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hey guys... im looking for a good deoderant that will accualy work for me.. like ive tried secret platinum protection but it doesnt stop me sweating.. theres like no odor but i just sweat and id like to get a new one before school starts... well pleaase help and thank you!

dove! use dove it's so good

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hey im a 15 female and i have brown hair thats pretty long a little below my boobs haha, its thick and when i let it air dry its wavy, but i can wear it either wavy or straight depending on what i want.. i have some layers and face framing but i wanted to try something new for the school year. i dont wanna get highlights or anything i am just looking for a new look so people will see a difference... and nothing too short because i have a oval shaped face and it wouldnt go good with it and i dont think side bangs would either... well thankss

try these websites-

http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/

http://www.hair-styles.org/fl1.html

http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/

http://www.beautifulhairstyles.com/

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okay so my friends going out with this guy and i started talking to him, ya kno bein nice and stuff and then we started to talk more and he is saying all this weird stuff that i should like come over cas hes lonely and he thinks his gf is going to break up with him.. but i was like no i wouldnt do that to her and yeah he keeps saying all of this stuff that is like flirting with me and im trying not to back but hes always like your being wierd and texting me and stuff... i dont wanna hurt my friend by telling her this, i just wish he would stop... what should i do please help

i think you're doing the right thing. he does have a gf, but talk to him about it first before you say anything to your friend. explain that he shouldn't be asking you to come over and stuff since he's in a relationship and if he was single it would be different. maybe you should juss ignore his texts and stuff, because he shouldn't be doing that.

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ever since I have had a bladder infection and they gave me a pll for it at the end of my period I get a yeats infection. I have went to the doctor and everything but still it comes back does anyone have any idea what to do or if something is wrong with me? I will rate high

i think that's normal. buy pure cranberry juice. it's nasty but it really really works. trust me on that one.

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well this is kinda hard butt.. well im only 13 and i hang out with a group of all different ages from 11 to 16 and i am the only one who is a virgen! i dont kno what to do alott of them lost their virgenity either when they were 10 or 13 and i dont kno wat to do because i like abcople of my friuends in this grouip as like a boyfreiend and they like me back but i donno wat to because theyr all like sex isa a good thing and its ok to do when ur littlew if u have a condoma dn im afraid they are gonna want me to do stuffwith them that iv nevber donte and i am so0o confuseed please help!

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i think if they are truly your friends that they'll respect the fact that you are a virgin. having sex is a huge thing, and a lot of people regret doing it before marriage. plus, there's so many stds now and chances of getting pregnant. you want your first time having sex to be meaningful. not juss because everyone else is doing it. talk to them about it. they'll probably understand where you're coming from.

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yea, its me again..I forgot to ask this..Well, i know that EvErYoNe argues and fights..Since i grew up in a family that everytime someone STARTED to argue, it blew out into a fist fight and cops coming and me getting hit, so everytime ANYONE at all argues, i get REALLY shaky, crying, and everything like that! I live with my dad now, i have for 3 years and nothing like this has happened before until now, or atleast i havent noticed it..Like a few weeks ago, my dad and step-mom got into a big arguement over something and i was in my room with the door shut, but i could hear them b/c they were only on the other side of the wall..and i know that this would NEVER happen b/c they're just not this kind of people, but since everything before happened, i was scared that they would hit each other and come after me and the police would come, but i know it wouldnt happen but i still get scared..can anyone give me any help on what i should do?? I really need help on this b.c its getting so bad that i actually hated them for a minute b/c i pictured it being my real mom..i got HORRIBLE flashbacks..Please help me!! :(

it's completely understandable that you feel this way from your past. you juss shouldn't worry, because it isn't going to fix anything. it seems like you've been in a lot of fights and everything came out ok right? it's not too likely to happen anymore. i think you should talk to your dad and your step-mom about it. they can probably help explain it. you will get flashbacks but worrying doesn't make them go away.

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Well, about 3 years ago, i moved from my moms house to live with my dad because my mom was a real bad alcoholic and abusive and i couldnt take it anymore..well i had a little brother there that i protected all the time when she would get like that and im still worried that since im not there to protect him anymore, is he still getting the same treatment as i was? And for some reason, everything is hitting me now..I'm starting to really miss everyone in that family, even my MOM! Now thats messed up especially after all the hell she put me through..Why do i miss her and everyone? and should i worry about my brother and do something? Should i go back to that just to protect him? B/c i feel soo giulty..I'm to the point now where i cant eat, cant sleep, and just start bursting out in tears for no reason b/c im worrying..For example, me and my friend were watching PNH and i starting crying b/c i guess i was thinking about it..What do i do..please, i need HELP!

you probably miss your family, because no one can replace them. yes, maybe your dad treats you better, and your mom treated you worse, but the point is no one can ever replace your mom er your dad, so of course you're going to miss her. i think you should take some concern in your brother and maybe talk to him about it. since you protected him in the past, he'll feel safe and trust you to talk about what's going on. if your brother is dangered, he shouldn't live with your mom. someone needs to talk to her to help her alcohol problem. it can get better if she gets help. i think that you should figure out what's going on with your brother first. you need a plan so that he'll be safe all the time.

good luck!

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i fell realli bad for mi twin sis.. she studys hard and dose all of her homework and dose everything she can to try and keep her grades up...she cant get above a C and then she looks at me i dont do my homework or pay atention in school or study for tets i guess on themm.. and i get straight A's adnd i wish there was something could do you kno.. if you have anyideas or advice pleaseee help i rate well!!!
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i think you should try getting her to study. ya know, maybe she can study with you er study with her friends. it helps a lot. you have to tell her that she juss needs to focus and concentrate and she'll do fine.

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hey. i babysit this cute lil boy who is four. he is very good and i want to have a nice way to reward him for helping me alot. he helps clean the table and goes potty by himself. does anybody know anything i could give him or treat him to when he is good?

try playing a cool game with him that you know he likes, er ask his parents if you can give him a certain type of cookie, candy, icecream, etc. maybe watch a video er something.

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well i go to school and my parents expect me to get high grades like they did or say they did when they were little but with me for some reason i dont get high grades and my parents hav been takeing my stuf away from me when i dont get high grades and i do apply myself to try to get high grades........help plz

hmm..juss study, focus, and concentrate. that's all you can really do. your parents probably think that you aren't doing your best and you can accomplish much more. juss do your best and focus on what you're doing during school. your grades will get better and make your parents happier.

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well i feel so left out of my family cuz somehow someone except for me is really smart. like my sister she was supposed to skip a grade. my brother is supposivly smart, i dont kno how but then my mom is smart and my dad is smart but with me i feel like i'm the only one in my family that is good at sports. it feels like everyone else is smart except me. and it shows. my parents just somehow show it. help me plz i dno wat to do

don't feel that way. everyone is technically smart in some way er another. find something you're good at. maybe a subject, sport, anything. that way you can shine in something different, and you'll fit right in.

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hi.. i have a twin sister and were idenicle.. this brings us close together and far apart.. she is 14 minutes older than me adn because of that she think sshe can boss me aroundd.. like she will be right next to the fridge and ask me to go and get her a soda or something like that and if i dont she gets really mad.. the otherday she threw a hairbrush at my head and i had a huge lump! dose anyone have any adivce dfor me on how to stop this from going on?

i rate well! =] ***((haily))***

i know a lot of twins that go through that. talk to her about it. obviously 14 mins isn't much. maybe try bossing her around to see how she likes it. if not, juss talk to her about it and explain how you don't like it much.

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my hair is a strawberry blonde with hair 2 inches down my back and its layered. I want a cute hairstyle. Do you know any websites I can look at hair styles?

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here's a good website-

http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/

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So, okay..to make a long story short. I'm 18, and recently was at a party, and had sex with this guy. For the first time, ever. We've been hanging out a lot lately, but it's only ever at a party. We don't always have sex. But, the last time we did, he stayed with me all night and cuddled. He tells me that he loves me. He says that he does because, he's lonely and I make him feel good, and that he has a lot to offer. He also says that it hurts when I don't say anything back. Which, I have huge issues with trust, and I'm not a complete moron. I'm a bit skeptical of it. He was in a relationship for two years, and it's been almost a year since they've broken up. The girl will fuck with his head and lead him on. He bitches about her a lot. So, I haven't really worked up the nerve to be like, "Hey..is this going anywhere, or do you still like her?" I know it's what I need to do. I was just wondering, if anyone else thinks that I'm just getting used, or if it seems like he does care for me, he's just afraid. He does say himself that he has trust issues, because she dumped him and started messing around with his friend. We sort of got in an argument last night, because I asked him, "Why don't you trust me?" And he just got up and left. WTF? I hate mind games. Someone help!!!

hmm..it seems to me that he's a little afraid to commit, which is understandable from his last relationship. you have to remind him that not every girl is like his ex gf, and that you do have trust problems too. juss let him know how you feel. i don't think he's using you, but you can never be sure with some guys. the best thing to do is to talk to him about it. he might juss need some healing time. i wouldn't ask him about his ex gf juss yet. wait a bit. if you guys seem to be getting closer, and he seems better, then ask him what he feels for you, compared to his ex gf. sometimes guys juss need time to think things out for themselves, if they think at all. don't think he totally doesn't trust you though. he probably does, but doesn't want to make the same mistake twice. as long as you guys gain trust with eachother, everything will be juss fine.

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im 15/f and my boobs have stopped growing since i was like 11.. but there really small! latly they have been soar does this mean their growing!? because im not having my period.. and im not getting my period soon becuase i got over it like a week ago.. so does this mean they are still growing? because this happens from time to time and it doesnt do anything = (

you have lots of time for them to grow. really, i don't think they stop growing till about age 20, so yeah. maybe since theyre sore er w/e that could be a sign.

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a couple of days ago i met this reallii hotttt guy named paul (hes 16 im 13) and hes so0o0o sweet and mi parents aprove of him and gthink he is thew nicest most helpful boy in the world and i thin he is my world and he likes me back and everything... butttt he has this long distance relationshipp that he says is nto going too well and he said he is like gonna break it off with herrr because like he dosent evr talk to her and he wants to go out with mee.. and stuff and we made out and stuff.. omg i feel so0o badd pleaseee give me adivce on thiss and i do not mind if its and or good i jus need some reactions and adviceee.. thankss a million and onee (I rate well)

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i think you should juss wait it out until he fixes things with the other girl. don't get involved anymore until they're totally over. if he decides to end their relationship and date you then juss see how it works, but make sure you tell him how you feel. you should get to know him a little better first though. i mean, he did cheat on the other girl..so watch him carefully if you guys do have a relationship together.

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okay me and my boyfriend had sex the other night it was about 3days ago. But no sperm came out! and we didnt use protection! no sperm came out and he didnt go all the way in so i am not sure if i have a chance of bein pregant or if i am pregant or wat please help!!!

since there wasn't any sperm, you probably didn't get pregnant. if you don't get your period then go get a pregnancy test to be careful.

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What is a good hair straightinger (sp?)? I have very thick hair and my conair straightinger just doesn't work for me and more. What's a good brand that will work for my kind of hair? Thank you in advanced.

i have a really good hair straightner. my hairs really really curly and i had conair..wow that was bad. i got revlon and it's really good. it's only about $23.00 and it's totally worth it.

http://www.thebuzzelectronics.com/item.asp?item_id=113858&refid=1015

the trick is the ceramic plates. any straightner with ceramic plates work really well.

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i've been goin out with this guy on and off for like a month and a 1/2. and he can be really sweet! but he was kissing me today and then a few min. later one of his good friends asked me out.. i feel bad 4 the guy (i wasn't going out with him when his friend asked me out)

wat do i do?

i don't think you should try anything with his friend, because i don't think you'd feel too great if you liked someone and your asked him out and he said yes. juss try the relationship with the guy you've been going out with. it could work.

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