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Ok this is weird...well to me it is, About 2 weeks i had the most scariest dream of my life, it was during the morning and it was like 100' degrees outside... When i woke up my hands were beyond freezing, i didnt understand it because well since it was so hot out i was sweating and i was only in a room with one fan.... OK so heres what i want to know, all i know is that i had a wicked scary dream nothing else but then when i think about the dream i always see this one part in my head of a girl (not me, no idea who she is) screaming at the top of her lungs... and some guy (i only see him just standing there)but he has like a look of hatred on his face like hes a scary dude (hah) i only remember these 2 glimses... its a night and it just really bothers me because ill think of the dream at random times and then thats what i see.... ANY IDEAs on what this could mean??

hmm i'm not really good at bad dreams but i found this website on google.

http://www.freakydreams.com/freaky.htm

good luck!

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Since it's summer and school is gonna start soon I wanna get a killer tan by tuesday! I'm really white. Like as white as it gets, by /i can tan sum what easily. I wanan get really dark, as dark as I possibly can get. What should I do? Should I go out in the sun evening today, all day sunday, monday, and tuesday and then put on an artificial tan? If so, what tan should what tanning product should I use? And what type of product works best.. spray or a lotion? Thank-you very much!

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the best thing to do is go tanning in your yard er whatever when the sun uv is high. it's good around 3-4. so tan for abouttt an hour each day. so like tomorrow and mon tan for an hr er however long you need to but stay hydrated. i guess you COULD get an artificial tan, but to be safe you shouldn't, juss because it could make you turn orange rather than tan.

good luck!

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I've had a girlfriend for about 5½ yrs now and I really love her and all and I want to move our realonship up a bit and I don't know how. I was thinking about making love to her when it was the right time for her but im just afraid she won't be happy with my size. Were both virgins and I really don't want to hurt her. Do you think moving our realonship up a bit is worth a shot?
Also do you think 11 inches will really hurt a girl badly, especially if shes a virgin?

Please Be Nice I Rate 5's

it depends on your age and your religion i guess. talk to her about it. maybe she wants to too, but you have to be careful she doesn't take it the wrong way. i mean, the next step doesn't have to be sex. get her opinion on it.

good luck!

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Sometimes I have my days where I actually feel confident, but most of the days I have no self esteem whatsoever. I always compare myself to other girls, and I hate it. I know looks aren't everything, but it seems like I'd be happier and more outgoing if I just looked better. I already wear makeup, experimented with differenent hair colors and styles, and different clothes. But there's always someone who looks 348349x better than me, and it bothers me. (Even though it shouldn't.) Any suggestions on how to gain self confidence and quit comparing myself to other people?

every1 feels the same way you do. you probably won't believe this, but usually the girl that you think looks better than you, is usually thinking you er any1 else looks better than her. it's juss the way it works. to gain confidence you have to pick out your good points and flaunt them. every1 looks different and that's a good thing. plus, NO1 is really ugly. try different things to see what you like.

good luck!

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Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do?

talk to him and tell him how you feel. it's difficult seeing someone you love with someone else and 6 years is a really long time. maybe he was hurt by the fact that you wanted some time away from him and saw it as a break up. he probably wanted to make you jealous, because i don't see why he'd want another girl already since you guys have been together for 6 years. tell him you're hurt by the fact that he thought you guys were broken up and that he's with another girl already. if you don't explain how you feel, he'll never know.

good luck!

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hi well first of all i know some of you might think why in the world do you want to be a prep? and all that stuff but i dont care what you think if you are just going to like criticize me ok.

and people who are willing to help, how do i be like a prep?

i mean i know i kinda like talk like a prep and all that but i am Asian and stuff and i am not rich at all so i cant really go shopping at Holiaster and American Eagle outfitters and all that and this one person thought i looked like a devil worshiper. like what the heck! i am so not a devil worshiper... i mean i heard of someone telling me that i talk like a prep and everything but how do i really really look prep?

i really really need to be a prep...

its a survival of high school...and trust me, you dont know my school

i rate high for people who tries to help and if you mock me i report you and get you banned

i guess you can't really BE a prep but you can dress like one. you don't have to go to aero, ae, abercrombie, etc etc. there's stuff at jc penny and macys, and kohls, shirts like polo shirts, the collared ones, under 10$. they come in really cute colors too. try wearings bright colors and jewelry. you can get cheaper jewelry at places like cvs, eckard, walmart, etc. if you wear bright colors you'll stand out and see more "preppy".

good luck!

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I am so....depressed!!! I make a group for people who like Shaman King... then, many people joint my group... But... they don't do anything!!! They don't make any announcement... they don't make any discussion... the don't make any polling... Urgh!! They are so lazy to do anything!!! And I, I am the only person who makes announcement, discussion, and other things. They don't even care about the group!!! OH... how I hate them so much!!! They just want to join a group to make them look cool, but don't want to do anything for the group activity... So what do I have to do?? Please help!!! (And anyway, I always rate 5)

talk to them about it and tell them that they need to discuss and you get mad when they dont. they'll understand.

good luck!

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Hey! Well my hair straightner now is by Hot Tools, it's a ceramic plates one and it works pretty well, but I think it's time for a new one. Lately, this one hasn't been working that well. I've only used 2 hair straighteners in the past year and they're both identical. They used to work pretty well, but lately my hair is just not straight like it used to be. My hair is medium thick, and naturally wavy. Any recommendations for my new hair straightner? + Can you give me any websites where I can just buy it online?

Thanks in advance! I rate 5's.

i have this straightner, and my hairs soo curly and it helps REALLY good. its revlon and it has 2 ceramic plates. its not thick whatsoever, and thats why. it was 20$ anddd heres a website!


http://www.drugstore.com/qxp83783_334918_sespider/revlon_hair_appliances/perfect_heat_professional_ceramic_straightener_1_model_v062.htm

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condom packages always say that they are like 99% effective if used correctly and stuff, but in school we learned that since condoms are latex like balloons, they have tiny holes in them that sperm can swim through. wtf. how effictive is that?

they aren't that effective, but i dont think there's a great risk of it swimming through the condom itself. its more of a 50/50 chance but, it's not that likely. you still have to be extremely careful.

-hope that helped!

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I am kind of sad because all of my friends have a b/f and I dont...... I know it sounds child like but it has been this way for a year now... I mean I am not the best looking but I still want someone.... idk what I should do..... btw 15/female

hmm here's an idea. if you really do want a boyfriend, and all your friends have boyfriends, can't they help you find people? they're boyfriends probably know people that you could date. hang out with some guys. maybe that you juss met, er knew for awhile. see how you feel about them. go to the movies, mall, resturaunts, etc. you'll find someone.

good luck!

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so im 14/f and i got contacts like 2 days ago. and i start high school on tuesday. im gonna be a freshman anywho. i look like a total GEEK with my glasses on and the problem is i cant get my contacts in. but when other people put them in for me im okay. i can poke my eye and stuff but idk why i cant put contacts in. can some one give me any good tips on how you can put in your contacts?

i rate good.

i have the same exact problem as you! i can't get them in either, yet i can touch my eye. so my mom helps me..sad right? well, hectorjr[another poster] helped me so listen to him. he's good.

sorry that i cant help!

good luck!

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yess thats what i mean.. but i like this guy and im always there for him and i help him out. hes going through a tough time right now and im doing all i can. he just doesnt seem to notice it. i mean i no he knows i help but he doesnt do antyhing. i really like him. what more can i do for him to help him out and maybe possibly get him to like me .. ? thanks in advance

let him get through the tough time. be there for him when you need to be, but don't over-do it. once he's a little better talk to him about how you feel. i dont think you should do anymore, except tell him how you feel. it's straight and to the point. who knows, maybe he likes you too.

good luck!

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so i start school on tuesday and im gonna be a freshman. im a girl im 4'9 i have brown hair and green eyes. i dont know very many people i know like 6 poeple in the whole entire school. is there any way i can make friends fast? any tips or anything? i will rate high.

start making conversations. usually people don't like to be the first one to start talking, so you should. that way people will get to know you and start asking you to hang out and stuff, and begin to be friends with you. also, if you do only know 6 people, see who they hang out with. you could be friends with their friends and do stuff together. im sure you'll probably meet alot of people in your classes, or at lunch.

good luck!

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When I try to use task manager on windows xp by pressing ctrl+alt+del, a little gray box pops up and says "Task Manager has been disabled by your administrator." But I'm the only one that uses my computer and I never did anything to disable it. I did a search on how to fix this and followed everything step by step, but it didn't work. Has anyone else ever had this problem and if so, how did you fix it?

try going to properties. sometimes if you're playing around theres disable buttons. if not then you can probably get it fixed at a computer company.

good luck!

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I have a friend her names Sara my other friend who is really anoying!Is haten on us cuz me and sara are really tight.So how do i get Alicia to go away and ive already tried telling her to.What cannnnn iiiii ddddoooooo.I'll be sooo thankfull if you answer this question.Thanks!

hmm since you already tried telling her, the best thing you can do is try to find her a friend. hang out with her, sara, and then sum1 else. eventually you and sara can almost fade out while she can become friends w/ sum1 new. if that doesn't work then flat out tell her that you don't think you should be friends anymore.

good luck!

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my launch video player isn't working anymore. MTV.com videos aren't either. And the music on people's xangas. IS this only happening to me?
help!

i think it is juss happening to you..but you can try this for now.

www.videocodes4u.com

it has videos n stuff

good luck!

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14/f
okay well heres how it goes.. i really like this guy... and i mean hes noticed me and everything and were friends and i totally adore him... well once i was hanging out with him and his friends and they were all like "why dont you go lay down by your boyfriend" cause we were like all laying on the bed cause we were watching t.v. but anyways i was like hes not my boyfriend and my sister said the guy i liked made a really sad face.. so do you think i made a mistake saying that i just didnt want everyone to know i really liked him.. what should i do now.. i really dont know what to say i want to tell him i like him so how would i do that.. HELP*i rate*

if you really like him you should tell him exactly how you feel. yeah! its totally embarrasing and soo difficult to do, but what if there is something between you guys and you miss out on it? take it slow. maybe hint it off at first. definately go for it. even if he doesn't like you, he'll be flattered either way. maybe he does like you. you never know until you tell him.

good luck!

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ii went to a summer camp and met this guy... to keep a long story short, all we did was flirt and spend every min. with each other... we even kissed... ii really liked him... he gave me his number and it turns out he has a girlfriend... to him was it just a fling? please help ! btw im 14/f....

definately talk to him about it. maybe he thought that you thought it would juss be a fling too. let him know how you feel. i mean maybe he likes you enough to dump his gf and try a relationship with you.

good luck!

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ok i know main and hair shampoo is for horses,but if i buy it would i make human hair grow faster? and how fast? please i'll rate 5s if you could help!

that doesn't sound safe..

i wouldn't use it.

-hope that helped!

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ok i am becoming a freshman and i was wondering if i get a jansport back pack with one pocket and a 2 inch binder with that be enough or should i get a bigger back pack?? how big should it be? and what should the size of the binder me?? i dont want to carry a lot of stuff with me..lol.. thanks

jansport are GREAT for hs and they come in really cool styles. there's ones with 1 small pocket and then 1 big pocket, er 1 small pocket and 2 big pockets. either way stuff will definately fit. i think that 1 and 1/2-2 inches are good sizes, but it really depends on your teacher, because some are different. like the courses you take and what the teachers what you to have, but they'll be good. no bigger than 2, unless the teacher says so. we had to have a 3 inch last year for english, im a sophmore this year, and those are quite the hassle.

good luck!

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