I want to dump my boyfriend...and yes I have my reasons. He asked me if I would go to the movies with him this Friday. And I said I would, but since then I have decided I want to dump him. I don't know what to do now though. Because I went with him to the movies last week and he thought I got mad at him there. But I didn't. His friend told me that my boyfriend was shy last week and he wanted to give me a kiss and everything but he was to shy. And he was going to this Friday. I need advice on what to do, because there is another guy that I want to go out with, when me and my boyfriend break up. I'm not sure if I want to dump my boyfriend before or after the movies. What do you think?
I think maybe after, so you are definitely sure that you want to end your relationship with him. I'd maybe wait a week to go out with the other guy so he doesn't get his feelings hurt, but I guess thats life lol. Good luck! ♥
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I need to know some colleges CLOSE to New Jersey, New York..That area.. That you can get into without Straight A's
Hey- I know of one near me- Bergen County Community College in NJ, I heard it's a pretty nice school and I don't think its alot of money. Good luck! ♥
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What are some stores with high quality and low price?
Delia*s
Macy's and JC Penney's when they have sales
Rue 21
Forever 21
Charlotte Russe
Hope I've Helped! ♥
I've got more.. www.bodyc.com is awesome too, just if you want anything else, send me another question and I'll give you my AIM SN!
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14/f ok ive liked one guy and only one in my whole life.. we went out before but barely talked it was pretty stupid and now he has a g/f.. guys have asked me out and theres nothing really wrong with them.. i just cant because i always want to be open for him.. i dont want to be this way forever, always wanting him.. how am i supposed to get over it?
Hey- aw! Well, there's not way of getting over your first love COMPLETELY, but you will move on.. but just remember- if it's meant to be, it'll happen. Give it time, try mingling with new guys, maybe you'll find a great guy [BETTER than anything you would expect] Good luck and if you need anything, just contact me! ♥
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A friend of mine is having trouble finding a date to the prom. She has even asked most of her guy friends. All of them are either taken or dead-set against going. I suggested to her kidnapping and blackmail already so please do not inform me of those options. My question is, what should she do?
Okay, well are you going with a date? It's okay not to have a date, even if you do have a date, you guys can go as a group of friends, I know tons of people who do that! You don't need a date to have a great time at prom- mix and mingle and dance with the people that you've had memories with- even if they have dates too! The thing is to just enjoy yourself and have a great time with the people you've been in school with. Hope you and your friend have a great time at prom! ♥
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O.k i'm 14/fm and live in Texas. I want a b.f. so badly, but none of the boys at my school like me cause i have braces, and i'm 5ft 2inch. I've had boyfriends, but they were'nt very much true b.f.'s. I'm always told by a friend or something that i'll never have a true b.f. that actually likes me, cause they eather say i'm not pretty enough or i'm not smart enough. My dad says i'm pretty, and i get all a's in my classes. How come guy's still don't like me. Maybe a guy could answer this question for me. Thanx lots.
Love- Lacey P.S. i give people who answer nicely 5's.True answers to please.
Hey! To start- I have to say I ADORE your name lol! It's so pretty. Anyway, actually, in Jersey, braces aren't a big deal with looks. Don't worry about them. You WILL find a great guy one day don't worry, you're only 14 so you have ALOT of time! I'm sure your pretty, and just tell yourself "I am the most goregous person in this room" and believe it! It's a great confidence booster. Wear cute clothes, nothing over the top. Congrats on those grades too! Keep in touch, and if you need anything, contact me [even tho I'm not a guy, I hope I answered your question well!] ♥
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I feel bad about myself sometimes because I'm skinny yet I don't look all that great. I want to feel better about myself and also look better. How is it possible?
I know it might sound lame, but tell yourself that you are the most goregous person in the room, and believe it! It's a great confidence boost. As for feeling better and looking better, treat yourself to a cute outfit and maybe a lipgloss. Works every time for me ♥ If you want some names of stores to shop at, just contact me!
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okay, so there is this guy that won't leave me alone. i mean i wanna be friends with him, but he wants to be my girlfriend. I am really starting to hate him. i was talking to him in aim and he kept saying things like "i love you," or "okay, see ya girlfriend". i kept telling him to stop, but he WON'T! arrggggggggggggggg!
please help me b4 i kill him!
Tell him "Look, I know you like me and I don't know how many times I have to tell you this without completely hurting you- I'm flattered that you find me attractive, but I'm not attracted to you like that." If it doesn't work [it should] block him LOL! ♥ Good luck!
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heres my problem. whenever i start to like a guy, i get really excited about it and tell ALL of my friends. then it usually turns out that the guy doesnt like me and ive been humiliated in fron of my friends. how can i keep my love life to myself?
I have two people that I can confide in and don't feel embarrassed with.. but before I did, instead of telling my blabbermouth friends I used to write in a journal. It's much better, it's like talking to someone, as lame as that sounds, but you don't have to share it with the world. Good luck! ♥ and I hope I've helped!
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i like this guy hes a great guy but hes a big flirt. well i want to no wat kind of things i should go to flirt bac with him. i mean like this girl was talking about this game called nervouse where u touch his leg and move up until they say nervous and it worked and i was wondering what other kind of things can i do to flirt with him and like name kind of things like that girl did because it really helped
Just.. be yourself! There's no fool proof method guide to flirting- it has to come at that moment.. naturally, lol. But don't let him try feel up your leg or whatever if you aren't comfortable, but if you are I guess that's okay lol. Lipgloss and skirts make most girls feel well, flirty and girly, so try it, and I'm sure your inner flirt will come out! ♥ good luck!
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I'm really into fashion and stuff but i don't know what stores have the hottest clothes!! Fill me in!!
Hey! I'm a total fashion ADDICT, I live FASHION lol! Here's some sites with my commentary on them.
www.shopkitson.com and www.! &shopintuition.com < If you have extra to splurge, celebs like Paris and Nicky Hilton shop here, the stuff is COMPLETELY adorable.
www.shopbob.com < adorable stuff! a bit on the more expensive side.
Inexpensive and Trendy ...
www.alloy.com
www.delias.com
www.gojane.com > I don't recommend, yet trendy stuff.
AND OF COURSE...
WWW.REEL-STYLE.COM > has basically every hot show on tv and where to buy the clothes or something similar.
Believe it or not, EBAY has cheap Juicy Couture stuff and it's brand new, so check Ebay out too!
Want any more sites? I have LISTS of them in my favorite list, so just contact me hearts;
PS .. GOOD "MALL STORES"
Delia*s
Forever 21
Bebe
Nordstrom
Macy's
JCPenney's
ARMANI EXCHANGE ♥
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Yesterday my b/f thought i was mad at him which i wasn't. today he started being really sweet. he was walking me to all my classes and everything..(he used to sometimes but not all the time like today). Before his lunch and one of my classes he said "c'mon forget about your friends we need some alone time." and we started walking down the hall and he grabbed my hand. :) Now my question is do you think he just said that or do you think he really wants the time alone with me, because he was talking to his friend as we were walking
I think that he probably really means it! He sounds like a really sweet guy who isn't embarrassed to show his real affection to you infront of people. You are very lucky to find this type of guy- alot of people are super embarrassed around their friends to hug, hold hands, talk in general. Good job in finding a caring guy, and I hope my advice helped!
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I have tons of cousins but one of the families-which i am closest to live in NY. There are 3 Vayia who is out of college owning a dance studio, Karin who is a sophmore in college and Stefanie who is a senior in high school. I'm in eighth grade and i have 2 older siblings. Whenever we go to visit them they always butt me out and hang with my sister the whole time. Obviously it's because they are closer in age but i want to hang out with them. Everytime i go i try and act more mature but they still leave me out. Help me
They probably look down on you as "the little girl". They also probably don't realize what they are doing, so you should really tell them that your not a little kid, and you'd love to join them. Most likely, they probably don't know that their hurting your feelings. Or, you can try inviting them to do something with you that's really fun, and they'll see what a great person you are! Good luck! ♥
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my bf is gone to vegas for a week and i hvaent talked to him 4 2 weeks i dont know what could have happened in vegas. he told me to email him everyday and that he would email me back i emailed like he said and he emailed me back once and on the email he told me a "a hot chick offered him a lap dance" no i know i am supposed to trust him which i do but i dont trust those others girls and when he drunk a lot of stuff can happen. i cant call him because his siter hates me and will yell at me so what should i do? should i worry?
I wouldn't really worry honestly. If he loves you, he won't..well try to prevent doing anything that would ever hurt you. He's only 16, so what girl would want to give him a lap dance [no offense]? He wants you to be jealous. Talk with him when he comes back, and tell him to be honest. Don't call him, he wants you to be all "OMG-WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS SECOND-DON'T GO NEAR HER!". Don't give him the satisfaction! ♥ Hun, don't worry about it! As for him being drunk, he shouldn't really be drinking, and he would probably have to show an id to drink. If he did that to you, then he wouldn't be worth it anyway! After all, you have been together for four months, so I doubt he'd throw it all away for some hot night in Vegas- have a little more trust, and just hope he's being a good boy, lol. ♥ if you need anything, just contact me
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i always have a hard time studing and getting focused does anyone have like any study tips that could help me cuz i get a good grade in all but usualy my mind goes blank...thnx ill rate high!
I think we all have this problem sometimes! It's other things totally working on your mind that don't want to make you think.
Try these helpful hints:
1. Make it interesting for yourself. Make notecards and drills [even writing it out sometimes helps you memorize things more, it def helps me!].
2. Look online for some helpful info.
3. Get a 'study buddy'! You can help each other learn little tricks for memorization, and they might be able to explain something you don't get, visa versa.
4. FOCUS. Even though you feel like you can't, go into a quiet room, think about NOTHING else except what your reading.
Hope I've helped, and if you need ANYTHING, just contact me, I'd be glad to help!
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okay i have a verizon cell phone and i have a year and a half left of the plan. i wanna get rid of it and get a new cell phone (cingular or t-mobile) but it costs $179 to cancel the verizon plan. should i cancel my plan, or should i just wait until my plan ends to get a new cell phone?
I THINK theres a way of getting out of your contract without paying. Try calling up and talking to the customer service people, then ask for a manager and say how unhappy you are and would like to cancel the plan without paying, because it's not fair that you don't like their plan and service. Try it, it's worked with a lot of people I know! Good luck. [BTW- Cingular is a better company] HOPE I'VE HELPED! ♥
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i hate liars and my boyfrined lies constantly.. not so much to me.. but sometimes to me.. i cant always tell if hes telling the truth.. i guess sometimes his lies are for my benefit? we also really like eachother.. what should i do
I know that you really like him, but if you hate liars, you can't be with this guy. You should sit down with him and tell him how you feel about lying, and that you'd love to hear the truth from him, because lies can hurt you more than the truth will. ♥ It might be hard, but he might realize what he's doing and start being totally honest with you. Good luck!
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i wrote a question earlier about my verizon phone and how i wanna cancel it (it costs $179). but what company should i get for my new phone if i cancel my plan? the only differences between them is t-mobile is $10 less but doesn't have a phone that i really like. cingular does but its $10 more. which phone should i get?
Cingular. Seriously, I had TMobile and their customer service is definitely not the best, and they find ways to charge you over little things. Cingular is much better, great reception and service, with a helpful staff. I have the family plan with my Dad, but I use a lot of text messages and alot on AIM, so I'd recommend getting the highest MEdia package, I think it's $12 extra a month, if you are interested in that sort of stuff- at first I didn't know and got like the cheaper one, the $8 one, and it costs 10 cents PER message, and I literally drove up a $500 bill! So be careful with online time [esp if you sign in to Yahoo if you go on MEdia Net or AIM], but definitely choose Cingular. Check out their site for some FREE phones, they mail it to you for free too I believe, and some offers are only available online. I've got my mother- a person who doesn't like to change- to switch over! She loves it! ♥ Good luck!
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Near my armpit, I have a bump. Its about 1/2in by 1/2in. It looks like a buise but it, i dont know how to put this, its like, elevated. i have know idea what it is or how i got it. I've had it for about 4 months. The first month, when i squeezed it, a puss like fluid came out. But not anymore. It juts hurts when i touch it. Does anyone have any idea's on what it is?
Yucky- sounds to me like it might have infected with the puss coming out. Did you try putting a little like, peroxide to see if anything else will come out? Try taking a cotton ball with peroxide and leaving it there and see what happens. It might just be a really bad irritation [stupid I know, but possibly a reaction from a deodorant, or shaving, but shaving I doubt], but you should tell your mom or someone and get it checked out if it still doesn't go away. Do you remember ever bunking into something that could have possibly poked you in that area? If so, it might be from that, maybe a little something got stuck in there and then got infected [which could have caused the puss] and then now it's healing. Hope I've helped, and I hope that bump goes away! ♥
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OK, I've been dating this guy for about a month or so ...and a few of my friends think he just wants sex and im not quite sure either....One time he asked me to have sex one night but i said no. we've hung out since then and he tried to get me to give him head and stuff but i didnt and we still hang out and whatever but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend or anything yet so thats why im unsure nor even have we talked about it . all our phone conversations are pretty short and just consist of making plans and whats up how r u n stuff along those lines however we do talk once in a while for like 15 minutes....so my ? is do u think he just wants sex? and anyways to find out besides talking to him about it
No, he probably just doesn't want to have sex. He did try it with you, but maybe he respects your wishes when you said no. If he didn't he's being a jerk. The other possibility though is he just tried to get something out of you, but I highly doubt that because he would have tried again or he would be completly ignoring you now. He might just feel awkward that you said no to him [not that you were wrong!]. You might want to ask him what's going on, why he's quiet, maybe it has nothing to do with you either. If you want to be totally foward say "Um, you haven't really been the same since, you know, you asked me to have sex." and see what he says, it definitely wouldn't hurt. ♥ HOPE I'VE HELPED!
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