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what to do..
Well, about 3 years ago, i moved from my moms house to live with my dad because my mom was a real bad alcoholic and abusive and i couldnt take it anymore..well i had a little brother there that i protected all the time when she would get like that and im still worried that since im not there to protect him anymore, is he still getting the same treatment as i was? And for some reason, everything is hitting me now..I'm starting to really miss everyone in that family, even my MOM! Now thats messed up especially after all the hell she put me through..Why do i miss her and everyone? and should i worry about my brother and do something? Should i go back to that just to protect him? B/c i feel soo giulty..I'm to the point now where i cant eat, cant sleep, and just start bursting out in tears for no reason b/c im worrying..For example, me and my friend were watching PNH and i starting crying b/c i guess i was thinking about it..What do i do..please, i need HELP!
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you probably miss your family, because no one can replace them. yes, maybe your dad treats you better, and your mom treated you worse, but the point is no one can ever replace your mom er your dad, so of course you're going to miss her. i think you should take some concern in your brother and maybe talk to him about it. since you protected him in the past, he'll feel safe and trust you to talk about what's going on. if your brother is dangered, he shouldn't live with your mom. someone needs to talk to her to help her alcohol problem. it can get better if she gets help. i think that you should figure out what's going on with your brother first. you need a plan so that he'll be safe all the time.
good luck!
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try to talk your mom into letting your lil bro live with you and your dad. it will make you feel alot better and you will be able to eat and sleep again. try it. i know you need help because my parents are divorced too. it is hard but i love my mom and my dad and my big brother all the same. try to tell your daddy how you feel. he will understand that you miss your lil bro and he mite do somthing bout it. trust me.
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hello. im not sure why you miss them. i guess you had a connection with them. even tho they abused you. anyways your brother is in danger. you have to tell your dad to go get him. tell him how you feel. express your feelings. go to the mall toshop. get it off your mind from time to time. or even get a mani and pedi often. hope i have helped. please rate.
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