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liars..
i hate liars and my boyfrined lies constantly.. not so much to me.. but sometimes to me.. i cant always tell if hes telling the truth.. i guess sometimes his lies are for my benefit? we also really like eachother.. what should i do
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I think that you should either set him straight or low-jack him! jk! ((srry bout spelling!)) If he continuse to lie afta that...this rele depends on your type...GIVE HIM A TASTE OF HIS OWN MEDACINE! You can lie to him....or....you can brake up with him...but you said you 2 really like eachother... asHleyx3
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ask him to please not lie to u cause it takes some of your trust in him away and u want to be able to trust him all the time
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Talk to him about it first, and find out why he does and tell him that you would like him to be more honest. If you notice he's still lieing to you a week after you talk to him, maybe you should break up with him. Even though you really like him its also important that you trust him.
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You could try talking to him. Say like I know some times you tell me untruths and its to protect me and my feelings but please don't I don't like it and I can handle the truth. Also can you try not to lie to other people either i don't like it it's not nice it won't help you or them. May be now it will now but in thwe long run it's hurts those yuo lie to and you self and please stop. If he stops lying t every body tell him your thatnkful foer it. If he just stops lieing to yuo say thank you for not lieinfg to me but please try a little to not lie to any body else. If he won't stop lieing tell him that if he lies again you will lime break up with him or something.
I hope my advice hlps you and he stops lieing.
Good Luck
Karazi Kenzee
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any kind of relationship..whether its a bf/gf thing or a fwb thing..must have a level of trust. when the trust is broken ..the relationship begins to fall apart. tell him you dont want him to lie to you..because you need to feel like you can trust him..i dont blame you for having trust problems with a person who lies. I would too..so if he still doesnt listen..find an honest guy
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You should tell him about his lying problems. What happens if he cheats on you and lies to you? Is that lying for your benifit? You should really consider even dating him really.. I mean hun... I have trust issues. If my boyfriend lied to me I would tell him about it and stuff.. And if he kept doing it I would break up with him because I can't trust him you know? But of course. That is my opinion.
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I'd give it a little time, and if it happens like one or two more times or something..I would break up with him if I were you. That's just my opinion though. I mean, it's not like you're in love but I know it would be hard still because you really like eachother. But maybe if you STRESS to him how important it is that he is honest, and as long as you're completely honest with him, see how it goes from there.
Good Luck.
`jessie
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Well, personally I would tell your guy straight out that this has got to stop. First of all, a relationship is based on trust, and if you really mean something to him then he should stop. A guy who lies has something to fear, that is why he would be lying in the first place. Maybe he's worried that you will get mad or maybe its just a bad habit. I get offensive on topics like this because the last boyfriend broke my heart from his lying. I never knew he got so close to my best friend and still to this day have not heard about the secret relationship they had. But bottom line, lying means trouble. I'm not saying start screaming and cause a big fight. Maybe you could suggest a quiet romantic dinner where this slips into conversation that you don't feel comfortable when you find the truth to a lie.
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i say dump him.. without trust there is no love ( <--moulin rouge) he could go out one night without you and tell you he was with his friends when he was out doing stuff with other girls.. your whole relationship will just be a lie
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I know that you really like him, but if you hate liars, you can't be with this guy. You should sit down with him and tell him how you feel about lying, and that you'd love to hear the truth from him, because lies can hurt you more than the truth will. ♥ It might be hard, but he might realize what he's doing and start being totally honest with you. Good luck!
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i think you ask him when he answers a question and ask if hes really telling the truth. i can understand that he would lie to try not to hurt you but you want a bf that is honest with you. try talking to him. good luck
~natt~
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