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i'm going to a hawaiian party soon & i don't know what i should wear. i don't want it to really stand out (don't tell me i shouldn't, i don't ok??) and i just want it to kind of blend into what all the other girls will be wearing. what do you think everyone else will wear? it's hawaiian casual. what should i wear? where could i buy it?? thanks sooo much!!!
hmm hawaiin is fun. i went to some before. maybe you should see what other people are wearing. maybe a tank top, grass skirt, and a lei. that'd be cute! hmm to buy it..you can probably buy it at party stores like party city and places like that. maybe little shops like idk exactly. if you can check around to see what others are doing that'd be good.
-hope that helped!
ok well its been like to weeks sense ive had ex an we didnt use a condum an im afraid that im pregnnet im not going to get a pregnecie test because i have reasons why, but i know the syptoms but , could you not know your pregnat for like 3 weeks i mean when i go to the bath room i have white stuff on my underware an idk my friend told me thats because im pregnat an idk i just need help .. i know i shouldnt have had sex im a really goodi girl so dont judge my parents are into polotics , an if they found out that i was they would shio me off to bording school or somthing even worse so please help me??
wait until the time of your period. if you skip your period there's a really good chance you are pregnant. well, you are gonna have to tell your parents eventually, because obviously they'll see you growing. if you do it earlier its way better, but you need to be 100% sure you are pregnant. idk your reasons for not wanting the test, but if you skip your period, then there is probably a good chance. you will need to see a doctor soon so you and the baby stay healthy, if you are pregnant that is. talk to your parents asap.
-hope that helped
Hey! Please don't answer saying OMG YOU'RE ANEROXIA or how ever that is spelled.
I'm 15 5'4 female about 135 pounds. I'm not really fat but i'm not skinny, but i use to eat way to much. Like i was bored, so i grabbed a cookie. Lately i've stopped eating and only eat when im hungry. Unfortunaly, i took this to the extreme by accident. I realized today i hadn't eaten (it's 6pm) all day and i should eat, so i had cheese and crackers and now im really full. I honestly hadn't realized how hungry i was. im afraid my body is going to go into starvation mode if i only eat once a day and make me fatter/ is that true? or is eating light once or twice enough to keep it satisfied and use the calories i eat?!
sorry to say but that's true. 5'4 and 135 lbs is actually almost right on. if you don't eat breakfast you do gain weight, because you don't burn calories. you need 3 meals and usually 3 snacks. by not eating you aren't burning calories either. juss eat all 3 meals and 3 healthy snacks. fruit, veggies, crackers, etc.
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How do I show or tell my boyfriend how much I love him?
hmm..you can show him by making him something! like a huge card, er a scrap book. maybe take him places he likes for dinner er something. dates. umm if you're good at poems/songs write him one. you juss need to see what he likes/enjoys.
-hope that helped!
So I'm getting my hair cut soon, and I am sooo excited! Right now my hair is almost 3 inches past my shoulders, and I wanna get it cut so that it sits right on my shoulders, with side-swept bangs (similar, but not identical to Kristin on Laguna Beach, and no, I'm not being a dumb wannabe). Do you think that sounds cute? (I'm a natural blonde, and am sooo sick of long hair, I had it for about 4 years.) Anyway, I was wondering if you guys could tell me some sites or post some links to photos of that haircut so I could show my stylist lady exactly what I want. Hope you can help!
here's a few-
http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/
http://www.1001-hairstyles.com/
http://www.matrix.com/find_your_hair_style/
http://hairstyles.free-beauty-tips.com/
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my bf and i just broke up. i think i like him still but he's treated me badly the whole time we've been together. i found out that he never really liked me in the first place and was juz doin that till he got another gf. what should i do about my feelings for him?
yikes he doesn't sound nice whatsoever. you have to move on. obviously he seems like a jerk and you can do way better. try going out with your friends and meeting guys. some good places would be like the movies, minature golf/putt putt, bowling, dinner, etc.
good luck!♥
would it be considered taboo.. or incest for me to date my brothers fiances sister? i mean there is no blood connection.. hmm please help.. i dont knwo what to do
definately not taboo er incest. since you guys aren't blood related it isn't much. now if you were, that'd be different. basically it's through marriage, so go for it if you feel comfortable with it.
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ok well i got put in one class with the guy i like and i told this one girl i liked him and i was soooooo stupid to tell her cause she CANNOT keep a sercret at all and she is so annoying and im in 3 classes with her what do i do? and my "friends" asked me to sit with them at lunch but i said idk bkuz i dont really want to i want to sit with other people and make new friends and they are putting really gay people at our table and i want to say if there is enuff room ((kuz its 5 on one sdie and 5 on the other)) to invite the girls who i want to sit with over so what do i do?? cause they might have a big group
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hmm..i'd sit with your old friends and tell the girls that you already have people to sit with at lunch. if you don't really wanna sit with them you don't have to. i think you should pick where you wanna sit and stuff and where you're comfortable. maybe you can suggest getting tables next to eachother so that you can sit with your friends, but next to their table so you guys can probably talk a bit.
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15/f okay this is gonna be sorta long, so im sorry... but me and my bff (or exbff) are not talking anymore... the guy i like (he likes me to, just hasnt gotten around to askin me out...) decided to talk to her and get her to stop botherin me... she decided she wanted to talk to me last night and called my house... and my phone curfew is at 10, she called at 12...adn i was still on the phone w/the guy i like... now my mom is really pissed and said that i dont need to be talkin to him anymore!! is this fair?? and if you dont think it is (because i shure as heck dont think so!!) what should i tell her... im the oldest child... and i know i want to tell her to stop treatin me like im only an expiriment... which is exactly how she treats me... umm but what else should i say!! please help!!
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talk to your mom about it. it's not fair that she said you can't talk to him anymore, but maybe you should juss try to respect your curfew so that you can still talk to him, but not after 10. maybe you guys can make a deal with eachother er something so that you and your mom both get what you guys want. ask her if you can stick with the curfew, but still talk to him. i mean talking to him until 10 is better then not at all right? tell her how you feel. maybe she doesn't realize she's treating you that way. juss talk to her and things will fix.
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Hey. I'm so close...so close to killing myself. Everyday I have to FIGHT not to, its the hardest thing i've ever done. My mom knows... im seeing 3 colnsulars.. but nothing helps. Nothing at all makes me want to live anymore. It hurts to talk, it hurts to smile... I've stopped doing everything i used to love. Nothing can make me happy. I don't want to hurt my friends though, their the only ones keeping me from..ehh. If you cant help me, please do..
you shouldn't kill yourself. look, things can take a turn for the better, because you never know how life works. i'm not sure if you have a religion er not, but things can change day in and day out. i mean you can kill yourself, and then who knows, maybe a week after would've been the best for you. you need someone there to help you. try finding things you enjoy. stay strong!
good luck!♥
Okay, my brother moved to North Carolina with his gf and his friend [for school] And I met his friend's brother. He's a couple of years older than me. He was visiting them in North Carolina the same time I was and we slept on the couch together and watched tv almost everynight. I think i like him, but I wanna know if he likes me too. He's kinda shy though, so I don't know how to exactly like bring it up and talk about it. It kinda gets me nervous. I have his screen name though, and next year we're going to go to the same school. What should I do to approach him with this?
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try to hang out with him once school starts. talk to him online er phone, w/e you want, and maybe you guys will be more comfortable with eachother. if your friendship grows with one another, then hint it you like him. if that doesn't work then you gotta tell him and ask him how he feels about you as well. i'm sure if you guys become closer friends though it'll be easier for you. hang out, go to movies, dinner, minature golfing/putt putt, bowling, etc.
good luck!♥
Alright, there's this kid that I've known for like more than a year. I met him when I went over one of my best friends house. He lives like next to her. So we would always go over and chill with him and his sister. We have sooo much fun. But the other night I decided to sleep over his house. So we stayed up all night and we kinda cuddled and he knows I like him a lot, but he won't tell me how he feels. Like from the other night I have a feeling he likes me, but I wanna know for sure. What should I do? I like really like him and I see him and talk to him a lot. Also I can be myself around him.
Please help, I rate high for good answers.
since you can be yourself around him, ask him how he feels and explain how you feel. maybe you guys can get together once both of your feelings are straight. if you never ask you'll never know.
good luck!♥
what are some quotes for not feeling perfect enough? some good original ones..
here's a whole bunch of different kinds!
www.firehotquotes.com
-hope that helped!♥
what does drinking 8 glasses of water do for you? like will it help me lose some wieght?
hmm i'm pretty sure that it helps you lose weight, juss because it washes off bad calories you don't need and keeps it clean. i guess if you drink too much though you can get pretty sick. here's a website-
http://kidshealth.org/kid/stay_healthy/food/water.html
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to lose stomach fat, is walking the same as running? im not very good at running and i really want to lose my stomach fat so can i just walk? will walking help me lose my stomach weight?
walking isn't really the same but it can help you lose weight. running does it faster i think. here's what you can do!
-basketball! yes there's some running involved but you can take breaks and what not
-jogging/walking mix it up a bit, maybe throw in some running with it
-swim if you can, indoor er outdoor
watch what you eat.
-sleep 9/10 hrs every night
-eat all 3 meals especially breakfast
-eat 3 snacks, maybe every 3 hours, but it has to be healthy like fruits, veggies, crackers, etc
-then exersize 1-2 hrs
-hope that helped!
Sorry it's so long, I just desparately need help. I e-mailed my crush at the start of June about how I felt about her (yes, its me again) and she said she liked me as a friend. It was actually kind of funny, every other word was "sorry." So, anyways, I've been thinking about her ever since. If you don't know what I mean, look up the lyrics to "The Longest Time" by Billy Joel, it perfectly describes me. Well, I recently e-mailed her again saying that I just can't stop thinking about her, and how right she feels to me. A week later, after a lot of stress that I'd been through, she replied that she had been away for a while with no internet access, and that she had been thinking about me the whole time, and she didn't know if what she had previously said was true. However, she had to clear up her current relationship, as it's already pretty much over, and then once she's done with it, she'll update me again. And so I'm really happy, because why shouldn't I be? I've been thinking about her non-stop for months! But then I find my eyes tearing, and I'm still practically crying right now, fifteen minutes later! Why is this? Because I just found out she's in another relationship? Couldn't be that, because she said that relationship is practically done for! Is it tears of joy? Doesn't feel like it.
Then there's my parents. I told my dad about it last night, and he acted like it was no big deal. Ya know why? You see, I'm a really late developer, so my voice hasn't changed yet, and because of that, he doesn't think it's very serious, but I know it is!
Ah crap, I'm seriously crying now, and I don't even know why! Please, Advicenators, help me fast! (Also tips on first dates are welcomed and encouraged!)
hmm..you're probably feeling mixed feelings. maybe you're happy that she was thinking about you, but not too happy that she had a relationship before? maybe you're afraid something will go wrong between her current relationship and the one you guys might have? i don't know, but it seems to me like things will work out. juss give her a bit of time and everything will be good. for a first date, try something simple and comfortable. dinner, movies, bowling, minature golfing, etc.
-hope that helped!
Hey what would you get a guy for his sweet 16th? I haven't known him very long, only about 2 years, and we don't see each other very often, so it can't really be a memorable sort of thing. He likes basketball, and basically most sports. He listens to R&B and hip hop and that sorta stuff; his favourite shows are The OC, Will &Grace, 70s show, and Paradise Hotel. I'm thinking of getting him a CD or a gift certificate, what do you think? If it's a gift certificate, how much money should I put on it and it will be appropriate? And what store should I get? He wears like..Phat Farm, Rocawear, Timberland, Adidas, Nike, and you get my drift. Btw I live in Ontario Canada if that helps with the stores. Are there any other suggestions of what to get him?Thanks.
i think a gift certificate is a good idea! that way he can buy whatever he wants and you don't have to worry about his size, er what he has er what not. is there a mall he likes? maybe you can get him a mall certificate. maybe about 35$ er something. 40$ at most.
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hey um i like this guy and he has a girlfriend but he said if he dumped his girlfriend he would go out with me but he said he didnt lie me enough to go out with me!!!!!!! so should i get over him or keep tryin???????????
if he has a girlfriend, get over him. when he wants a relationship with you, he'll come to you. juss give it sometime and try to meet some new people. maybe you'll find someone else.
good luck!
how do you get over boys? i was with this guy for 7 months, we never officially dated but it was known that we were together. we had a sexual relationship and i fell for him big time. he suddenly started fooling around with his ex girlfriend behind my back and told me that he never really liked me to begin with. we hadnt had sex until about 8 days before we split and so he had no reason to keep me around to use me. he wasnt getting any benefits for staying with me for 7 months because i never really "did" anything for him. i know hes in denial that he never liked me. once i found out about him and his ex girlfriend (he never told me, my frined did) i decided to stop talking to him completely. i havent spoken to or seen him in 2 weeks. i unfortunatly cannto stop thinking about him. any advice...i know this was long sorry ill rate high
you need to get over him. you'll find many guys that'll treat you better and he obviously isn't one of them. try meeting new people. once you become friends with more guys you'll probably find a few you'll like more than friends. you did the right thing by not talking to him anymore, because he'll probably juss end up hurting you again. try meeting people and getting out. see what other guys have to offer.
-hope that helped!
My borfriend and I's aniversary is coming up soon and i want to get him something realy specail but i don't want to spend a lot of money.. any ideas?
i'd get them one of those huge anniversary cards. they're really cute and fun to write on and stuff. maybe make him a scrap book of your relationship. something like that.
-hope that helped!