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Question Posted Tuesday March 29 2005, 8:50 pm

14/f ok ive liked one guy and only one in my whole life.. we went out before but barely talked it was pretty stupid and now he has a g/f.. guys have asked me out and theres nothing really wrong with them.. i just cant because i always want to be open for him.. i dont want to be this way forever, always wanting him.. how am i supposed to get over it?

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ForevayOurzx3 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 7:06 pm:
hey i kno waht you mean .. ive like one boi since 8 grade almost a year and ive gona outw ith other guys and ben asked out but no matter what tey dont last long cause i wana b open to him but tell this boi how you feel and see waht he sayas and if he likes you then tell him that your not gona wait forever and your getting tired of being like this but if he really wants to b with you then he better choose and soon

hope i helped .. xO - Megan

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girdy_goo15 answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 6:40 am:
just say yes to the next guy that you like. just forget about the other guy. he's not worth it.

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karenR answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 1:23 am:
No you really can't wait forever.You'll wake up and be 80 or something and wonder where your life went!
But, you are only 14 and have plenty of time.All the guy's your age are probably a little immature yet. So, just go out and have fun and sooner or later they will all grow up and you will get yourself a good one. Chances are at 14 him and his girlfriend aren't gonna last long.

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xOtWiXi answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 10:35 pm:
Hey- aw! Well, there's not way of getting over your first love COMPLETELY, but you will move on.. but just remember- if it's meant to be, it'll happen. Give it time, try mingling with new guys, maybe you'll find a great guy [BETTER than anything you would expect] Good luck and if you need anything, just contact me! ♥

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pretty_n_punk09 answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:38 pm:
I've done that before. You really don't want to be in this position. Your turning down perfectly good guys for someone who doesn't like you. If he did, then he would have already asked you out again. You need to find out if he really likes you and you really need to move on with your life. You know I'm not trying to be mean, but you've got to start liking other guys.

~Hope that helped~

~K~

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Ecuagrlhelpsu answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:37 pm:
ok well you need to try to say yes to all these other guys that ask you dont just wait for this guy maybe hes a totally jerk and thats why he dont ask u out!1 thatrs wat i think!!
xoxoxo
~~~~~~~AnDrEa

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Jameskrenzke answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:35 pm:
Just let your mind know that ther is no point in wasting ur life chasing him and move on

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dorinflower55 answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:24 pm:
try going out with another guy, or just hanging out with more guys as friends. It might take your mind off him and then you'll be more open. try to think if there was maybe one characteristic you like about him in particular and look for another guy who has that characteristic. it might help.
-hope i helped a little
-dorinflower55

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therocketsummer answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:21 pm:
You don't want to live life like that, so true because you knows, one of those guys you turned down could have been the one. You can't hold on to something you don't have anymore. How would it make you feel if your boyfriend had a girl that was always waiting, wanting. I'd feel a bit jealous, but nothing against you because boys are hard to get over at times. Try and go with another guy so you can try and get over him one step at a time.

♥ Kristin

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GheadMak3myDay answered Tuesday March 29 2005, 9:12 pm:
Go out with one of the other guys who asked you - simple as that. The more you date, the more you will find that other guys will have qualities that you will find overwhelmingly attractive. But you MUST give them a chance. If you don't give another guy a chance, then there's no way for you to get over the first guy.

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