okay me and my boyfriend had sex the other night it was about 3days ago. But no sperm came out! and we didnt use protection! no sperm came out and he didnt go all the way in so i am not sure if i have a chance of bein pregant or if i am pregant or wat please help!!!
TheOldOne answered Monday August 15 2005, 10:38 am: If a penis enters a vagina, and neither partner uses birth control, there's ALWAYS a chance of pregnancy.
Well, as long neither partner is sterile, of course. Which I assume isn't the case here. That is, I'm assuming that you're a menstruating female, and that your boyfriend hasn't had a vasectomy.
Men don't have to reach the point of ejaculation - or, as it's more commonly called, "cumming" - to produce sperm. Sperm come out from the penis almost as soon as it enters a vagina, but in relatively small amounts; this is called pre-ejaculate. You almost certainly wouldn't be able to see that fluid, but sperm ARE present and they CAN make you pregnant.
That doesn't mean that you *must* be pregnant, only that it is *possible*. And the odds are lower if he didn't ejaculate inside you. But the possibility is still there.
You have two options:
1) QUICKLY get and take the morning-after pill. That must be used within 72 hours of unprotected sex, and will prevent pregnancy. You'll need to speak to your doctor about getting it in most states.
2) Take a pregnancy test in a couple of weeks. They're cheap, easy to use, and very accurate.
From now on, you should *always* have safe sex, if you're going to have sex at all. Talk to your OB/GYN for information about your options, or to your doctor if you don't have an OB/GYN.
As always when I don't know the age of the questioner, I'll add that sex before 18 or so is a bad idea. Rather than bore you with all the reasons, though, I'll just give you a link to a previous answer I wrote on the subject. Please read it, if you or your boyfriend are under 18.
xomegaroni answered Monday August 15 2005, 10:25 am: since there wasn't any sperm, you probably didn't get pregnant. if you don't get your period then go get a pregnancy test to be careful.
Informant_Girl answered Monday August 15 2005, 9:52 am: All right, by sex, what exactly do you mean? Did he penetrate you? If there was penetration of any sort, even if he didn't get all the way in, there is a chance of pregnancy. And when you say, "no sperm came out", I'm not sure what you mean. Does that mean he didn't ejaculate? Please know that even without ejaculation, the male genitals release pre-ejaculatory fluids that contain a small number of sperm that CAN get your pregnant. So, from what you've said, there IS MOST DEFINITELY a chance that you could be pregnant. It doesn't mean you ARE pregnant, because it's never 100%, but there's a chance - there's ALWAYS a chance with unprotected sex, like you had, unless both or one of you are sterile. Don't panic. First of all, if you're feeling nervous, go out and buy three home pregnancy tests. Read the box - make sure their accuracy rates are somewhere in the high 90s - 95%-97% is acceptable. They don't have to be the same brand, but it would help. Take all three at about the same time. If more than one says you're pregnant, you're most likely pregnant. If only says it, go out and buy another few and test again. Pregnancy tests are not 100% accurate and the more you take, the higher the chances are that your results are accurate. If you're uncertain, consult a health professional. I wish you luck and for next time, consider going on the birth control pill or buying some condoms. This will save you from future headaches. [ Informant_Girl's advice column | Ask Informant_Girl A Question ]
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