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Okay, I have a friend, and like we are like brother and sister. But ppl keep telling me that he likes me and stuff, and i like sit on his lap and kiss him and crap, but i dont like him like that. What should I do to let him know that i'm sorry that i lead him on and stuff, but i don't want to be a couple?


alright so i think that you should probably talk to him next time, so that he doesnt think that youre leading him onn . if this doesnt work then maybe you should avoid him ? i kno that you love him and stuff but sometimes thats what you gotta do to make things work outt .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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Tonight is New Years ! & i don't know how i should make my hair should i put it up, put it down & straighten it, or put it down and curl it ?



Thnank you !



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straighten it, and then put the toppart in huge curlers, and then once it is up in the curlers you spray it with hairspray to pump up the volume !!

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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What is really good for pimples !
That works the best !



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A cream called Shiseido, and you can find it in department stores like filenes . its a wash that really does clear up your skin super fast !!

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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My father died about 3 years ago and now I am going out with this boy that is a lot like him...is that a bad thing? I mean I love him but he is just...a lot like my dad! Am I being stupid going out with him or is it like a bad ideas or something? I have these feelings like he is going to leave me, but I thought that maybe that is just because my dad "left" me...I don't know...I'm confusing...I know! But I would really like any help I can get!thanks!


just because he reminds you of your dad it doesnt mean that you shouldnt go out with him . if you think that your dad was a good role model for others to follow, then theres no reason why you should feel guilty about it . its natural to keep remembering your dad, but its okay because he never left you on purpose .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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ok! i really like this boy and he will be at the same new years eve party as me tomorrow, how should i let him know i like him?


you should definetely flirt with him a lot and smile and compliment him, then right before the party is over, get his number and call him shortly after to hang out . or if you already have his number than you should totally call him soon !!

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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my bf is wonderful. I care for him alot...i don't know about love..but i care for him alot. The thing is, whenever I am with him, like at the movies, or at zoo lights, i love it when we just cuddle. I feel so safe when he has his arms around me and i just sleep on him, or just relax on him. I am not really that much into kissing. His best friend is my guy friend and when i talk to him on the phone, he says that my bf tells him that he likes me alot alot but he wants to kiss me more. So i went to the movies with him yesterday and we saw King Kong. It was like 3 hours. For the first two hours we just cuddled. I couldn't bring myself to kiss him for some reason. I kept on getting texts from my guy friend saying kiss him now, do it now..so i made out with him for like 10 seconds, then i went back to cuddling. is it so wrong to just want to cuddle? i don't understand what is wrong with me, why can't i bring myself to make out with him for a long time?


babe, theres nothing wrong with cuddling but sometimes a guy needs a little boost here and there ;) just try making out with him again, and see what happens . in my opinion, hooking up with guys just makes the relationship stronger =)
so give it a try ! lemme know if anything goes wrong .
xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I have pimples here and there. I have tried like almost everything. Proactive doesn’t work for me so don’t say that! Pulse half of you just say it because everyone else says it works because you just want a good rating. I need any home remedies or anything I can buy. I have oily skin btw if this helps! Plz what can I do??


babe maybe you should see a dermatologist ?
sorrrry if everyone else is saying that .

xoo thats all that ive got ♥

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HI!I am Sanchita from India.I have a problem,well the problem is that I can't say no to people who ask me for hepl,if I manage to say NO then I fell bad and feel guilty,PLEASE tell me what should I do.


heyy !
if you want to say NO nicely to people, then you have a couple options to let them off ::
xx - "I think I can handle it, thanks though."
xx - "I'll be fine, thanks."
xx - "Oh, it's fine you don't have to do that."

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I have had my period for about a year now. My breasts are developing, but much slower than other girls. Why? Will my breast development speed up? If so, when?


dont worry at all . everybody develops at a diffrent time !! even though the other girls may have developed already, it doesnt mean that you are never going to. of course it will speed up !! just relax and enjoy life =)

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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i dont understand what prude means.


is it liike where you havent hooked up with anyone or had sex?


14/f


prude is when you havent made out with a guyy !!

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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What the crap does this " ♥ " mean?


its a heart !!

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OK i am 14 now and my hole life i have never cut my hair ewell i mean trims and when i got gum in it but thts diff. ok its dirtyblond brownish. and past my hips. and lots of people think i should cut it but others think i should leave it alown. and it looks really good when i curl it or what ever but i don't know cus i don't look at it from other peoples point of view so I don't know what i should do with it cut it or no. and also if you have any ideas about stuff i can do with it like styling it like other than down and ponytails. please help
~Goldylocks~


personally, i think you should cut it for locks of love because that way you can get your hair cut and still make a child in need happy . if you want to get your hair cut but not so much, a few inches off cant hurt . now, for the styling ideas of long hair ::

double twisted bands -
1. Part your hair in the center.
2. Take two-inch sections of hair from each side of your part and twist them towards the back of your head. When the two pieces meet at the back of your head, secure them together with an elastic.
3. Take two-inch sections from the front of your hair just below the first two sections. Twist them both to the back of your head and secure in the same manner.

genie tail -
1. Gather your hair into a ponytail on the top of your head. Secure with an elastic.
2. Take a large section of hair from the ponytail and wrap it around the elastic.
3. Secure the ends of the section underneath the ponytail with two bobby pins.

teased and half up -
1. Spritz all of your hair lightly with hairspray.
2. Hold your hair straight up by its ends and back-comb it down to create volume.
2. Gather the top half of your hair into a loose high ponytail and secure it with an elastic.

all colied up-
1. Divide your hair into a top half and a bottom half.
2. Gather the bottom half of your hair into a ponytail and twist it into a low bun. Secure the bun in place with four or five bobby pins.
4. Divide the top half of your hair into three equal-sized sections.
5. Twist each section towards the back of your head and keep twisting until you've created three coils above the original low bun. Secure the coils to your head--and the ends of the coils underneath--with bobby pins.


i got these ideas from seventeen magazine, but if you want more ideas, check out www.seventeen.com/hairideas

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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16/F.
My 2 best friends have been going out since the summer (don't worry, it's a guy/girl....) I'm really happy for them & all, but sometimes it gets annoying, because whenever I do get to spend time with either one of them (since they're constantly with each other), we always end up discussing the person's bf / gf. They are always asking, "So what does he/she say about me??" & I always end up having to spill the juicy, mushy details of all the "oh she/he's so hot" & all that. I feel less like their friend & more like their spy now! It really makes me feel used. So, my question is... is it wrong for me to want them / encourage them to break up (I know that seems kind of selfish, but....) or what am I supposed to do about this? I rate 5's for non-crap answers. ;)


hey babe . i understand how you feel as if you are the spy, but trust me, they just want to hear the other person talk about them and then to find out from you . they are deffinetely not using you, if they are your best friends . it is deffinetely not the best idea to encourage your friends to break up, but its only something that naturally comes to you, and you cant help that . but just try to talk to them each normally next time they do this, or just simply tell them that you dont enjoy having to tell them what the other one said because it makes you feel used . once you get that out, im sure they would never do it again because they are your best friends .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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is there any way for boys to "finger" themselves?


haha no they cant finger themselves . but they sure can jack off !!

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I have a bf and we've been going out for 3 months, but i've kept this hidden from my parents the entire time, i'm 13 mind u, and my mom wont let me have a bf she says its already enough that i've had my first kiss and she found me downstairs cuddling with a guy, with my head on his lap sleeping, i really dont see why i cant have a bf i think she's over reacting bc i know kids my age do way more than kiss or cuddle is she over reacting???? i'll rate high for any suggestions, or anyway to see my boyfriend w/o getting caught thanks


i think that she is over reacting but you know, she cant really help it i guess . i mean when i had a bf i never told my parents about it because i knew they would freak . but im thinking that it might be a good idea to just calmly tell her about your bf because then when you want to go to his house or he goes to your house or whatever, it wont be as sneaky . and also it might feel good to get it out, you know ?

if you dont wanna tell your mom about him at all, then you should just tell her that your going to a friends house and dont mention any names, but if she does ask you whos house then say one of your friends . alrightyy good luck ! and happy new year !! =)

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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I am a 14 year old girl and for a about a year now everyday I have a thick white cream come out of me.. yea I know thats gross but I was just wondering is this natural or should i be worried?


i think its pretty normal because girls get this for quite some time before their period . so dont be scared, its just your body telling you that everything is going okay .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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is there a way to get tan without going tanning, self tanner or going out in the sun?


sorry sweetie but, no . unless you wanna go to the tanning salon ?? ♥

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how do you pronounce gynecologist


okay here we go now ::

guy - nuh - call - a - gist ♥

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Im 15 female and ive never had a boyfriend before. Im not going to say im ugly becuase people will just say "youre beautiful inside" blah blah. But my question: Will a guy still want to go out with me if i dont want to do anything past makeing out? Well at least him doing to me..or until i feel more comfortable with my body.

So am i considered prude?
Will I ever get a boyfriend if i feel this way?


aww doll its okay to still be prude at your age it doesnt mean that you're ugly because guys dont wanna be with you, it means that guys dont have the common sense to be with you . but of course, you have to wait for the right guy to come around and sweep you off your feet . for real, i mean most guys dont actually love their girlfriends, they just want them for the "fun" if you know what im saying . but also, i know from experience that its wayyyy better to find the right guy then moann over the guy that you know you cant have, or the guy that you've always wanted and he'll never like you . not that im saying this is what you're going through, but just to wait it out . and of course you will get a boyfriend ! one that loves you for who you are and not for the sexx .

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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what is the best food to use to help your cat loose weight...thanx...i will rate high for good answer....♥


Iams Canned Iams Weight Control™ Chicken & Rice Formula Cat Food works very nicely to trim the extra inches off your cat!

For more info on the weight control business check out this site - http://iams.com/en_US/jhtmls/product/sw_ProductDetail_Page.jhtml?pdi=71&li=en_US&bc=I&sc=C&pti=PD&tc=1&bsc=&lsc=&_DARGS=%2Fen_US%2Fjhtmls%2Fproduct%2Fsw_ProductList_droplet.jhtml.4_A&_DAV=1

xoo hope this helps !! ♥

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