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my sister
hi.. i have a twin sister and were idenicle.. this brings us close together and far apart.. she is 14 minutes older than me adn because of that she think sshe can boss me aroundd.. like she will be right next to the fridge and ask me to go and get her a soda or something like that and if i dont she gets really mad.. the otherday she threw a hairbrush at my head and i had a huge lump! dose anyone have any adivce dfor me on how to stop this from going on?
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You have two options. You can tell your an adult like your parents and ask them to help OR you can handle it yourself.
Try bossing er around so she can see what it feels like. If she says no she won't then tell her how you feel. It's only 14 minutes for cryin out loud!
If she doesnt listen to you when you talk wait until she asks you to do sumtin. Say no and if she gets mad just ignore her. Walk out of the room. If she follows you turn and tell her she is acting like a two year old (she is)
lol hope i helped!
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tell your parents or an adult...she cant do that to you...next time tell her "Why do you boss me around (even tho you kno why)!?!? Because your 14 minutes older than me?!?!? WOW! 14 MINUTES! Get over it and knock it off!" lol and just yell at her that you dont care if shes older than you...and wenever she throws something at you throw something back.....hope i helped bii!
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i know a lot of twins that go through that. talk to her about it. obviously 14 mins isn't much. maybe try bossing her around to see how she likes it. if not, juss talk to her about it and explain how you don't like it much.
good luck!
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hello. tell her how you feel. always express your feelings. also talk to your parents about it. next time she asks you for a drink dont get it. say get it yourself. just pbecause she is older does not mean she can boss you around. lay it on the line. let her know. your not gonna take it anymore. if that doesnt work get counselling for her. hope i have helped. please rate.
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Talk to your parents about taking her for counseling because she's always trying to boss you around.Don't let this keep happening to you she really needs help and for someone to teach her how to respect others even if there younger than her.Have you ever went up to her and told her to stop bossing you around?Now is the time to take action.Believe me she'll change for sure once she get's into therapy.
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tell your sis how you feel. say to stop bossing me around just because you are 14 minutes older than me! say that and if she does it again talk to your parents about it. they will understand and try to talk to her. tell them about it if she does it again. rate me high!!!
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STAND YOUR GROUND! i mean come on you dont want her to boss you around your whole life so start sticking up for yourself now! i know that she can be really mean to you like the hair brush insident but if you stand your ground and just tell her that your not her slave and stuff she'll stop asking you adventually because she knows your not gonna do it, but dont give in! Be patient while you do this because it will take time for her to come to her senses..but i really see no other way to get out of it except do what she tells you, which is stupid because no one deserves to be bossed around! i mean what is 14 minutes anyways! hope that helps! rate me if you wanna <3
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