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Ok so me and my bf have sex like everytime we are together. Its not that I dont like it or anything like that but I would like to ave a great day with him with having to have sex. Is there something wrong with that? And how can I tell him this without making him feel bad?
Talk to him, and tell him that you love him and stuff but you want to take it down a notch. Tell him that you just want to take a little break for a day or two and go somewhere and just talk. You can tell him that without making him feel bad but don't like, start yelling at him and stuff. There's nothing wrong with slowing things down a little. Remember, communication is a key part in any relationship.
Hope I helped.
♥ SiMA
Hey, I let my baseball glove sit around for about 3 years. Now it has mold on it. It was a really exspensive glove, so I don't want to throw it away, but I do not know how to get the mold off of it. PLASE!!! How can I get the mold off the glove without destroying the glove, and dont give me ne sarcastic answers
thanks
14/m
Hmmm. Well, I'm not sure of what to do, since mold is really tough to get rid of. The only thing that I can think of is to put some bleaching solution on your glove, but that will take some of the color away. Maybe you can put a patch over the bleach spot. There's nothing else I can think of.
Hope I helped.
♥ SiMA
is it true drinking a lot of milk will help your boobs grow?
im not sure; somebody started spreading a rumor about it in my school, thats all.
No, thats wrong.
Nothing can make them grow, unless you get augmentation or other plastic surgery.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
I'm foureen female. Here's my problem: I like my best guy friend, but I don't know how to tell him I want a more than friends relationship. He waits for me after classes, when I'm scared he calms me down. He really isn't like that to anyone else. I mean there have been times where we've come close to kissing. We always hint and stuff too it's just he hasn't made a move, and I really want him to. So does anyone know cirtain things to say or hints to drop to get a guy to make a move? I'll rate five.
There's this technique called mirroring. You copy his moves, basically, like a 'mirror'. So, if he runs his hands through his hair, do the same. If he crosses his arms, do the same. You get the idea. If there is a local band playing or a carnival soon, then ask him to it! I bet he already knows that you like him, and you obviously know that he likes you. Just go for it!
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
well, I lost my virginity to someone that I knew I wasn't going to have a relationship with yet we were friends and I care about him. Yet he's older than me and doesn't think its a big deal... Anyway to cope with the hurt?
btw.. I'm 15---the guy is 18.
Most guys are just in it for the sex. To cope with the hurt, try getting counseling. Maybe if you're stressed, you can take a nice calming bath every night before you go to bed and think happier thoughts. It's already happened, and you can't change anything in the past, so you have to just move on and forget about it.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
well me and my friend where arguing which name is hotter, better (don't ask me why)
so i want you guyzz opinon so we can finally settle this whole thing. which name is hotter amy or pam..why? thanxx a bunch will rate high
I think Amy is cute. But, Pam is better. EVERYONE has Amy.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
Does AcneFree help clear up blackheads too, or just pimples. Kthanks =]
You should read the tube and see what it says. If it says pimples, then its pimples, if it says blackheads, then its blackheads. But if it just says like 'acne cleanser' then its mostly pimples.
Try Clean & Clear Blackhead Clearing Scrub. It should be in a dark blue tube with white writing. It works pretty good compared to the others that I've used.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
im going to california for 5 days on the 28th of june
and i have a little bit of bacne (acne, on my back)
mostly on my shoulders, but it is so embarrissing
i dont even like wearing halters
but like, around my friends, i dont care
but im going to a beach, with hot guys, and since its vacation, im not looking for "someone who likes you because of your personality" blah blah
so, any quick fixes for ance?!
(i have it on my face too)
Wash your face regularly with soap and water. Try using an unscented soap, or like Dove, for example. None of that flowery stuff because most of the time, it doesn't work. When you're in the shower, wash your back also, since most people don't usually do that, and they just wash their hair and stuff. Make sure that you're mantaining a healthy diet. Try to cut out fatty/greasy foods, that can contribute to your acne.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
I've realised I have depression and I desperatley need to talk to someone.
I know who i can trust (its a teacher) and I'm so scared because Im not an open person, I cant talk about my feelings easily.
I've tried to go to the counsellor at college but I cant walk into the room.
Anyway, how can i talk to the teacher?
What do i say to begin the conversation?
You can say 'Well, lately I've been stressing and I'm pretty sure that I have depression. Can I talk to you about it?' and if he/she says yes, then don't be afraid! Don't let your feelings bottle up, it will make it worse. The teacher is there for a reason, and if you feel like you can trust him/her, then just let everything flow.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
okay you know those things that are sent to your house and i guess there was an ad for proactive and it said it was only 19.99 +tax. okay well i have a couple of questions.. well its regularly 45.00+tax but why is it 19.99 now? like is it on sale or they just lowerd the price? and also one more question.. you know how when u buy it and it like signs you up into the program and will send you proactive for like every other month or something, what if i dont want it? what do i do?
45 dollars? I've only seen 19.99. You can order shipping by express mail for free. If you chose any other shipping, then that might affect the price. But its regularly $19.99.
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
what eyeliner color brings out dark brown eyes? does blue eyeliner do that?
Blues, Greens, Browns, Mauve.
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♥ SiMA
Got any good summer music? California songs? 5.5.5.5.5.5.5.5.5.5.5.
"Californication" by Red Hot Chili Peppers
"Dani California" by Red Hot Chili Peppers
"California" by Hawk Nelson
"California" by Weezer
"California Sky" by Unwritten Law
"Hotel California" by The Eagles
"California" by Phantom Planet [OC theme song]
"Beverly Hills" by Weezer
"Going Back To Cali" by LL Cool J
"California Love" by 2Pac featuring Dr. Dre
Hope I helped!
♥ SiMA
My friend has always dated someone younger than herself. And she is again. And liking it. And she is a freshman in highschool and is dating this 8th grader. And just today she told me that she might be pregnant. But shes really not sure: they did it once two weeks ago and they were protected and all, but the numbers say that condoms dont work all the time and she hasn't gotten her peroid.
Could having sex just mess up the time it comes? Or is it more likely shes pregnant?
Thanks.
She should probably buy a pregnancy test to be sure. Condoms work about 97% of the time, so she shouldn't worry much. Her period can skip around a little, but if it hasn't come to her in a really long time, she should go to the Obgyn just to be sure.
♥ SiMA
Okay, I know you get a lot of questions about 14 year-olds and jobs. But, I need to know some places you can work at 14. You have to know FOR SURE. Because some said McDonalds when that is 16, and others too.
Like I'll try baby-sitting, like I have babysat before, but I don't think that people will leave there kids with a complete stranger and such. Especially since I don't know CPR ect.
I want to get a decent salary and no volunteer work. But, please list jobs that you know FOR SURE.
Sorry, if I come off as rude.
I'll rate 5's no matter what.
I started babysitting. I have babysitted kids for about 2 years with my cousins when they were little. To tell you the truth, most parents don't care about the CPR stuff, but it would be a nice extra thing to say. I started out when I was 13, and all I did was put up flyers, and I already got a call within the next day.
Some other things that you can try:
- Dogsitting
- Raking Leaves
- Car Wash
- Tutoring [you can tutor children in math, science, ect. that they are struggling with]
- Teach a foreign language [Spanish, French, German, ect. you can teach children, teens, adults]
editt - What Brit said is right, when I went to San Diego, I saw dozens, I mean DOZENS of kids on every block holding up signs advertising new condos. Most of the time, they just listen to their MP3's or just dance around. I asked the guy that was holding one if I could dance around with it and stuff. It was so fun! Haha.
♥ SiMA
My boyfriend and i have been dating for 5 wonderful months. he is the best, and i cant even describe him. though the other day, he talked to me about engagement, which i am quite excited for. though me and him would have to keep it on the downlow for i am going to be 16 and he will be 18. he isnt going to ask for awhile yet(falltime or beyond that time, hes thinking), he just brought it up because he wanted to see how i felt about it. i actually feel wonderful about it and i feel very ready. i love this man with all my heart and have never felt this way about someone before. i dont have much of a family, but him and his family makes up for it. im not reallt needing advice, cause i know id say yes in a heartbeat, but am i crazy for being excited at 16 y/o and i know it will be easy to hide from my parents because i hide everything from them, but is this a ridculous decision?!? thanks alot
Aww. That's so sweet! Make sure that you think about it first, and not just run into ideas. Make sure that you TRULY love him. If so, then go ahead! You only have one life, LIVE IT!
♥ SiMA
My Dad has a great job oppurtunity that he just accepted & that means I have to move about 14 hours away. Don't get me wrong, I'm really happy & kind of excited to get a chance to start over but I'm kind of scared. I've never moved before... I just started at a new high school this year as a freshman but I had a lot of people I knew around me. I don't know what to do! I've worn uniforms to school my whole life & next year I'll be at public school...I have no idea how I would dress! Can someone relate or help me out? I'm 15, female, soon to be sophomore. I'm moving to the Princeton, NJ area. Thanks!
Get to know people! Remember, there are new students are your new school also, you're not the only one!
For clothes, have you tried Wet Seal? They have a variety of clothing, and I love their stuff.
wetseal.com
Wear whatever make you feel comfortable, don't wear supertight jeans and a halter to make others like you, people will think that you're a skank.
I can relate because I've had to move a LOT. Just get to know others, don't be afraid to ask questions, and be a part of some extracurricular. [yearbook, dance commitee, choir, track].
♥ SiMA
Is it normal not to masterbate? Becuase i am 15/f and i have never done it.
You are perfectly fine. There is no certain age to start masturbating. It's a personal decision that only YOU can make.
♥ SiMA
did the "skinny jeans" phase originate in the fourties/fifties or the eighties?!
It's the eighties.
I need a creative idea. How do I ask the girl of my dreams out on a date. But first of all, what things should I say to her, just a few tips that will melt her heart? I know that there is'nt that much you can do to melt her heart, but can you honestly think of a way of using body language to attract her to me. What the hell do I do? I rate 5's
Im 15/m and nearly 16.
Write her a poem!
You can talk about fun times that you've experienced over the school year with her, when you first met her, ect. If you play any instrument, like a guitar, then you can write her a song.
You can also smile at her, and if she smiles back, then thats a good sign. If she frowns or turns away, then it probably won't work out.
Touch her arm gently when you're talking to her. Put your arm around her when you guys are walking. She'll get the message.
can u go swimming with your period light.
and not wear a tampon?
i'll rate 5's
If it's light, then you shouldn't worry about it. You should probably wear a tampon just incase. If you're not used to tampons, you can get a smaller sized one designed especially for first time users or beginners, some say that menstruation stops in the water, but you should probably try 'junior' or 'slender' tampons anyways just to be on the safe side.