is just returning it. Now a bunch of things are going on, and we are both a little buisier (sp) and really stressed out. We both have a really short fuse at the moment, and i know sometimes i can be kinda annoying. What should i do since we are both really, really competative, im affraid if i dont say it exactly right, it will turn into a fight, and i havent had one with her (or any girl) yet, but i really dont want to... so what should i say to her to kinda tell her i dont want to be doing everything in the relationship?

Awwww that is so sweet.. Um i dont know whats wrong with this girl if i had a boy as sweet and thought like that id kiss em in a heart beat lol.. but um i would stay the same way you are for her tho cause seems like nothing is wrong with you hun.. Well most girls like when guys make the moves.. and make sure it is special like you said thats so sweet *sorry had to say it again* but yea i would think also if you made the first move on that she'll make the first move on other things.. she probably isnt completely comfortable..much luv dez x0x0

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sometimes when i pop my pimples, they turn into dark spots. some of the dark spots last for like a couple of weeks, but others seem like they're permanent.

i'm currently using neutrogena vicibly even moisturize wit spf 15 and neutrogena acne mark peel, but they dont seem to be working well...

is there anything i can do or buy that will help me get rid of the dark spots faster?

oh and also, are they permanent???

thanks muchh

dont pop your pimples..much luv dez x0x0

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I am going out with this guy who is in 9th grade and i am in 7th. I only get to see him on sundays, wednesdays, and sumtimes on friday and saturdays. I call him everyday but he never calls me. He thinks i might be prude but i never know when the right time to kiss him is. i am not prude and i dont know how to get this through his head! HELP!! i rate high if you dont have an answer that says just talk to him about it!

Jus kiss him anyways its not that hard.. its your own time on when you wanna kiss him..much luv dez x0x0

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I have a bad attitude about school and i cant change it. I have alot of missing math assingmets, i don want to do them: they are super hard. I hate school, I would rather laze around all day...

whats the question......????

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well theres guy that i like like and were friends and yeah he flirts but then again he has a lot of friends that are gurls and well he flirts with them to but how do i find out if he likes me but what i was thinking since he's gradurating this year should i tell him at the end of the year that i like him but i think if i do than he'll just think that i was just another one added on to the list but what i fear most is that he's going to leave with my heart and i didnt do anything about it but then again i act like i do and he can pretty much see it in my eyes i think

you should tell him.. maybe evn before the year is over.. much luv dez x0x0

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what do you think about giving head do you think it is the rite thing to do I told my boy friend I would but I dont know if I am going to do something wrong what do yuo think about this whole siduation? PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVISE

If your comfortable with it then go for it.. our opinion doesnt matter..much luv dez x0x0

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I'm going punk/goth and I want to know some good make-up ideas. I have red hair and blue eyes and freckles if that helps. I also would like some ideas for a punky sounding name. Like Ember or something. Any ideas? Please help! Thanks. BTW, I can't wear mascara. I'm allegic or something...

Dark colors always work for punk gothic girls.. i like the names Kat Ivy and secret for punk names.. i dont know many punk people tho.. much luv dez x0x0

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ok i listen to like my chemical romance and then sum ska and i hate rap with a passion but like no one knows what ska is!!!!!!!! and that makes me sad :'( well i just wanted to know if yall knew what ska music was and if you know any good bands or if you know how to skank and are proud of it!!!!!! ----like me!!!

I have no idea what it is..and never heard of it..much luv dez x0x0

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hey i don't like kissing...i mean i hate it the last time i made out with a guy was a long time ago and i had been with him for 2 years so i was really comfortable with him.. now i feel like i'm gonna have forgotton how to do it and make a fool of myself..i really like my boyfriend and he asked me why i wont make out with him...idont' know what to do ..please help

Well thats something you cant exactly forget.. like riding a bike you might not do it for a while and then when you do it..it all comes back to you..

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